Not that it matters, but what race is your woman/wife???

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Only 11 percent of 2008 intermarriages were between black and white Americans, reflecting the persistent cultural resistance against relationships between these races. Most common were marriages between a white and a Hispanic (41 percent), followed by marriage between a white and an Asian American (15 percent).



Percentage Who Married Someone of a Different Race/Ethnicity, 1980 and 2010

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Interestingly, although younger people were more accepting of intermarriage, the Pew report found little difference in actual intermarriage rates by age—newlyweds age 50 or older were about as likely to marry out as younger newlyweds.


White Men and Women Who "Married Out" in 2008 by Race/Ethnicity of Spouse

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These 2008 marriages follow similar patterns by sex as interracial marriages of previous decades. For whites, men and women are about as likely to marry a Hispanic, but differ in their rates of marriage to blacks and Asians (see Figure 2).

In general, marriages between blacks and whites overwhelmingly involve a white wife and a black husband, just as the Dunham/Obama marriage did in 1961. Unions between Asians and whites are also very sex-selective, with most marriages occurring between white men and Asian women.

Although Asian men are much less likely to marry out than Asian women, they are much more likely than whites to intermarry. Twenty percent of Asian men married a non-Asian in 2008, compared with 40 percent of Asian women. Likewise, black women are much less likely to intermarry than black men. More than one-fifth of black men intermarried in 2008, while just 9 percent of black women did. There has been much speculation about why these gender preferences exist—reasons that delve into racial stereotypes and politics.7

Hispanic men and women are about as likely to marry outside their ethnic group, and they tend to marry non-Hispanic whites more than other groups.
 
If it doesnt matter, then why make a thread about it?

lol

You always say you are above this but you feed into and carry on with this race issue as much as the rest of us
 
Like the point youre making in your sig?

you apparently care so little for peoples opinions ... yet your sig is addressing those same people every time you post lol

Boy, bye! I dont have time for your simple hypocritical incapable of debating ass
 
Not that Puerto Rican or Hispanic/Latino is a race, but my wife is PR, like me,so I chose other. Similar to me, her skin tone is closer to Native than it is to Black or White, but we both acknowledge and respect our Black, White and Native blood.
 
I saw that after the fact. I replied too quickly. The polls always post last. I would have added Hispanic and Non-American Black, Non-American white (like Canadians). Also maybe Arab or Middle Eastern, Indian (from India).

A lot of people focus on the small percentage of interracial relationships that they forget that the majority of people are still married or stay with in their race....



Non-American Black= Black

Non-American white= White

Indian (from India)=Asian
 
My baby is from Foundation Park in Chesapeake Va, and from another thread where it was said "if your perm your hair, then you are......."
 
My baby is from Foundation Park in Chesapeake Va, and from another thread where it was said "if your perm your hair, then you are......."
 
A lot of people focus on the small percentage of interracial relationships that they forget that the majority of people are still married or stay with in their race....



Non-American Black= Black

Non-American white= White

Indian (from India)=Asian


I get the point you are trying to make, the majority are going to have black women. However, dating or being attracted to white/other women is not what makes black women mad. Women of all races will acknowledge when another woman is beautiful, and I've seen pretty women of all races. It's dating white women/other and using black women as the excuse. (I have to date a white woman because black women are manly, unfeminine, loud, aggressive, don't take care of themselves, don't cater to their men, meaner, stressful, emasculating etc) Why can't they just love who they want to love without shitting on black women? I always figure they aren't secure in who they love or have their own guilt behind it. Date who you want to date, but don't use us to justify it.
 
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I get the point you are trying to make, the majority are going to have black women. However, dating or being attracted to white/other women is not what makes black women mad. Women of all races will acknowledge when another woman is beautiful, and I've seen pretty women of all races. It's dating white women/other and using black women as the excuse. (I have to date a white woman because black women are manly, unfeminine, loud, aggressive, don't take care of themselves, don't cater to their men, nicer, stressful, emasculating etc) Why can't they just love who they want to love without shitting on black women? I always figure they aren't secure in who they love or have their own guilt behind it. Date who you want to date, but don't use us to justify it.

...if someone lives in a bad neighborhood, and have the means to move, are they wrong for moving? Is it wrong to say they made that move because they didn't like the conditions of the environment? That could very well be true, and of course the people who remained in the neighborhood won't like that you said that, but it is what it is.

