Married woman flirting

[thismybgolname]

Sup ladies (& gents) it has been awhile since I've posted over here so I hope that all are well and good.

I've got an issue at work with a married woman that continues to hit & feel on me.

When we first just started talking there was nothing personal being discussed at all, it was all small talk.

Small talk lead to her telling me about her marital problems which I tried to just tell her to hang in there.

Then she started asking me about my situation with my girl, which I told her thinking nothing of it.

She asked me for work out tips and if I've met any women down here yet, which I would discuss (not thinking anything of it).

Then the woman starts telling me that I look good, putting her chubby breasts in my face & on my back, rubbing my head and chest, AT WORK!

Whenever she touched me I would make it a point to move out of the way or walk away, while calling her CRAZY.

I need a way to politely tell this married woman to leave me alone.

 

[Andeyhollawho]

Damn all that man. You want to and in the immortal words of a great poet...

On the real what you need to do is ask her to go out to lunch with you so you are not around other coworkers and tell her point blank that you are not into sleeping with married women. You need to tell her that you do not appreciate her advances and that you are uncomfortable with them. You started this shit by not nipping it in the bud up top. Damn all that I wasn't thinking about it. You obviously knew what it COULD lead to so now you got to fix it before it gets out of hand.

Or threaten her with HR. That will do the trick too!

 

[Mo-Better]

Andy is right you need to tell her you don't appreciate her flirting. Tell her it must stop and if it doesn't stop you will report it to HR. I guarantee you it will stop. If it doesn't then she loses her job.

 

[followup]

Small talk lead to her telling me about her marital problems which I tried to just tell her to hang in there.

Then the woman starts telling me that I look good, putting her chubby breasts in my face & on my back, rubbing my head and chest, AT WORK!

Too funny. But anyway, I would send her an e-mail through your work e-mail saying that you are not interested, that way there's a record of it. CC your work and an outside e-mail so she can see that you are keeping a record. And then stop getting trapped alone with her. That is the last thing you need because it turns into 'he said/she said' and the man usually loses...

 

[ladyscorpio]

Too funny. But anyway, I would send her an e-mail through your work e-mail saying that you are not interested, that way there's a record of it. CC your work and an outside e-mail so she can see that you are keeping a record. And then stop getting trapped alone with her. That is the last thing you need because it turns into 'he said/she said' and the man usually loses...

Precisely. Nappy definitely do NOT allow her to get you caught up. Like follow said in situations like this the man usually loses even if she is and has been the instigator.
Definitely nip it in the bud as soon as possible.



Peace

 

[thismybgolname]

Thank you ladies and gents for the replies.

 

[MCP]

Nappy just be careful. Like most of the post above mentioned. Nip it in the bud before things turn ugly.

 

[PussyMan]

avoid hanging around and chatting with her alone.

 

[ronmch20]

Andy is right you need to tell her you don't appreciate her flirting. Tell her it must stop and if it doesn't stop you will report it to HR. I guarantee you it will stop. If it doesn't then she loses her job.

Oh bullshit. You don't have to take such drastic measures. Ther are more tactful ways of handling it. Like saying, "I'm really flattered, and if I wasn't in a serious relationship...

You take this shit to HR and this woman will hate you forever --- and rightfully so.

 

[Mo-Better]

Oh bullshit. You don't have to take such drastic measures. Ther are more tactful ways of handling it. Like saying, "I'm really flattered, and if I wasn't in a serious relationship...

You take this shit to HR and this woman will hate you forever --- and rightfully so.

Sexual harassment is looked upon very seriously in corporate America today and the sooner he nips this the better for everyone involved.

What I laid out was a last resort. But from what he described she's not interested in giving up on him, not yet. So reporting the incident "may become" necessary. Of course he can still try other tactics but he must protect himself and his integrity. If those other tactics don't work....

In addition if she's cheating around on hubby and he shows up at the job creating a scene it will cost both of them their jobs or worse. So if she ends up hating him then so be it. Better he be alive and have a job or have his record scarred because of some woman he had no interest in.

