10. watch how she embraces your gentleman
You can tell a lot (fair enough) about a woman by how she embraces the respect you give her.
Last thing you want is another woman that thinks if you're not a killer bad boy your a pushover.
9. Should have been number one to me
If she's alergic to condoms and birth control pills stay the hell-a away from her. Last thing you need is an STD.
8. Never pay for a girl that you're just dating
if she leaves you for this that's just one less b***. You're goal is to get to know her and find out if you would want to be in a relationship with her not try to go out with her. It's a lot pass the first interaction.
7. This rule is so underated: listen, listen, listen
She's talking: you listen. Either she's talking about nothing or she's talking about something. But listen to what she says and what she doesn't say. Specifically the questions she asks. Questions express priorities. If the first question she asks is "how much money you have?" then it's pretty safe to assume her priorities is to get into your pockets.
6. Patience
Can't stress this enough, if you force her to make decisions when she's mad you might lose out on something special. And if she's not exactly what you want right now make sure you see potiential in her...there couldl be a whole commandment on seeing potiential.
5. Cheating
If she's someone that's: supportive, honest, loyal, respectful, protective, patient, encouraging, and affectionate to you and you still manage to cheat...you're stupid and she deserves better or you're stupid and you'll miss her down the road. Anything less then those words up top...you decide.
4. Too much pride
Can't have too much pride. As a man you should be able to admit when you're wrong and when you can't she'll have even more of the reason not to trust you. After all what do you expect her to think when you don't admit you're wrong and ontop of that she knows that you know you're wrong?
3. Questions
She needs to know how to hold a conversation. It can't just be all you. If she never-ever asks you questions about you then chances are you shouldn't be with her. Even in the love fairy tale movies the woman asks good questions and so does the guy. But if ya'll can communicate w/out questions then more power to ya'll.
2. Communication
If something is on your mind get it off you're mind. If there is something you've noticed about her changing behaviour: ask her about it. If you think she's worried that you're not doing something right: ask the right question and you'll get the right answer. By asking questions it shows you're concerned about her and if you're not then you wasted a lot of time buddy.
Plus if she becomes comfortable knowing that you want to improve then she'll help and give you some insight and will encourage and support you better. If she doesn't do that after you've been honest with her then.... you must have broken the 7th commandment.
1. Learn from your mistakes
I can't teach you how to learn but i'll say that if you make a mistake then you should try to fix it. If you find out that she has some type of problem then you should be wondering "how did i miss that". And she when you answer that question to yourself then you should remember that answer because you would hate to make the same mistake twice. And even though it says learn from your mistakes you can learn just as good learning from someone else's mistakes. And if this relationship doesn't go right then the next one should be even better.
Follow these and run along young grasshopper.
this a old scene anyway i think
