Aight ladies I only come on this board if I'm having a dilemma with a female. So I need some advice from a woman's perspective. Ok my dilemma is this:
I've been dealing with this chick for over a year. Within the year we have had mad good times together. When its good its great, BUT!... We have had some pretty intense fights. Put it like this I never call a female out her name unless she says some off the wall shit to me and I have called her every name at least three times each. One minute she can be a sweetheart, the next she can be mad disrespectful and nasty. Mind you she is 22 and I'm 27. The stories can go on and on but for the moment shit is pretty cool... I take her age into consideration for the most part but that excuse is getting played out...
Now recently I've been chilling with this other chick who I've know for over a year. We never had much interaction until a few weeks ago. Now we are at the point where we are deading the people we somewhat deal with to make time for each other. Our chemistry is ill and we be chilling till the sun comes up... The only issue with her is that she is 33 and has three kids... Also the dude she kind of deals with is within our circle so shit may get sticky but we cool about it. But she is straight though! She has a loft, her kids are well taken care of plus they are mad cool, she's mad artsy and earthy, she's established yet doesn't ask for much. To top it off her style is maaad funky, which is a plus for me.
She has come the closest to my ideal woman. I don't even care that she has kids, that's how ill she is. The fact that I have a son of my own doesn't make the kids an issue I think... I just think where we are in our lives may cause conflict... What do ya'll think?
I've been dealing with this chick for over a year. Within the year we have had mad good times together. When its good its great, BUT!... We have had some pretty intense fights. Put it like this I never call a female out her name unless she says some off the wall shit to me and I have called her every name at least three times each. One minute she can be a sweetheart, the next she can be mad disrespectful and nasty. Mind you she is 22 and I'm 27. The stories can go on and on but for the moment shit is pretty cool... I take her age into consideration for the most part but that excuse is getting played out...
Now recently I've been chilling with this other chick who I've know for over a year. We never had much interaction until a few weeks ago. Now we are at the point where we are deading the people we somewhat deal with to make time for each other. Our chemistry is ill and we be chilling till the sun comes up... The only issue with her is that she is 33 and has three kids... Also the dude she kind of deals with is within our circle so shit may get sticky but we cool about it. But she is straight though! She has a loft, her kids are well taken care of plus they are mad cool, she's mad artsy and earthy, she's established yet doesn't ask for much. To top it off her style is maaad funky, which is a plus for me.
She has come the closest to my ideal woman. I don't even care that she has kids, that's how ill she is. The fact that I have a son of my own doesn't make the kids an issue I think... I just think where we are in our lives may cause conflict... What do ya'll think?
