Now...What would the men of BGOL do?

[onyxfemme]

My guy friend told me a while ago that his wife might bi. He said that she has a friend in Chicago that she goes to "visit". She says that they are only friends now, but that they had sex once....Ok fast forward to this morning:

He calls me and says, go to his wifes "friends" page..Her status shows in a relationship. I was like big deal. He said ok...But look at the pictures she just posted. I looked....20 of them and 18 of them are w/ his wife.....These broads look like a couple!

He said I thought something was odd when I went to bed last week and she was over...I said I was going to bed and she asked can I go to. He said his wife smacked her leg and was like hush...

I asked him how he felt-he said I dont feel any kind of way-hell it is out there now. I was like
I said as your wife if she is bi, she shouldnt be doing anything behind your back-she needs to bring it home.
I asked if he was open with a threesome w/ her and his wife. He said yes, but he is cool with everything like this....It is not in his face so he isnt going to trip...



My question to the men of BGOL...What would you do?

 

[divine]

So his wife is cheating on him? With a broad.. but cheating nonetheless.. and she's bringing it in their home. Technically Its like bringing some dude she's fucking to his house in his face.


But anyway.. how does he feel about it..other than wanting a threesome.

 

[rundatrack]

How she look..

 

[BGLR1212000]

I knew somebody in the exact same situation. Dude is divorced now. Shit seems cool initially, but that shit really is shady.

 

[Notorious P.I.M.P.]

3 some!!!


But really though my WIFE!!!! I'd divorce her ass! Quick! If I loved her.

If I didn't 3 some!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[malaki]

i'm getting proof and getting my divorce lawyer on the phone so i can get alimony

 

[Hellfish]

3some then I'm filing for divorce. I don't believe in bisexuality. Once you start playing for the other team you're pretty much gay in my book.

 

[BGLR1212000]

His wife aint open for the threesome, so is he supposed to try to convince her?

 

[ClevelandDawg216]

3some then I'm filing for divorce. I don't believe in bisexuality. Once you start playing for the other team you're pretty much gay in my book.

 

[SmoothD]

Then I would divorce her.

 

[spicykjun]

evidence of her deceptive ways then call her out on it then as many 3sums as possible

depending on how shit goes i'll either hav 2 wives or b a divorced nigga

 

[Jumbodicc]

threesome with a chick I'm just fucking with. My wife, ain't no way. Divorce and nail that bitch to the wall. She has no respect for dude if she bring the chick in their home.

 

[onyxfemme]

Thats just it....SHE isnt open to a 3 some because she feels that it would complicate their marriage....GTFOOHWTBS!!!!!!!
She is basically cheating on him!
He said he is cool w/ it being NOT in his face and a "un spoken" thing..He is not approaching her for a threesome at all...But the chick she is messing w/ tried to put it out there and the wife hushed her up.
I told him straight up he needs to man up...Then I felt bad because I am not a man...And who the hell am I to tell a man how he should behave in his marriage....But as a woman, I believe that his wifes behavior is selfish and disrespectful.

 

[ron_mexico]

Id divorce her confused ass.

 

[gene cisco]

He needs to man the fuck up on some frank white King of New York shit.

"Nothing goes down without me getting a piece. No pussy play, no titties sucked, no nothing!!! If a pussy is getting played with around here, I want in!!"

Seriously, cats need to man the fuck up and lay down some ground rules, many times that all a woman wants you to do, be a fucking man.

 

[onyxfemme]

Then I would divorce her.

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!! THIS IS MY POINT EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!

He needs to man the fuck up on some frank white King of New York shit.

"Nothing goes down without me getting a piece. No pussy play, no titties sucked, no nothing!!! If a pussy is getting played with around here, I want in!!"

Seriously, cats need to man the fuck up and lay down some ground rules, many times that all a woman wants you to do, be a fucking man.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

My guy friend told me a while ago that his wife might bi. He said that she has a friend in Chicago that she goes to "visit". She says that they are only friends now, but that they had sex once....Ok fast forward to this morning:

He calls me and says, go to his wifes "friends" page..Her status shows in a relationship. I was like big deal. He said ok...But look at the pictures she just posted. I looked....20 of them and 18 of them are w/ his wife.....These broads look like a couple!

He said I thought something was odd when I went to bed last week and she was over...I said I was going to bed and she asked can I go to. He said his wife smacked her leg and was like hush...

I asked him how he felt-he said I dont feel any kind of way-hell it is out there now. I was like
I said as your wife if she is bi, she shouldnt be doing anything behind your back-she needs to bring it home.
I asked if he was open with a threesome w/ her and his wife. He said yes, but he is cool with everything like this....It is not in his face so he isnt going to trip...



My question to the men of BGOL...What would you do?

I think your advice was sound. His wife shouldn't be doing the shit behind his back, especially if he doesn't really mind. That's lying for no reason right there.
I would be irritated at the sneaking more than the act. But if her and her girl aren't down to share, it would have to end. There won't be no fun if your husband can't have none.

