NEW RULE: Don't Date Single Moms! (How Many Agree?)
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I didnt see the first vid and watch about 1min of this one and all i can say is that this dude is:
1. sensitive and a coward. Hes afraid of what someone elses child might say to him. Little do he know his own kids are going to say some shit to him. Kids will be kids. Make em respect you.
2. Selfish. This guy do not plan on ever having a child or making enough money to support a child. Either way he do not want a child to cut into his part time gig.
But thats the world we live in.
1. sensitive and a coward. Hes afraid of what someone elses child might say to him. Little do he know his own kids are going to say some shit to him. Kids will be kids. Make em respect you.
2. Selfish. This guy do not plan on ever having a child or making enough money to support a child. Either way he do not want a child to cut into his part time gig.
But thats the world we live in.
Dude had valid points but it's still an individual decision with too many variables to make a generalized assessment like he has.
LoneStar29
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He keeps saying single Black moms ... I guess every other race of single moms is different
If he doesn't want to date single moms then he shouldn't
If he doesn't want to date single moms then he shouldn't
Damn better hope black women don't stop dating babydaddys too...Yall are going to fuck around and end the black race....
Fuck em and leave em. The same thing I'd do to a girl with no kids. If the chick has more than one kid, I'm not fucking at all, because I can't be #3.
LoneStar29
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I was thinking this too
I love how people act like women have babies alone ... like for every woman who has a child there isn't a man out there that helped her to create it
Some people will say just about anything to push their agendas wether it makes sense or not
Why black "chicks" and black "niggas" instead of black "chicks" and black "men"?
New Rule????? This is an Old ass common sense rule.... Quit living under the assumption that every single mother is product of a deadbeat dad.... no half the time shes just as crazy... This is old news this idiot just realized it..... a woman without kids a a precious commodity these days.....
I can agree this brother on many things he mentioned. I don't mess with females that have a kid/kids because rarely do you encounter a situation where the father of that kid/kids will be man enough to respect the fact that another dude is living up in a crib with his mother of his child and not bring drama. It's too much opportunity for drama and though he point black women out only I assume he did that cause that's his preference in women but we all are aware this spans further than black women. I got two really good female friends that are single mothers and both are dyme pieces. They both wanted to take our friendship to another level but I had to decline cause the father's kid was stirring up drama.
First statement I ever agreed on with you.
I imposed this rule on myself a long time ago. I don't want to deal with the drama and I don't want to be with a woman who is a bad decision maker. Any woman who has a child without being married is a bad decision maker in my eyes, because they should have been on birth control or condoms. There is no excuse these days. If she was married and got divorced it's a different story.
Man, this dude is late..this is not a new rule..every single man know that it's not cool with date a woman with kids...
leave those single moms alone...hell just fuck them and bounce..
peace
leave those single moms alone...hell just fuck them and bounce..
peace
It actually makes sense to date people you have something in common with. A woman with a child/children is better off dating a man with a child/children. I have dated men without children and they want children. Well I'm not having their child/children so there is no future in the relationship. There is nothing wrong with having preferences when it comes to dating. And just because a woman has a child outside of marriage does not make her a bad decision maker. Once pregnancy has occurred, the decision she has to make is whether to have the child, have an abortion, or put the child up for adoption. Women have gotten pregnant while on the pill, and condoms do break.
Not sure where yall are looking but I don't talk to any female with kids, with the youngest being 22.
it was a matter of time before someone came in the thread saying some nonsense about every black chick he meets has no kids.... yeah nigga... ok..
not sure where i said EVERY female I meet is without kids however I do see where I said I don't talk to females with kids.
2 types of problems, mine and yours.
you not being able to find females without kids sounds like your problem
LoneStar29
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Man, this dude is late..this is not a new rule..every single man know that it's not cool with date a woman with kids...
leave those single moms alone...hell just fuck them and bounce..
peace
Why would you wanna stick your dick in someone you deem unworthy of being with you???
And why after you pull a hit and run on her are you confused about why she's stalking you or acting crazy Just don't fuck with them at all if you think you are better than them ... that will save you ALOT of headaches
I love how BGOL is acting like women make babies alone. NEWSFLASH for every baby mother there is a baby father so it will be just as hard to find a man without kids as it is to find a woman without kids ... 1 + 1 = 2 people it's quite simple
na patna...it's not my problem either. i don't date black women at all. the original point i was trying to make is it is very difficult to find black women 21+ without kids. now you might get dozens of black women without kids, but the stats don't lie.
do you and #'s normally don't lie
I agree with what you said but...
Difference being with single fathers is the fact that there are so many fuck ups out there that being a single father isn't that bad, especially if the child is cute and you're handling your business (life, career, parenting, etc).
Way more single women looking for "good" men, even if they have kid(s).
i dated a chick who had a child.... bad experience ever... like i was there chillin with the kid... i wasnt even interested in fuckin her.. one i wasnt feelin her like that i just wanted to hit a few times. i had my own friend with benefits...
na patna...it's not my problem either. i don't date black women at all. the original point i was trying to make is it is very difficult to find black women 21+ without kids. now you might get dozens of black women without kids, but the stats don't lie.
