Lying Ass Men

[Jam_Jam]

Ladies,

What are some of the biggest lies men have told you in a relationship?

I once dated a guy (for a year) who told me he had one child when he had 4 children.

He told me he was a college graduate but he was a high school drop out.

He told me he had a driver's license. I didn't know it was suspended until the cops pulled us over and took him to jail.

This is the worst lie of all. He told me his father molested him. (This was to gain sympathy).

His mother is the one who told me the truth about him. When I confronted him about it he told that if he had told the truth I wouldn't have given him the time of day which is not true because I prefer the painful truth as opposed to some sweet lies.

Now I understand why background checks are so important.

 

[YH Dafirm Diplomat]

damn....thats fucked up.

sorry about that.....

 

[Adam Knows]

does anyone in here do background checks on their s/o's, dates, etc.?

one woman told me once she did one on me....i dumped her the next day. not because of anything to hide but because of what i considered an invasion of privacy.

i can understand if we were long term dating planning marriage or if we were moving in together, but not just from going on a few dates. i can also understand other things such as medical background checks and even credit checks. but not on the 2nd, 3rd date.

 

[bigirl]

Yeah he couldn't fuck worth shit and told me "he was molested at age 7" to garner sympathy or make an excuse or something. Then a year or so later i brought it up when he was asking me about my child molestation and he didn't remember saying it at all. Then when I called him on it he said "oh no I wasn't molested i was just riding and I loved it a little fucking boy all up in the big womans poom poom"

Then lied to he said he was single but he was married. (different guy)

The biggest lie: "i love you"

There are too many more but I would rather not remember.

 

[Machete]

man this thread is going to go on forever. and bring all the female lurkers out of hiding.

but lying about being molested??? some people got no shame.

i never lie and say "i love you". either i do, or i don't. and i have no problems telling a woman that i don't love her.

 

[KW13537]

Brothers, this is gonna get ugly quick!

 

[mcguyver]

Brothers, this is gonna get ugly quick!

This thread is gonna draw so much hate. I can feel it already.

 

[mcguyver]

Ladies,

What are some of the biggest lies men have told you in a relationship?

I once dated a guy (for a year) who told me he had one child when he had 4 children.

He told me he was a college graduate but he was a high school drop out.

He told me he had a driver's license. I didn't know it was suspended until the cops pulled us over and took him to jail.

This is the worst lie of all. He told me his father molested him. (This was to gain sympathy).

His mother is the one who told me the truth about him. When I confronted him about it he told that if he had told the truth I wouldn't have given him the time of day which is not true because I prefer the painful truth as opposed to some sweet lies.

Now I understand why background checks are so important.

Was it the guy you were faking the orgasm with?

 

[KW13537]

Was it the guy you were faking the orgasm with?

You didn't just go there!

 

[mcguyver]

Was it the guy you were faking the orgasm with?

You didn't just go there!

I had to, they gonna be all over us with this one. Plus I aint scurred.

Bring it Jam Jam Bring it.

 

[YH Dafirm Diplomat]

aw shit....man this thread is gonna make a woman go out and slap the shit out of an innocent nigga.....

 

[Izayoi]

does anyone in here do background checks on their s/o's, dates, etc.?

No, I find that extremely tacky and invasive in a casual dating situation.
Here's a thought...why not just ask a person and have them provide some proof if you require? Credit scores, HIV status- one can get official papers.
Why try to be sneaky about it?

Perhaps if I had children yeah I'd want to make sure he was not some crazy molester, but I'm of the opinion that casual dates don't really need to be around my family. When my mother dated we never met her boyfriends. I introduce to my family if it's serious, and if its serious we should be able to talk about those things honestly.

 

[bigirl]

As for "background checks" I would never do it. I a vibeswoman. However, in the Caribbean we have an automatic one as everyone knows everyone and all their business.
Like it or not, we gonna get it.

 

[KW13537]

No, I find that extremely tacky and invasive in a casual dating situation.
Here's a thought...why not just ask a person and have them provide some proof if you require? Credit scores, HIV status- one can get official papers.
Why try to be sneaky about it?

Perhaps if I had children yeah I'd want to make sure he was not some crazy molester, but I'm of the opinion that casual dates don't really need to be around my family. When my mother dated we never met her boyfriends. I introduce to my family if it's serious, and if its serious we should be able to talk about those things honestly.

People just jump in with both feet. Real dating and getting to know the other person is a lost art.

 

[thoughtone]

damn....thats fucked up.

sorry about that.....

Damn you are phony. What are you apologizing for? Did you lie to her?

 

[LordSinister]

**Waits for train wreck**​

 

[thoughtone]

I had to, they gonna be all over us with this one. Plus I aint scurred.

Bring it Jam Jam Bring it.

Be careful, she will call you a piece of work, but she really wants to call you a piece of sh..!

​

 

[Jam_Jam]

Was it the guy you were faking the orgasm with?

No, but the sex was not all that either.

 

[Jam_Jam]

Be careful, she will call you a piece of work, but she really wants to call you a piece of sh..!

​

Wrong! A piece of work is a crafty muthafucka, a piece of shit is just plain ole stank stank.

 

[Chicutie]

A guy told me he was single and was actually married with children. . .

 

[Chicutie]

Oh and another one. . . a guy who lied and said he was a U.S. citizen . . but really wasn't.

 

[mcguyver]

No, but the sex was not all that either.

Your Choices in men seem to be.... .......... Is it the area you live in?

And isn't faking an orgasm lying?

 

[Jam_Jam]

Your Choices in men seem to be.... .......... Is it the area you live in?

And isn't faking an orgasm lying?

If it's lying, there's a lot of liars on this board (male and female). But that's another thread. You can address that issue there. We are talking about lying ass men here. And yes, the quality of men is lacking in my area.

 

[mcguyver]

If it's lying, there's a lot of liars on this board (male and female). But that's another thread. You can address that issue there. We are talking about lying ass men here. And yes, the quality of men is lacking in my area.

Damn, don't be so fiesty. I am not trying to come at you sideways. And........ A lie is a lie no matter what thread its in.

 

[Mo-Better]

What about lying ass women?

 

[mcguyver]

What about lying ass women?

Naw dawg don't do that. This is the women's vented thread. Well start ours after this one is over.

 

[Chicutie]

What about lying ass women?

There are out there too. A lot of my friends be lying their ass off.. . I just shake my head. . .

 

[KW13537]

What about lying ass women?

One at a time

 

[thoughtone]

Wrong! A piece of work is a crafty muthafucka, a piece of shit is just plain ole stank stank.

I guess I should shut the hell up and be thankful for the backward compliment… I think.

 

[Jam_Jam]

Naw dawg don't do that. This is the women's vented thread. Well start ours after this one is over.

That should be interesting.

 

[Jam_Jam]

I guess I should shut the hell up and be thankful for the backward compliment… I think.

That would be a good start (the shutting the hell up part).

 

[mcguyver]

Naw dawg don't do that. This is the women's vented thread. Well start ours after this one is over.

That should be interesting.

I bet you told a lie or two. Well i can think of one.

 

[MCP]

I don't think that it is fair to label and tar all men with the same brush.

Do women lie, I'm sure they do.

 

[thoughtone]

That would be a good start (the shutting the hell up part).

BITTER​

 

[Jam_Jam]

I bet you told a lie or two. Well i can think of one.

We're talking about lies in "our" relationships. I haven't had any relations with you, so my lies shouldn't impact your life. And I don't enter into relationships telling outright lies like some people.