 

[Flawless]

divorce, you would be stupid to wife a confused bitch like that

 

[Hellfish]

I believe that his wifes behavior is selfish and disrespectful.

c/s Once you allow disrespect in the home expect to see a lot more of. He needs to do a preemptive strike and file because he is a fool to not think that at some point she will leave him.

 

[Kaine3000]

Thats jist it....SHE isnt open to a 3 some because she feels that it would complicate their marriage....GTFOOHWTBS!!!!!!!

Fuck that..

and then

 

[spicykjun]

Thats just it....SHE isnt open to a 3 some because she feels that it would complicate their marriage....GTFOOHWTBS!!!!!!!
She is basically cheating on him!
He said he is cool w/ it being NOT in his face and a "un spoken" thing..He is not approaching her for a threesome at all...But the chick she is messing w/ tried to put it out there and the wife hushed her up.
I told him straight up he needs to man up...Then I felt bad because I am not a man...And who the hell am I to tell a man how he should behave in his marriage....But as a woman, I believe that his wifes behavior is selfish and disrespectful.

in that note

 

[rundatrack]

Thats just it....SHE isnt open to a 3 some because she feels that it would complicate their marriage....GTFOOHWTBS!!!!!!!
She is basically cheating on him!
He said he is cool w/ it being NOT in his face and a "un spoken" thing..He is not approaching her for a threesome at all...But the chick she is messing w/ tried to put it out there and the wife hushed her up.
I told him straight up he needs to man up...Then I felt bad because I am not a man...And who the hell am I to tell a man how he should behave in his marriage....But as a woman, I believe that his wifes behavior is selfish and disrespectful.

Thanks for the clarification. Divorce immediately.....its done. No coming back...

 

[the Imm font]

hes allowing it so shes going to do it. just that simple. I see nothing wrong with her actions

 

[big pimp]

i'm getting proof and getting my divorce lawyer on the phone so i can get alimony

c/s!

 

[onyxfemme]

You bring up a valid point...There is NO reason to sneak! If she is sneaking behind his back w/ something HE doesnt mind...Then there is no telling what type of lies she is holding in....And also I know that being married means what you do in your bedroom is your business w/ your wife or husband. But it should always involve the spouse...

I dont like sneaky bitches

I think your advice was sound. His wife shouldn't be doing the shit behind his back, especially if he doesn't really mind. That's lying for no reason right there.
I would be irritated at the sneaking more than the act. But if her and her girl aren't down to share, it would have to end. There won't be no fun if your husband can't have none.

TRUTH!!!

c/s Once you allow disrespect in the home expect to see a lot more of. He needs to do a preemptive strike and file because he is a fool to not think that at some point she will leave him.

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in that note

 

[MadWun]

He is getting played as a bitch ass simp, right there in the open in front of his face.

Divorce with the quickness, especially since this is behind his back. it not like they agreed that this is part of the relationship.

He needs to get his self esteem up and keep it real with himself and his soon to be ex-wife. If she wants to be with women, cool, we get a divorce and go our separate ways.

What the fuck is up with some men today?

 

[OnSlaught]

Wow Onyx, wow! Tell your friend to get rid of her immediately. Maybe they can be cool later on down the road but for your wife not to be open with you about some shit like that and then deny you what her girl was tryin' to offer shows she's a selfish bitch.

No room for selfishness in a marriage...none!

 

[ZuluSam]

Then I would divorce her.

wicked elbow

 

[Drayonis]

3some then I'm filing for divorce. I don't believe in bisexuality. Once you start playing for the other team you're pretty much gay in my book.

I agree. I've fucked bi women but I'd never wife one.

 

[Five Realms]

We'd be done and divorced. Even though it's with a woman, it's still cheating. I learned a long time ago that a threesome is a lot of fun, as long as it's not with your significant other.

When you bring someone who is outside of your marriage, into your marriage, there is a problem. A marriage can only fit two people. Any more and you're asking for trouble.

I'm not married now, so if my girlfriend wanted to being another woman into our bedroom, I'd do it. But only because when we were done, I'd be moving my shit out the next day. If she has the balls to ask me to bring someone else into our bed, that tells me that she's already been fuckin with this person behind my back. I'd have some fun with it for a night, but in the back of my mind I'd know that I could never trust her again.

 

[Winslow Wong]

Outside sex doesn't destroy a marriage -

Intimacy does -

If she was just lickin ol girl - and that was that - it would not be a problem

but the intimacy is something that he will feel as she gets closer and closer to the other woman

very few people can truly be intimate with more than one person -

 

[MadWun]

I agree. I've fucked bi women but I'd never wife one.

They have to be upfront.

I know this dude, I swear his wife is bi. She hangs out to lesbians, go to lesbian parties and all. Before he married her, it was suspected that she was bi, but no confirmation. I recently saw pics of her on Facebook at a lesbian party. All that matters is if he is accepting of that part of her, so be it.

He is a better man than me though.

 

[SmoothD]

For being a simp

 

[papi68]

This happens more than people guys realize. It, obviously, also happens where the dude is bi, unbeknownst to his wife. Wow, there is so much I could say. Being an attorney has its privileges...we hear about everything.

 

[freshnclean]

I would try to get at least a 3some out of the deal