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My Daughter Hit Me With a BombToday

SamSneed

SamSneed

Disciple of Zod
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The "if i tell you something promise not to tell momma"bomb,yo my heart was beating so fast once i heard that.

It wasn't what some may think it was.She said,"I want it to be just her sister,her,momma and I",as the family.(she has a step brother and sister).That she doesn't like her step sister's dad.When he's mad at her step sis and bro,sometimes he gives her looks she doesn't like.

She started to ask me about the break up of her mother and I.Shit,I told her the truth,found out her mom lied to her about the break up.She(mother) told her"I left him cause I didn't want ya'll to see us argue".:hmm:

My daughter asked me if I regret having her :( , I told her that her and her sister are the most important people in my life.That no matter what they do I would always love them,that they keep me sane and everything I do is for them.

I guess that she feels had they not been born we'd still be together.

We spoke for a long time.I talked about how i felt when my mom and dad split.How sometimes i wonder what would it be like if my parents were still together.

Gotdamn I hate that woman,she lied to me now she lies to my daughter.Karma will get her.
 
Yes Karma will get her ... when your daughters grow up she wont be able to hide the truth from them anymore cuz they will see it for themselves
 
in the wash i found an old pic,of her mom and i and her at like 6 months,on the top it said her(daughter) name with hearts on both sides,on the back was

(her name)'s family
N
"can't make out next line"
(and 1 child at this point)​
 
Just one of life's many hurdles bro, but your daughter gonna look back at that conversation and appreciate you for it. Fuk what other people do be the best you.
 
My homegirl once said "there are two kinds of parents in this world............... parents that sacrifice for their children, and parents that sacrifice their children for themselves"..
 
I don't think she lied to your daughter:dunno: To me it was more protecting her then anything. Telling her the truth could have made your daughter look at you in a different light. I think she did the right thing by telling her what she said.

There are two sides to every story...atleast she did not throw you under the bus. Eventually your child will have to except the fact that her mother moved on pass you. Sounds like your daughter just wants you and your mother back together
 
kwazdog said:
My homegirl once said "there are two kinds of parents in this world............... parents that sacrifice for their children, and parents that sacrifice their children for themselves"..
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Deep...

Sam I hope everything works out for your daughter. If she is old enough to have that convo with you I'm guessing she's already started to see behind her mom's lies. Just keep talking with her and showing her your love...and watch out for stepdad.

The last time I didn't like the 'look' of a "fam member" I found out some disturbing news...:( Children are more perceptive than you think
 
BrownTurd said:
I don't think she lied to your daughter:dunno: To me it was more protecting her then anything. Telling her the truth could have made your daughter look at you in a different light. I think she did the right thing by telling her what she said.
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ok we had our last fight in feb of 2001,last time we fucked was in april of 2001,i was still getting told that it will work,(i was in nc she in tx)now im still being told that it will work.that we'll still be together,i love you shit like that.now her oldest child by the guy she's married to now is 7(born in sept 02) :hmm: now take away conception time.we didnt get divorced till end of 02.

she is protecting herself,bitch kept hyping me up while she was fuckin another nigga,then in summer of 02 my brother shows me a vid of her prego at a party for my youngest daughter.mind you i was still gettin hyped by her.

i didnt see her till 03 cause i was in cuba 02-03,so once i found out she was preg i got a lawyer in houston to file for me, she calls me askin why did i stop sending money.
 
melonpecan said:
Deep...

Sam I hope everything works out for your daughter. If she is old enough to have that convo with you I'm guessing she's already started to see behind her mom's lies. Just keep talking with her and showing her your love...and watch out for stepdad.

The last time I didn't like the 'look' of a "fam member" I found out some disturbing news...:( Children are more perceptive than you think
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my time in cuba watching and taking part in the treatment of "abdul" i learned many things,things i'd do if i heard some disturbing news.
 
SamSneed said:
ok we had our last fight in feb of 2001,last time we fucked was in april of 2001,i was still getting told that it will work,(i was in nc she in tx)now im still being told that it will work.that we'll still be together,i love you shit like that.now her oldest child by the guy she's married to now is 7(born in sept 02) :hmm: now take away conception time.we didnt get divorced till end of 02.

she is protecting herself,bitch kept hyping me up while she was fuckin another nigga,then in summer of 02 my brother shows me a vid of her prego at a party for my youngest daughter.mind you i was still gettin hyped by her.

i didnt see her till 03 cause i was in cuba 02-03,so once i found out she was preg i got a lawyer in houston to file for me, she calls me askin why did i stop sending money.
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I feel you bru...She was trifling and fucked up...but keep that between you and her. If she ruins her relationship with her daughter let her do it on her on. Always play the high road.
 
