Yes, it stands for "involuntary celibate" but it doesn't apply to everyone who is literally involuntarily celibate. It has come to define a group who espouse alt-right politics, racism, and mysogyny.I think that's the outside, leftists view of incels. I thought incel was short for involuntarily celibate, right? Revenge of the Nerd geekers. Not this evil presence of nerds. I guess if they made Revenge of the Nerds in 2022 it would be a horror movie.
The key words in your statement are 'MOST PEOPLE'. Yeah, most people will leave them alone, but it only takes the few assholes who never leave people the fuck alone.
Look. For the life of me I can't figure out why these men can't hit the weights, take up some MMA, or just better themselves. But that shit just ain't in some people. We can use that Myers Briggs shit. Some people are just introverts and think a certain way. That shit IS innate. Combine what with a fucked up physical stature and pussy going to be hard to come by. More importantly, respect is going to be hard to come by.
So no, SOME aren't toxic by choice. Assholes fuck with them for years, while MOST PEOPLE leave them alone. They leave them alone so well that it's like they don't exist.That don't justify the violence, but I can understand the tortured exitence some of these people lead.
Bruh, I'm an introvert by nature. I'm not an incel though. I don't complain online endlessly, blame women for my shortcomings, or fantasize about murdering people. There's a huge difference between incels and introverts. Not to mention introverts and sociopaths.
And bullying doesn't even begin to condone what this guy did. I don't even know if he truly was an incel or bullied, I'm just making a general, commonsense statement. In life you need to have thick-skin and be sensible. If he was being bullied, he should've complained to the higherups or left.