Ladies......Quick question..........

[Mingolis_Da_Gemini]

Is it cool to want to break up , over a woman having too many male friends?



Cuz thats how im feelin......so before i just move out.....and have to sleep on a homies couch, because i just left on some im out shit........can somebody say somethin to me and make me see something i may be missin...in my understanding of the world...and females.......damn i love my lady but that shit make me feel like a bitch ass nigga

 

[UrBoSS]

idk homie, i have the same issues with my man. not feelings all the chics he talks to. why cant he find sum nice dudes to chill with...u tried talking about it?

 

[PrincessC]

Have you told her that you think she has too many male friends? It sounds like her relationship with these guys makes you insecure. Do you have a reason to not trust her?
Guys that have too many female friends are a turnoff to me, so I'm sure that it goes the same way for women who have too many male friends.

 

[sean69]

Man the fuck up. Geez.

 

[Cleopatra_J]

Did she have many males friends when you met her??? If so, then you are being unreasonable...

If its all new male friends then yeah, you need to let her know how you feel on the situation before being drastic...

 

[LoneStar29]

Did she have many males friends when you met her??? If so, then you are being unreasonable...

If its all new male friends then yeah, you need to let her know how you feel on the situation before being drastic...

C/S ... if they are guys she grew up with or knows for a long time that is ok IMO but if she is making new male friends everyday then you need to check her on that cuz I guarantee her new male "friends" are hittin' on her

 

[JofromthaNO]

Does she not have ANY female friends, or just TOO MANY male friends? I mean, speaking from personal experience, it's hard making women friends easily, especially if they have hang ups, issues, etc...lol

However, bring the issue up to her first, and tell her where you stand and how you feel about it. To her, it may not even seem unreasonable, but you'll never know until you try...

 

[Mingolis_Da_Gemini]

thanx yall.........now itz a new situation........ i hate puttin my shit on blast....also im taking a different angle instead of whoopin peoples ass
im askin 4 "advice".................soooo.... i go out of town 4 1 day...she dont wanna go......fast forward.........i come back.... wake up my homie say she came over they house wit a "Male Freind"...........my homies crib........because his girl wanted to bitch about my him.......anyway he gives her a ride over there........they chillin buyin brews and shit..........they say she was like yeah this my boo....and all this and that.......dude like 20 years older than her.............always there if she needs him........i called the motherfucker up myself....he said man thats your woman i respect that
.........yo im pissed!!!!!!!!!!!!!


i wanna kick her ass yall.....fuck im too mad to keep typin

 

[jucurious]

thanx yall.........now itz a new situation........ i hate puttin my shit on blast....also im taking a different angle instead of whoopin peoples ass
im askin 4 "advice".................soooo.... i go out of town 4 1 day...she dont wanna go......fast forward.........i come back.... wake up my homie say she came over they house wit a "Male Freind"...........my homies crib........because his girl wanted to bitch about my him.......anyway he gives her a ride over there........they chillin buyin brews and shit..........they say she was like yeah this my boo....and all this and that.......dude like 20 years older than her.............always there if she needs him........i called the motherfucker up myself....he said man thats your woman i respect that
.........yo im pissed!!!!!!!!!!!!!


i wanna kick her ass yall.....fuck im too mad to keep typin

wait...u must be kidding right?

did u read what you typed? read it out loud and you wont need any advice b/c you already know what the answer is.

 

[p5ych3]

thanx yall.........now itz a new situation........ i hate puttin my shit on blast....also im taking a different angle instead of whoopin peoples ass
im askin 4 "advice".................soooo.... i go out of town 4 1 day...she dont wanna go......fast forward.........i come back.... wake up my homie say she came over they house wit a "Male Freind"...........my homies crib........because his girl wanted to bitch about my him.......anyway he gives her a ride over there........they chillin buyin brews and shit..........they say she was like yeah this my boo....and all this and that.......dude like 20 years older than her.............always there if she needs him........i called the motherfucker up myself....he said man thats your woman i respect that
.........yo im pissed!!!!!!!!!!!!!


i wanna kick her ass yall.....fuck im too mad to keep typin

sounds like she stepped out on you. thats enough reason to break up.

 

[followup]

You're already living with her so why is it a problem now and it wasn't a problem before you moved in together?