Ladies, when do you know it's time to GET OUT OF a relationship?

[femmenoire]

I'd especially like to hear from those WOMEN who have been married and are now divorced.


When do you say enough is enough and leave him?


When I was in the worst relationship of my life, I didn't leave when he threatened to kill me. I didn't leave when he decided to stop working. I just left when finally I couldn't take it anymore. I was sick and tired of being sick and tired.

 

[SinaminDelite]

When I have more valid reasons for me to leave then to stay, I'm out. When I see him and I don't have that smile on my face, or just thinking about being around him makes me ill. When looking at him makes me want to slap the hell out of him. When I don't believe a word he says.

 

[femmenoire]

When I have more valid reasons for me to leave then to stay, I'm out. When I see him and I don't have that smile on my face, or just thinking about being around him makes me ill. When looking at him makes me want to slap the hell out of him. When I don't believe a word he says.

Yeah girl, those are the signs.

 

[MTL]

When having the same arguments over and over again.

Feeling like you're banging your head on a wall. When you don't trust him, to have your best interest at heart.

When looking at other men REALLY interest you.

 

[sexylegz33]

When I cannot trust him or believe one word that comes out of his mouth. When I feel disrespected and betrayed. When I feel I am not setting a good example for my children. Time to bounce!

 

[Chicutie]

Everything that has been said is so true. . .

Ultimately I think it's time to get out of a relationship when the fact that you love that person doesn't outweigh all the bad things.
When you cringe at just the thought of that person, you avoid their phone calls or seeing them. When you do nothing but argue or the argument escalate to a violent situation. . . it's time to walk away.

 

[Izayoi]

Sometimes its not as clear cut as good things/bad things. If a man is a straight yutz, I don't question kicking him to curb.

For me its knowing when I'm staying in a relationship not out of commitment or some core satisfaction, but rather out of fear. Then its really time to let go.

I can remember feeling like loving a particular person was the best and worst thing all at the same time and it caused me (still does some days) a lot of internal conflict and pain- not because he was a bad guy (beautiful guy), but he was not right FOR ME.Once I realized that, there really was no going back.

 

[sexynbi976]

It's hard to let go and/or get out of a relationship when you love someone. However, when he starts cheating and lying to you and his actions are showing you that he doesn't have your best interests in mind...it's time to walk away.

It's not easy to let go but sometimes you have to. That's what I'm going through now.

 

[onyxfemme]

When the person you are w/ keeps telling you it isnt working and they want to be free....

I am sorry again, I am speaking out of emotion...

 

[PrincessC]

When having the same arguments over and over again.

Feeling like you're banging your head on a wall. When you don't trust him, to have your best interest at heart.

When looking at other men REALLY interest you.

I agree with all of this.
Also, when things that you used to love about him suddenly drive you nuts, it might be time to re-evaluate.

 

[Iron]

Men feel the same way.

 

[BrownTurd]

I know men leave when the woman says "I don't trust you" As soon as we here those words it is a wrap. At that point we are emotionally done with the woman because everything you do will be an argument. Sometimes we are innocent sometime were are not but once a woman says "I don't trust you" then you are a fool to stay around

 

[jucurious]

all the things said before this post are SOOOOOOOOOO true

also, when you u have to justify to urself y u r staying with that person often....its time to go

or when you feel alone even tho he is sitting/laying right next to you

when you are carrying the relationship on ur own or that ur fighting to keep it together (i'm not talkin about during a rough patch either)

when that acute rough patch/phase turns into a chronic state of being

when u have to prep talk urself into being civil when u know yall are about to come in contact with each other

me personally...when my gut tells me NO this aint it...at first i try to work it out but if i still feel that way, and for some reason im not "connecting" completely (like a part of me is holding back) i know its time to let go

when somethin happens and even though he apologized i know that i can't HONESTLY say that i forgive him (which includes not bringing it up again) then its time to leave

 

[Shadow]

I'd especially like to hear from those WOMEN who have been married and are now divorced.


When do you say enough is enough and leave him?


When I was in the worst relationship of my life, I didn't leave when he threatened to kill me. I didn't leave when he decided to stop working. I just left when finally I couldn't take it anymore. I was sick and tired of being sick and tired.

Hey!!!!!!!!!

it was only that one time!!!!


just kidding

On my way to the movie now.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

I know men leave when the woman says "I don't trust you" As soon as we here those words it is a wrap. At that point we are emotionally done with the woman because everything you do will be an argument. Sometimes we are innocent sometime were are not but once a woman says "I don't trust you" then you are a fool to stay around

YES. I've heard that bullshit "I don't trust you" cry from a couple different women. Pack up and leave.

 

[JofromthaNO]

(Sighs) <Walks into thread, only to turn around and leave>...

 

[followup]

It's hard to say. But I definitely think if there is this nagging voice inside of you and everything in you is telling you to get out, you should. I didn't once before and I ended up being the big loser when it was all said and done. Chalked it up

 

[auggiedoggy]

When her husband comes back from Iraq.

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

When her husband comes back from Iraq.

 

[absolutvodka]

broads leave when they think there's greener grass out there.

 

[Adam Knows]

i figured you'd want to leave if your just not happy...

why be sad/miserable in a relationship? just for the sake of saying you have someone?

never understood that.......

 

[voiceofthestreet]

interesting ..... conversation

 

[AlexandMorgan]

Notices the sexual segregation is starting but answers question anyway. New posts are now being addressed solely to ladies with the men as an afterthought. Packs bags and puts them by the door.

If you find yourself making excuses or apologizing constantly for your partners actions, behaviors to other people or to yourself then you need to leave.

 

[NaughtiGyrl27]

when it doesnt give you those butterflies anymore

i'm divorced... things weren't right and just wasn't happy any more. regardless of the reason, if someone doesnt do it for you.. why fake it

 

[Blu Diablo]

The minute she starts trying to change you into who she wants you to be instead of loving you for who you are.

If you don't like the as is package keep it movin'.

 

[GET YOU HOT]

I'd especially like to hear from those WOMEN who have been married and are now divorced.


When do you say enough is enough and leave him?


When I was in the worst relationship of my life, I didn't leave when he threatened to kill me. I didn't leave when he decided to stop working. I just left when finally I couldn't take it anymore. I was sick and tired of being sick and tired.

Whenever, you lose that warm fuzzy feeling and good times are infrequent it's time to break it off...