You don't date black women at all? Dude you are a MAJOR Sellout.
I don't have any kids so why should I date a chick with kids...thats two different worlds right there. I could jet to mexico this weekend; she gotta find somebody to watch her kid.
Plus I'm not dealing with some other dudes seed...too many times, I've had to fight, put up with BS because she couldn't control the baby daddy.
I'm not saving her ass either...leave that to the cats that got kids too, maybe they can have a party at mcdonalds or somethin...all everyboy...together
Until then...
Plus I'm not dealing with some other dudes seed...too many times, I've had to fight, put up with BS because she couldn't control the baby daddy.
I'm not saving her ass either...leave that to the cats that got kids too, maybe they can have a party at mcdonalds or somethin...all everyboy...together
Until then...
Basically. Case by case basis. Nothing wrong with dating a woman with a child as long as she has her head on right/is going places/already there.
I would never date a woman with more than one kid. Luckily I don't have to worry about that.
This has got to be one of the stupidest things I have heard. Listen, if Black women just aren't attractive to you, then fine. But that is not the case. You say you don't date Black women because you always encounter drama & bullshit. Are you...no. I am not going to insult you. Just tell you something.
I knew a female that dated dudes in her neighborhood and came to me saying, "Black men ain't shit". I ended up getting out of her that she up to that point had only dated guys who lived near her. Don't swear off fish when you have only fished in one pond. Try another lake or pond, and then another after that. Maybe change the TYPE of person you are looking at.
For me it's more than looks. For some people a dime is the most beautiful woman they have seen. For me that same woman gets a nickel. 5 Points. She makes up additional points from her personality, traits, mind, work ethic, etc. The shit that REALLY matters. My wife may only be a 3 on my scale of 5 for looks, but she scores a 5 on the shit that matters (She has a career as an RN, no kids, very intelligent, smart shopper, not an expensive shopper, doesn't have to have all of the name brand stuff that people seem to think is as important as breathing).
You have to change where you are finding these women. Look in different places.
This has got to be one of the stupidest things I have heard. Listen, if Black women just aren't attractive to you, then fine. But that is not the case. You say you don't date Black women because you always encounter drama & bullshit. Are you...no. I am not going to insult you. Just tell you something.
I knew a female that dated dudes in her neighborhood and came to me saying, "Black men ain't shit". I ended up getting out of her that she up to that point had only dated guys who lived near her. Don't swear off fish when you have only fished in one pond. Try another lake or pond, and then another after that. Maybe change the TYPE of person you are looking at.
For me it's more than looks. For some people a dime is the most beautiful woman they have seen. For me that same woman gets a nickel. 5 Points. She makes up additional points from her personality, traits, mind, work ethic, etc. The shit that REALLY matters. My wife may only be a 3 on my scale of 5 for looks, but she scores a 5 on the shit that matters (She has a career as an RN, no kids, very intelligent, smart shopper, not an expensive shopper, doesn't have to have all of the name brand stuff that people seem to think is as important as breathing).
You have to change where you are finding these women. Look in different places.
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the best relationship i ever had was with a single mother - and I fucked it up. regrets, actually. because she's a great woman. the best sex too - supposedly chicks with kids orgasm more easily? is that true?
reality is - nice guys/good men/good women finish last. this is the fucking truth case that broad deserved better than i did her. *shrugs*
re: this post. it's obviously case by case. the only thing you can say for certain about a woman of 25 with no kids is that she's praly aborted a few.
reality is - nice guys/good men/good women finish last. this is the fucking truth case that broad deserved better than i did her. *shrugs*
re: this post. it's obviously case by case. the only thing you can say for certain about a woman of 25 with no kids is that she's praly aborted a few.
I'm going to post my response to this from another thread...
Read Malcolm X's biography, the opening chapter discusses how hard it was for his mother with eight kids after his father was killed and how it drove potential suitors away.
But women with kids should be left alone, all that matters is you and being a "don," right? Fuck everybody else, look for what's convenient and easy....
Luckily some men are made of better stuff than this. Not nearly enough, though.
Read Malcolm X's biography, the opening chapter discusses how hard it was for his mother with eight kids after his father was killed and how it drove potential suitors away.
But women with kids should be left alone, all that matters is you and being a "don," right? Fuck everybody else, look for what's convenient and easy....
Luckily some men are made of better stuff than this. Not nearly enough, though.
What if your wife says you have to?
I don't think there's any need to complain about it. Just don't bother with single mothers if you feel that way. Problem solved.
Nothing new About this rule
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?p=6531220#post6531220
I listed 13 reason not to!!!!
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?p=6531220#post6531220
I listed 13 reason not to!!!!
Women may not get pregnant by themselves.
But plenty of women choose to BIRTH babies without getting consent from the man.
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