 

[Andeyhollawho]

Oh bullshit. You don't have to take such drastic measures. Ther are more tactful ways of handling it. Like saying, "I'm really flattered, and if I wasn't in a serious relationship...

You take this shit to HR and this woman will hate you forever --- and rightfully so.

First of all I said threaten.

Second of all I said talk to her first.

But not in that "Gone girl. Stop playing" ass way he has been doing. I mean some serious "Look goddamn it...", put it on the line, serious, not about to have this shit no more game.

 

[thismybgolname]

Just an update.

She doesn't speak to me after our last encounter.

I didn't come out directly and tell her to leave me the fuck alone but she got the point.

I now have the ability to walk around my office not to be bothered by this crazy bitch.

 

[onyxfemme]

Too funny. But anyway, I would send her an e-mail through your work e-mail saying that you are not interested, that way there's a record of it. CC your work and an outside e-mail so she can see that you are keeping a record. And then stop getting trapped alone with her. That is the last thing you need because it turns into 'he said/she said' and the man usually loses...

Close Thread Here.............Follow Up is right on point

 

[KingSE7EN]

This is very common, I think this is some kind of fantasy foreplay for them,

and they go home and fuck the hell out of there man.

 

[mcguyver]

How dare she. Send her to me I'll straighten her out.

 

[thismybgolname]

This is very common, I think this is some kind of fantasy foreplay for them,

and they go home and fuck the hell out of there man.

It's funny that you mention this because that is what essentially did it for me.

She told me that she had something to tell me, so she waddles her ass back to my desk and tells me that she had not 1 but 2 dreams about me.

She said she woke up and turned her husband out and even swallowed (something she claimed she didn't do) all because of the dream she had about me.

 

[nworba]

Sup ladies (& gents) it has been awhile since I've posted over here so I hope that all are well and good.

I've got an issue at work with a married woman that continues to hit & feel on me.

When we first just started talking there was nothing personal being discussed at all, it was all small talk.

Small talk lead to her telling me about her marital problems which I tried to just tell her to hang in there.

Then she started asking me about my situation with my girl, which I told her thinking nothing of it.

She asked me for work out tips and if I've met any women down here yet, which I would discuss (not thinking anything of it).

Then the woman starts telling me that I look good, putting her chubby breasts in my face & on my back, rubbing my head and chest, AT WORK!

Whenever she touched me I would make it a point to move out of the way or walk away, while calling her CRAZY.

I need a way to politely tell this married woman to leave me alone.

What? Did you grow in a "sheltered life?" You are the "not thinkingest" person I know. Just tell her, man.

 

[destrehan]

if you were attracted to her this thread would be alot different. let her suck you off and fulfill her fantasy. then never speak to her again like it didn't happen.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

if you were attracted to her this thread would be alot different. let her suck you off and fulfill her fantasy. then never speak to her again like it didn't happen.

Hell yeah, I was just thinking the same thing. If she wasn't a Sea Bison, you woulda been all on that shit. This ain't about married women flirting...it's about fat women flirting.

 

[thismybgolname]

Hell yeah, I was just thinking the same thing. If she wasn't a Sea Bison, you woulda been all on that shit. This ain't about married women flirting...it's about fat women flirting.

Not 100% true.

I had a bitch that was hitting on me at my previous job that I didn't fuck for a year (she wasn't married but she was throwing it at me something terrible) .

 

[owl]

i don't want to get to deep of into this, scars ain't even fully scabbed up, forreal...
...riddle me this, my nigga? Why haven't you told this piece off scum to back the fuck off, FAST?



...but you really need to shake her, before you have that one lonely night, and go to work, and have that one lonely day, and it is coming, trust me...

...what she has crafted in your mind is a position. NOT COOL. but that is what she has...i mean, come on, you posted on your favorite online getaway about her, she didn't....you feel me?

...what's wrong, homie? TITTIES starting to get the best you? your hand just don't seem as wet her pussy? Probably ain't...i'm just saying, moe...but trust, once you hit it, your life will not take the course you believe it ought to be pursuing...lol...

...if you don't tell her to leave you the fuck alone, when will she feel that she ought to leave you the fuck alone...?

 

[4North1Side2]

I would of atleast titty fucked her first.