Shit, you have women who stop dating men altogether because they don't like how men are in general. Same true for men who turn homo.

You think, somehow, black women, who have a reputation for being everything you listed, wouldn't turn some men off? You have black women who take PRIDE in this shit.

I get that as a black woman you don't want to be made the scapegoat for anything, but sometimes a rock is just a fucking rock.

Hell, I've had black women tell me why they don't fuck with black men. The fuck was I supposed to say? She's wrong?

We're all a sum total of our experiences...

...and if your experiences with a certain group have been largely negative, at some point you may grow weary of rolling the dice with said group, and seek out - hopefully - greener pasteur's.
 
Oh...you finally found a woman? Congratz.

I've had a woman, I just don't consider her my 'woman'. It ain't gonna last. She knows it. As soon as we can figure out what my mothers financial situation is going to be, I'm leaving the state completely. Can't leave her alone in her condition, and my brother is on some fuck shit, despite all she did for him. But, we're considered an 'item', so I guess I just let the label stick.
 
I get the point you are trying to make, the majority are going to have black women. However, dating or being attracted to white/other women is not what makes black women mad. Women of all races will acknowledge when another woman is beautiful, and I've seen pretty women of all races. It's dating white women/other and using black women as the excuse. (I have to date a white woman because black women are manly, unfeminine, loud, aggressive, don't take care of themselves, don't cater to their men, nicer, stressful, emasculating etc) Why can't they just love who they want to love without shitting on black women? I always figure they aren't secure in who they love or have their own guilt behind it. Date who you want to date, but don't use us to justify it.

I agree of what you are saying, but that is not my point. I will explain later. I'm still working...:cool:
 
...if someone lives in a bad neighborhood, and have the means to move, are they wrong for moving? Is it wrong to say they made that move because they didn't like the conditions of the environment? That could very well be true, and of course the people who remained in the neighborhood won't like that you said that, but it is what it is.

Shit, you have women who stop dating men altogether because they don't like how men are in general. Same true for men who turn homo.

You think, somehow, black women, who have a reputation for being everything you listed, wouldn't turn some men off? You have black women who take PRIDE in this shit.

I get that as a black woman you don't want to be made the scapegoat for anything, but sometimes a rock is just a fucking rock.

Hell, I've had black women tell me why they don't fuck with black men. The fuck was I supposed to say? She's wrong?

We're all a sum total of our experiences...

...and if your experiences with a certain group have been largely negative, at some point you may grow weary of rolling the dice with said group, and seek out - hopefully - greener pasteur's.

*pastures

...smh...

You keep wanting to apply the most negative traits/lowest common denominator to all black women. So by that logic, you are a lazy, shiftless, unemployed, criminal-minded thug, who lives at home with his mother and has 15 kids by 12 different women.

I don't accept that argument from black men or women. There are too many amazing and mentally stable men and women that I know, and I know I can't be unique in that experience. If you keep coming across loser people, look at yourself and your environment and figure out what you are doing to attract them.
 
*pastures

...smh...

You keep wanting to apply the most negative traits/lowest common denominator to all black women. So by that logic, you are a lazy, shiftless, unemployed, criminal-minded thug, who lives at home with his mother and has 15 kids by 12 different women.

I don't accept that argument from black men or women. There are too many amazing and mentally stable men and women that I know, and I know I can't be unique in that experience. If you keep coming across loser people, look at yourself and your environment and figure out what you are doing to attract them.

...and I know a lot of black men who fit that stereotype, and I know many who don't. That doesn't bother me.

I've spent the majority of my life socializing with black people from all social classes - and barring the exceptions, black women tend to fit those stereotypes. Of course, to varying degrees.

Not to mention, I'm hardly the first black man to notice this. You even have black women who have written articles an blogs expressing the same views that I and others have. Not to mention, you have people from other races that have made the same observation.

The last 'sista' - 'cause the woman I'm with right now hardly qualifies - I fucked with had a vibe that I fell in love with. Once the emotions kicked in, she became almost everything I despise about the stereotypical black woman.

But, whatever...

...we've done this shit so much on BGOL that I'm stating to think we're all miserable masochists.
 
