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i got this female friend, who loves to get hit on and i mean with a fist. i been knowin this girl for over a year an she had two boy friends that kicks her ass. the first one used to bite an scratch her up an i like a cat would do she would call me an i would go get her she would chill at my place for a few days then go rite back an get beat up agai only to be rite back,she left this cat when he went to jail. Now the new cat just blacked her eye swole up her jaw up. went an got her saturday nite about 3am. now this morning she like take me back im like what all the time she says aint going back she done with him ladies i dont get it how can u want to be with a guy that kicks ya ass, i dont understand :smh:
 
Ole girl needs a support system and a psychiatrist. Somewhere along the line she thinks it's okay to be hit, and not being hit makes her feel worthless. Your help could be instrumental in her deprogramming.


Unfortunately, she has to want the help first in order for it to work...




Best of luck to the both of you.
 
What I don't understand is how is that that they keep meeting men who hit them ... I mean 1 is bad enough ... but how do you leave him and get with another abuser:confused:

She has to learn to stop this shit for herself ... all you can do is be a friend to her
 
just a question,i know you said ladies

is your friend Jamaican or from any other islands?
 
nope she from the good ole usa check this shit i guess last nite she uses my cell phone to txt this lame ass she beggin the nigga to go back im just smh he like he sorry he wont do it again an she like do u promise an he like yes i love u got a fuckin black eye like she got hit by rocky an she wants to be with this foll WOW :smh:
 
Speaking from experience, it's not that we want our asses beat...personally for me it was the mentality "he'll change". Eventually it turned into me thinking I did something wrong and I would suck up to him in a sense. But the reality is chics be scared to leave, like that's the only person out there...No man that loves you is going to beat your ass and black your eye.

Some may disagree that chics need a good ass whoopin here and there...I say so do men. Nothing justifies violence though...male or female.
 
I've always had the mindset that if a woman makes me angry enough to want to hit her it's time to end the relationship. That same mindset should be how women think. No woman should ever accept being beaten under any circumstances. (she shouldn't do anything to provoke a man either.)

I've known women who have allowed men to beat them, berate and verbally abuse them and I've never understood the mentality behind them accepting that type treatment.

That type treatment assures nothing, Your a fool to let it happen a second time or REPEATEDLY! One time is too many. I wish this lady luck and I hope she gets some help soon before it's too late. :smh:

Besides that real men don't beat on women. :hmm:
 
Rudey said:
Relax,no need for petty insult,I know you take it as an offense but it is the TRUTH.
Unlike you, I was born and raised in the islands.
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:rolleyes: I don't know what island you from but around my way is far less common than in the states so stop perpetuating sterotypes :hmm:
 
I once dated a chick that told me her previous used to put his hands on her and told me some of the situations that occured....6 mos or so I was at the point to where I wanted to choke the shit outta her....before I cut her off I told her that I understood why dude put his hands on her...she pushed buttons and didnt know when to quit.

Some chicks keep gettin beat cuz they push limits that arent meant to be pushed. I dont agree with puttin hands on a woman, but I have been in some situations to where if I wasnt in sound mind to control myself, it coulda ended wit me on COPS
 
This is somewhat true:smh:
eliive said:
I once dated a chick that told me her previous used to put his hands on her and told me some of the situations that occured....6 mos or so I was at the point to where I wanted to choke the shit outta her....before I cut her off I told her that I understood why dude put his hands on her...she pushed buttons and didnt know when to quit.

Some chicks keep gettin beat cuz they push limits that arent meant to be pushed. I dont agree with puttin hands on a woman, but I have been in some situations to where if I wasnt in sound mind to control myself, it coulda ended wit me on COPS
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