Ladies let's have a Discussion: How Important Are Orgasms To You?

[melonpecan]

Yeah never a relationship but.......
Choking?????? As in bondage choking or anger choking?
I like light choking

Anger choking...me and females don't really get along...now if we in the bedroom I needs to be the one getting choked... But given the opportunity, (if this were another world), I wouldn't be opposed to smacking the pussy around

WRITING...NOTES

Ya know...

An orgasm is important, but not always necessary for me to enjoy the sex ... but I'd never be with a man in a relationship if he couldn't give me one ...

I don't care what anyone says, sex is important in any long term relationship

Say what?!

Come again?!

If it's not necessary for you to enjoy the sex then what is there to enjoy?

Hmm notes the interesting turn the thread is taking. Ladies don't stop on my part keep this dialog going. I'll draw up a script, contract and get the video equipment, get you all paid.

In another world...

 

[Mo-Better]

In another world...

Just name the world we can make this happen.

 

[IntelligentDyme]

I think being able to orgasm is important, but not every time I have sex. When I just want to fuck my man and make him cum, that is satisfying enough for me, but sometimes that is enough to make me cum, even when I'm pleasing him orally. But I would never be with a man who couldn't make me cum, even if he could make me cum orally, it just wouldn't be enough for me. One of my homegirls has been with the same cat since she was 16 and they are married now (she is 30) and has never had an orgasm...she calls it love..i call it unfortunate.

 

[Mo-Better]

I think being able to orgasm is important, but not every time I have sex. When I just want to fuck my man and make him cum, that is satisfying enough for me, but sometimes that is enough to make me cum, even when I'm pleasing him orally. But I would never be with a man who couldn't make me cum, even if he could make me cum orally, it just wouldn't be enough for me. One of my homegirls has been with the same cat since she was 16 and they are married now (she is 30) and has never had an orgasm...she calls it love..i call it unfortunate.

I call that unfortunate too. Wonder if she's ever had an orgasm. If she has never had an orgasm this works in his favor. One thing in his favor is she can't miss what she's never experienced.

I think orgasms are very important an I have to agree with you there are times when I'm not interested in getting mine. Because of this I could never maintain a relationship with a woman that wasn't orgasmic. I would feel selfish getting off an she's not getting hers.

 

[Black Limey]

How come some women can't come????

My old gf could not do it either with me or by herself

I think some women just don't wanna 'let go'

They say 99% of dudes jerk off and men don't even front

But some women are in denial and about fingering themselves to find that hotspot.

So who is buying all those rabbits, dildos and love balls????

 

[Mo-Better]

How come some women can't come????

My old gf could not do it either with me or by herself

I think some women just don't wanna 'let go'

They say 99% of dudes jerk off and men don't even front

But some women are in denial and about fingering themselves to find that hotspot.

So who is buying all those rabbits, dildos and love balls????

You answered your own question, some women just can't let go. Orgasms are as mental as they are physical. So when women have sexual hangups brought on by religious mis-teachings or ignorance she will have problems.

As for who's buying toys I would have to say mostly women. Women have parties and now with the internet providing anonymity there's no need for seedy sex shops.

 

[SamSneed]

Sometimes I feel the same way.

when i feel them shake or they start doing the stanky leg,in my mind im like

 

[qseal00]

Alot of women cumming with dudes is tied to their mental state. You gotta break that wall down little by little to get them to let go.

 

[Cleopatra_J]

Say what?!

Come again?!

If it's not necessary for you to enjoy the sex then what is there to enjoy?

LOL ...

sometimes sex is fun .. the physical aspect of it. 2 people working up a sweat, having fun changing positions, and just thoroughly enjoying the physicality of it

 

[qseal00]

LOL ...

sometimes sex is fun .. the physical aspect of it. 2 people working up a sweat, having fun changing positions, and just thoroughly enjoying the physicality of it

Let's see how fun that is after a week of no orgasms for you.

 

[Cleopatra_J]

Let's see how fun that is after a week of no orgasms for you.

As said in my original posting an orgasm is important ... and i wouldn't be in a long term relationship w/out them ..

But .. its unrealistic to come every time during sex ... Some dudes have off days where they don't come .. like if he's wearing a condom that keeps drying out .. he may be enjoying the act of the sex, but he can't come ...