I get the point you are trying to make, the majority are going to have black women. However, dating or being attracted to white/other women is not what makes black women mad. Women of all races will acknowledge when another woman is beautiful, and I've seen pretty women of all races. It's dating white women/other and using black women as the excuse. (I have to date a white woman because black women are manly, unfeminine, loud, aggressive, don't take care of themselves, don't cater to their men, meaner, stressful, emasculating etc) Why can't they just love who they want to love without shitting on black women? I always figure they aren't secure in who they love or have their own guilt behind it. Date who you want to date, but don't use us to justify it.

...if someone lives in a bad neighborhood, and have the means to move, are they wrong for moving? Is it wrong to say they made that move because they didn't like the conditions of the environment? That could very well be true, and of course the people who remained in the neighborhood won't like that you said that, but it is what it is.

Shit, you have women who stop dating men altogether because they don't like how men are in general. Same true for men who turn homo.

You think, somehow, black women, who have a reputation for being everything you listed, wouldn't turn some men off? You have black women who take PRIDE in this shit.

I get that as a black woman you don't want to be made the scapegoat for anything, but sometimes a rock is just a fucking rock.

Hell, I've had black women tell me why they don't fuck with black men. The fuck was I supposed to say? She's wrong?

We're all a sum total of our experiences...

...and if your experiences with a certain group have been largely negative, at some point you may grow weary of rolling the dice with said group, and seek out - hopefully - greener pasteur's.

*pastures

...smh...

You keep wanting to apply the most negative traits/lowest common denominator to all black women. So by that logic, you are a lazy, shiftless, unemployed, criminal-minded thug, who lives at home with his mother and has 15 kids by 12 different women.

I don't accept that argument from black men or women. There are too many amazing and mentally stable men and women that I know, and I know I can't be unique in that experience. If you keep coming across loser people, look at yourself and your environment and figure out what you are doing to attract them.

...and I know a lot of black men who fit that stereotype, and I know many who don't. That doesn't bother me.

I've spent the majority of my life socializing with black people from all social classes - and barring the exceptions, black women tend to fit those stereotypes. Of course, to varying degrees.

Not to mention, I'm hardly the first black man to notice this. You even have black women who have written articles an blogs expressing the same views that I and others have. Not to mention, you have people from other races that have made the same observation.

The last 'sista' - 'cause the woman I'm with right now hardly qualifies - I fucked with had a vibe that I fell in love with. Once the emotions kicked in, she became almost everything I despise about the stereotypical black woman.

But, whatever...

...we've done this shit so much on BGOL that I'm stating to think we're all miserable masochists.


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...if someone lives in a bad neighborhood, and have the means to move, are they wrong for moving? Is it wrong to say they made that move because they didn't like the conditions of the environment? That could very well be true, and of course the people who remained in the neighborhood won't like that you said that, but it is what it is.

Shit, you have women who stop dating men altogether because they don't like how men are in general. Same true for men who turn homo.

You think, somehow, black women, who have a reputation for being everything you listed, wouldn't turn some men off? You have black women who take PRIDE in this shit.

I get that as a black woman you don't want to be made the scapegoat for anything, but sometimes a rock is just a fucking rock.

Hell, I've had black women tell me why they don't fuck with black men. The fuck was I supposed to say? She's wrong?

We're all a sum total of our experiences...

...and if your experiences with a certain group have been largely negative, at some point you may grow weary of rolling the dice with said group, and seek out - hopefully - greener pasteur's.

:yes:
 
I get the point you are trying to make, the majority are going to have black women. However, dating or being attracted to white/other women is not what makes black women mad. Women of all races will acknowledge when another woman is beautiful, and I've seen pretty women of all races. It's dating white women/other and using black women as the excuse. (I have to date a white woman because black women are manly, unfeminine, loud, aggressive, don't take care of themselves, don't cater to their men, meaner, stressful, emasculating etc) Why can't they just love who they want to love without shitting on black women? I always figure they aren't secure in who they love or have their own guilt behind it. Date who you want to date, but don't use us to justify it.

That. And for me personally it's a thinning of the herd which no one gives a shit about. I know they don't give a shit about it. That's fine.

It'd be nice if you could be with who you want and not disparage anyone else. But that's not what happens now is it? Also the thing that irks me is the you go be with a whatever and then want to be accepted in the black community. I say go be with who you chose. And let it be done.
 
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