Men in your family vs. Your Man

[tripleds3]

How many of you have family issues that your man does not always agree with? To the point were you and your man have conflict. Did your man prove to be right in the situation? My man has my best interest at heart and sometimes in the past I make bad decisions concerning the men in my family. Well, I made the last bad decision and I won't do it again. My man has this thing about women enabling men, lazy men, who depend on their mothers, sisters, and girlfriends to take care of them....I agree with him completely. Men need to stand up and be real men and not depend on the women in the family to bail them out of tough situations. From now on, I'm sticking with my man 100% because he is right and he is a real man. I refuse to have a son who is not a real man. I refuse to enable any of my sons, I refuse to have a lazy, trifling son who refuses to make honest money and be a real man, the buck stops here.

 

[brickcityplayaz]

How many of you have family issues that your man does not always agree with? To the point were you and your man have conflict. Did your man prove to be right in the situation? My man has my best interest at heart and sometimes in the past I make bad decisions concerning the men in my family. Well, I made the last bad decision and I won't do it again. My man has this thing about women enabling men, lazy men, who depend on their mothers, sisters, and girlfriends to take care of them....I agree with him completely. Men need to stand up and be real men and not depend on the women in the family to bail them out of tough situations. From now on, I'm sticking with my man 100% because he is right and he is a real man. I refuse to have a son who is not a real man. I refuse to enable any of my sons, I refuse to have a lazy, trifling son who refuses to make honest money and be a real man, the buck stops here.

Would u care to give an example as to what u r speaking of I know u are asking women, but it sounds like u r just venting right now...

 

[tripleds3]

For starters, I did something I said I would never do and that's bail anyone out of jail. I had a family member that went to jail, even though it was his money, I got him out. The reason behind his being arrested rooted from the fact that he brought attention to himself by the way he was dressed. You can expect to be picked on my the cops if you are looking like a thug. Well I got my family member out of jail and now I have to hope he goes to court. My man was pissed off and I understand why, because if something happens and my family member does not pay, it's gonna be on me to pay. Not only that, but the family member already has other cases. Sometimes we as women enable men too much. We need to just let them get theirselves out of situations that they put themselves in, yet we always seem to enable them by helping them out of the situation. Then we women wonder why there's not enough good REAL men. That is okay, because from now on I refuse to enable any man again, family or not.

 

[KW13537]

My wife used to do the same thing until I dropped the hammer on her. I told her I can't tolerate stupidity and our money WILL NOT go to support her family's nonsense. We got a house & 4 kids to support. They weren't thinking about us when they were f***ing up, so don't think about us after. Grown men & women need to handle their own stupidity.