Ladies, i really need help

[hsm2448]

what is the correct answer for when you ask a man how long it's been since he last had sex.

and by correct i mean what is the right amount of time that will make you guys think "oh ok thats cool," assuming that you just started talking to this guy say this week.

thanks

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I have no idea how to answer this. I was just giving you a courtesy response.

 

[hsm2448]

Yes u do. Just be honest. Say we just started talking and ur feelin me....we been flirting and there's sexual tension. Then the subject of our last partner comes up. If I said I last had sex with a chick a week ago, would u be like "eww this nigga nasty?" What is an appropriate length of time between my last partner that makes u feel as though you're not just another fuck piece?

 

[Izayoi]

Yes u do. Just be honest. Say we just started talking and ur feelin me....we been flirting and there's sexual tension. Then the subject of our last partner comes up. If I said I last had sex with a chick a week ago, would u be like "eww this nigga nasty?" What is an appropriate length of time between my last partner that makes u feel as though you're not just another fuck piece?

See that's why this is so hard to give a response to.
If we just met and you had sex with someone you been dating yesterday, really what could I say?We just met and are not in a monogamous relationship or dating exclusively.

With the scenario you posed above, no I don't think a week makes someone a nasty person. If you had sex like an hour before we went on a date that's one thing, but a week for a person who just met you should be no cause for them to look down on you at all. If you don't want to be honest (sounds like that's the case) safe bet is to frame your response for any time before you started chatting this girl up.
So if you known her a week, you last had sex the week before!

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Yes u do. Just be honest. Say we just started talking and ur feelin me....we been flirting and there's sexual tension. Then the subject of our last partner comes up. If I said I last had sex with a chick a week ago, would u be like "eww this nigga nasty?" What is an appropriate length of time between my last partner that makes u feel as though you're not just another fuck piece?

I don't know.

If this topic even came up to me and we JUST started talking? You wouldn't be eligible for ME anyway.

So then after that i really wouldn't be in the frame of mind to judge when the appropriate time for you to have sex with someone would be.

I'll say this. Don't discuss sex. If someone asks you this question don't tell them. It's none of their business.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

See that's why this is so hard to give a response to.
If we just met and you had sex with someone you been dating yesterday, really what could I say?We just met and are not in a monogamous relationship or dating exclusively.

With the scenario you posed above, no I don't think a week makes someone a nasty person. If you had sex like an hour before we went on a date that's one thing, but a week for a person who just met you should be no cause for them to look down on you at all.

Mannnnn that'd be funny as all get out!!!

Dude shows up to your door and is like hey can i take a shower real quick? I just had sex with a jump off....Won't take me but 20 min to get ready. Then we can go out.

I'd love to talk to the guy with balls THAT big. I wanna pick HIS brain.

 

[Izayoi]

Mannnnn that'd be funny as all get out!!!

Dude shows up to your door and is like hey can i take a shower real quick? I just had sex with a jump off....Won't take me but 20 min to get ready. Then we can go out.

I'd love to talk to the guy with balls THAT big. I wanna pick HIS brain.

For real you know one of these characters has probably tried to pull that off. Tacky ass!

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

For real you know one of these characters has probably tried to pull that off. Tacky ass!

Me and the wife are trying to get some single guy we know to do this so we can find out what the reaction will be.

We gotta find a spycam or something. We want to see the chicks face.

And yeah TACKY is the really good word for this. I think discussing sex with me within any amount of time in the first month or so would be Tacky. There should be so much more to people than this.

I'm so hard on them dudes. lol it's not fair.

 

[onyxfemme]

just tell the truth
If she is feeling you it wont matter when the last time was....

 

[hsm2448]

I told her three weeks ago, she said o wow...then claimed its been 3 months for her. Either way crisis has been averted. Thank you ladies.

*opens arms for hugs*