 

[qseal00]

As said in my original posting an orgasm is important ... and i wouldn't be in a long term relationship w/out them ..

But .. its unrealistic to come every time during sex ... Some dudes have off days where they don't come .. like if he's wearing a condom that keeps drying out .. he may be enjoying the act of the sex, but he can't come ...

I finally met a chick who cared if I came or not! I was embarrassed as hell because it's a lot of times I'm focusing on making sure the chick get off that I forget to try and cum before she tap out.

It's still no excuse for ya chick not cumming, though.

 

[Mo-Better]

As said in my original posting an orgasm is important ... and i wouldn't be in a long term relationship w/out them ..

But .. its unrealistic to come every time during sex ... Some dudes have off days where they don't come .. like if he's wearing a condom that keeps drying out .. he may be enjoying the act of the sex, but he can't come ...

I have to agree there are times when I can't cum. The sex act itself is great but for whatever reason I just can't get mine. So that becomes an evening for her pleasure.

I expect my woman to cum each time we have sex because she always has. I'm not sure unrealistic is a term I would use. But I know each woman like every sexual encounter is different even with the same partner. It's those subtle variations that will keep relationships fresh.

 

[melonpecan]

LOL ...

sometimes sex is fun .. the physical aspect of it. 2 people working up a sweat, having fun changing positions, and just thoroughly enjoying the physicality of it

I had to think on this a bit...I can't comment.

As said in my original posting an orgasm is important ... and i wouldn't be in a long term relationship w/out them ..

But .. its unrealistic to come every time during sex ... Some dudes have off days where they don't come .. like if he's wearing a condom that keeps drying out .. he may be enjoying the act of the sex, but he can't come ...

Say who? If I don't come during the first five minutes either something wrong with me, or something wrong with him. If he don't come after I do, then I start to think something is wrong with me.

 

[The Gamee]

I had to think on this a bit...I can't comment.

Say who? If I don't come during the first five minutes either something wrong with me, or something wrong with him. If he don't come after I do, then I start to think something is wrong with me.

I ALWAYS FOCUS ON MAKING MY WOMAN CUM BUT HELL SOMETIMES I BE SO CAUGHT UP IN THAT , I DONE MADE HER TAP OUT BUT FORTUNATELY SHE GIVES ME THAT FIYA HEAD AFTER SHE RESTS UP A MINUTE, PLUS I LIKE IT THAT WAY CUZ SHE APPRECIATES HOW I PLEASURED HER SHE GIVES ME THAT SUPERR HEAD !!

 

[Rossini]

i just like seein all the shit women do when they bust
dont really care if i bust

We are oppossites, i dont give a damn if she bust, as long as i get mine.

 

[Mo-Better]

We are oppossites, i dont give a damn if she bust, as long as i get mine.

This response is exactly why the question was addressed to the ladies.

 

[swiftandsilent]

We are oppossites, i dont give a damn if she bust, as long as i get mine.

 

[SamSneed]

We are oppossites, i dont give a damn if she bust, as long as i get mine.

young buck still learnin

 

[LEs Stroud]

i just like seein all the shit women do when they bust
dont really care if i bust

I fucked this snow flake for an hour straight last week. She came so much it soaked my mattress to the coil. The maintenance from the building rang my doorbell the next morning. They said they were there to check for leaks. Apparently my neighbor below found fluid on her night stand

 

[Rossini]

young buck still learnin

 

[SamSneed]

I fucked this snow flake for an hour straight last week. She came so much it soaked my mattress to the coil. The maintenance from the building rang my doorbell the next morning. They said they were there to check for leaks. Apparently my neighbor below found fluid on her night stand

to ducktail or not ducktail,that is the question.

 

[Mo-Better]

I fucked this snow flake for an hour straight last week. She came so much it soaked my mattress to the coil. The maintenance from the building rang my doorbell the next morning. They said they were there to check for leaks. Apparently my neighbor below found fluid on her night stand

Aside from this ducktail what does this have to do with the thread subject?

 

[APOPHIS]

I fucked this snow flake for an hour straight last week. She came so much it soaked my mattress to the coil. The maintenance from the building rang my doorbell the next morning. They said they were there to check for leaks. Apparently my neighbor below found fluid on her night stand