Ladies, is my relationship over or could this be a new begining?

[Banana_Republic]

Long story short...dated THE ONE for over 3 years. One night after a happy hour one thing lead to another and I got caught up w/ another chick. My lady loved me so much she tried to work through it. Even cried w/ the women in my family. That was the first and last time I had ever stepped outon her and to this day is probably the worst mistake I ever made.

Things just never got back on track after that though and I moved here to Houston and she stayed in Tampa. We chat via email every now and again, but it's nothing major (small talk). Her job is moving her to H-Town in August and I truly want this woman back. I just don't know how to go about it...

It's been 2 years. She emailed me some pics a few months back and I couldn't even open them. I just replied telling her how beautiful she was in them, but truth be told I deleted them before they could upload.

I figured the women of the board could offer the best advice. Is there a chance and if so, what's the best way to go about starting over with her?

 

[Harlem's Angel]

Long story short...dated THE ONE for over 3 years. One night after a happy hour one thing lead to another and I got caught up w/ another chick. My lady loved me so much she tried to work through it. Even cried w/ the women in my family. That was the first and last time I had ever stepped outon her and to this day is probably the worst mistake I ever made.

Things just never got back on track after that though and I moved here to Houston and she stayed in Tampa. We chat via email every now and again, but it's nothing major (small talk). Her job is moving her to H-Town in August and I truly want this woman back. I just don't know how to go about it...

It's been 2 years. She emailed me some pics a few months back and I couldn't even open them. I just replied telling her how beautiful she was in them, but truth be told I deleted them before they could upload.

I figured the women of the board could offer the best advice. Is there a chance and if so, what's the best way to go about starting over with her?

y did u delete the pics?

you guys should talk n be honest about ur thoughts

 

[PrincessC]

Women like men who go after what they want. You say you want her back, well then...show her you want her. You need to make your intentions known. You royally fucked up by cheating on her, and chances are, she will never truly forget that, so don't even bother trying to make that up to her. But if you're really a changed man, you can convince her that you will not make those mistakes again. You say she's the one for you, well prove to her that you are the one for her.
Or, you might find that too much time has passed and you don't mesh well anymore. Time changes people. Either way, it's worth exploring, especially if you still think about her in that way.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Long story short...dated THE ONE for over 3 years. One night after a happy hour one thing lead to another and I got caught up w/ another chick. My lady loved me so much she tried to work through it. Even cried w/ the women in my family. That was the first and last time I had ever stepped outon her and to this day is probably the worst mistake I ever made.

Things just never got back on track after that though and I moved here to Houston and she stayed in Tampa. We chat via email every now and again, but it's nothing major (small talk). Her job is moving her to H-Town in August and I truly want this woman back. I just don't know how to go about it...

It's been 2 years. She emailed me some pics a few months back and I couldn't even open them. I just replied telling her how beautiful she was in them, but truth be told I deleted them before they could upload.

I figured the women of the board could offer the best advice. Is there a chance and if so, what's the best way to go about starting over with her?

1. Welcome to my city.
2. You shouldn't have deleted them.
3. Don't go back to her. Start anew. I don't know what type of women you like, but there's a variety in Houston.
4. What's her name/address? Give me that when she gets here in August. I'll give her a real H-town welcome.
5. Stay away from the NorthSide. Only losers are from there.
6. For real though, if she's the one, and you both have feelings for each other, you owe it to each other to try.

 

[PrincessC]

5. Stay away from the NorthSide. Only losers are from there.

stop the hate.

 

[Banana_Republic]

y did u delete the pics?

you guys should talk n be honest about ur thoughts

Just couldn't bare to look at them. I knew they were nice. Otherwise she never would have sent them to me.

It's not the dating scene though. It's her. I've been going out with beautiful successful women since I've moved to Houston, but none compare to her.

Just wonder if I should start calling/emailing more now, or simply wait until she gets here and ask her out for drinks. Likely the latter...

 

[femmenoire]

Women like men who go after what they want. You say you want her back, well then...show her you want her.

This is absolutely the gospel.

There is nothing worse than a man who says something and his behavior speaks the total opposite.

 

[No_1_Stunner]

This is absolutely the gospel.

There is nothing worse than a man who says something and his behavior speaks the total opposite.

I feel you Femme, but there is a thin line between being persistent and stalking. If she feels the same way about him, then he's all good. BUT, if her ass has moved on and regrets those years she spent w/ him, then he's now an aggressive stalker who just doesn't get the point!

Either way...good luck homie. Sounds like you really care about her. I hope the feeling's mutual.

 

[sean69]

1) This will probably not end like the movie Pretty Woman.
2) You are not Richard Gere
3) Ask her for some more pics and post some "breakupgrown"

My 2 cents.




















































































































But, seriously, hope things work out dude. When you replied and told her how beautiful she was, what did she say?