BrownTurd said:
I feel you bru...She was trifling and fucked up...but keep that between you and her. If she ruins her relationship with her daughter let her do it on her on. Always play the high road.
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funny thing is my daughter asked when we stop being married
 
SamSneed said:
my time in cuba watching and taking part in the treatment of "abdul" i learned many things,things i'd do if i heard some disturbing news.
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:eek:

Trust, that confirmed suspicions and shattered my world at the same time. If I could do half of what you know I would, smile, and not look back, (Damn I don't feel bad for saying that).



But back on you- keep the lines of communication open.
 
melonpecan said:
:eek:

Trust, that confirmed suspicions and shattered my world at the same time. If I could do half of what you know I would, smile, and not look back, (Damn I don't feel bad for saying that).



But back on you- keep the lines of communication open.
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i always keep them open with her,once she asked "why do girls get periods?" isn't this a question for mom.i asked what did momma tell you?,"not much.....:smh:
 
SamSneed said:
i always keep them open with her,once she asked "why do girls get periods?" isn't this a question for mom.i asked what did momma tell you?,"not much.....:smh:
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Yeah that is a mom question but a child is more apt to ask a question of the parent the child is most confident with. In a case like this I would tell the girl to ask her mother knowing that wouldn't be the only question that would require an answer.
 
Mo-Better said:
Yeah that is a mom question but a child is more apt to ask a question of the parent the child is most confident with. In a case like this I would tell the girl to ask her mother knowing that wouldn't be the only question that would require an answer.
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what did i do to recive such a worthless baby's mom,fuck kind of female won't go indept about an issue like the monthly cycle to their own child?
 
SamSneed said:
what did i do to recive such a worthless baby's mom,fuck kind of female won't go indept about an issue like the monthly cycle to their own child?
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Maybe she got issues? :dunno: (not trying to stick up for her or anything)

NOTHING my moms told me prepared me for my first period, sex, or life in general, ("You need to learn how to take the skin off of chicken, cause don't no man like skin on his chicken". :hmm: ). Some people like my moms, though I love her, are just incapable of talking about certain things. Or everything. Or explaining shit correctly. Or doing so without getting confused. You get the idea.
 
You were given that child because SOMEONE knew that you were going to be needed in her life due to who her mother was.


SamSneed said:
what did i do to recive such a worthless baby's mom,fuck kind of female won't go indept about an issue like the monthly cycle to their own child?
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OnyxFemme said:
You were given that child because SOMEONE knew that you were going to be needed in her life due to who her mother was.
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:)


7 more years then 2 after,then she wont see one penny.

im gonna chill now,just focus on them like i always do.
 
melonpecan said:
Maybe she got issues? :dunno: (not trying to stick up for her or anything)

NOTHING my moms told me prepared me for my first period, sex, or life in general, ("You need to learn how to take the skin off of chicken, cause don't no man like skin on his chicken". :hmm: ). Some people like my moms, though I love her, are just incapable of talking about certain things. Or everything. Or explaining shit correctly. Or doing so without getting confused. You get the idea.
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:lol:
 
SamSneed said:
what did i do to recive such a worthless baby's mom,fuck kind of female won't go indept about an issue like the monthly cycle to their own child?
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This has more to do with you being there for her. (would you rather she ask a girl friend or boy?) She views you as her father, a parent, her protector, a hero. You should look at this as an honor not an inconvenience. :hmm:
 
Mo-Better said:
This has more to do with you being there for her. (would you rather she ask a girl friend or boy?) She views you as her father, a parent, her protector, a hero. You should look at this as an honor not an inconvenience. :hmm:
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i never look at it as that,i just dont get the mindset of not speakin to your seed about it.i tried my best to tell her what i know.then i asked my mom and sis to go indept about it too.
 
SamSneed said:
i never look at it as that,i just dont get the mindset of not speakin to your seed about it.i tried my best to tell her what i know.then i asked my mom and sis to go indept about it too.
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It seems to me mom may have some deeply rooted problems that may need the help of a professional. If that is the case then your presence with your daughter is needed more than ever.

I can understand your being uncomfortable talking to your daughter about female issues so maybe you could have someone intervene that you trust and your daughter is comfortable with.
 
Mo-Better said:
It seems to me mom may have some deeply rooted problems that may need the help of a professional. If that is the case then your presence with your daughter is needed more than ever.

I can understand your being uncomfortable talking to your daughter about female issues so maybe you could have someone intervene that you trust and your daughter is comfortable with.
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i'm never uncomfortable about anything,not even when it will deal about sex.i just wish they were with me,in time i'll have them under my roof.
 

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