I listen to some of these podcast and they all say the same thing...give your number out and let the lady call you. However I kno alot of women still believe in the old "he has to call me first" rule. In my past I have had a few women call me first unexpectedly and I even had some women who said to me "you have to call me first" but lo and behold they end up calling my phone within 1 hour. And others know they feelin the kid but still ask me "y u aint call me" ... So ladies of BGOL...how many you of actually have the guts to call the guy first and if so what are the standards?
Ladies how of you still believe that the guy must call you first?
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i cant remember the last time a guy gave me his number
if i want to communicate with him i make sure he has my number
i think those "wait <insert number> days before you call" rules are lame
if i got a guy's number that im feeling id call him whenever i got the chance
i dont have time for games
if i want to communicate with him i make sure he has my number
i think those "wait <insert number> days before you call" rules are lame
if i got a guy's number that im feeling id call him whenever i got the chance
i dont have time for games
I definitely like guys who make the first move. If you're waiting on me to approach you... not gonna happen. As far as calling, whoever gets the number should call first.
Guys usually ask for a number, but the slick ones will give me there number so I can "call when you're free" or "if you want to grab coffee"
y is that "slick" ???
What makes it slick is that the man puts it on me to call first if I'm feeling him.
followup you be getting hoes?
in this day and age...women are choosy
and guys will always call....
therefore,
If she gives you a number then thats a good sign
If you have to ask for the number then its not a good sign
If you give her your number then its up to her to make the next move.
and guys will always call....
therefore,
If she gives you a number then thats a good sign
If you have to ask for the number then its not a good sign
If you give her your number then its up to her to make the next move.
A wise brother once told me that men will pursue a woman if he really is feeling her. In this instance, I would believe that, if a man really wanted to get to know me, he would call first. However, there may be an instance or two where maybe I might ask for the number...and, of course, then I would have to make the first move. The latter incidents, though, don't happen as often, because I'm not too forward with exchanging and/or getting numbers from men I don't know previously.
No,forget all that old fashioned crap. If I am feeling him I will call.
thank you. i like a woman who knows what she wants and goes for it.
it excites me and gives me motivation to pursue.
*raises cup of drank for the scorpios*
See women like you will one day end up happy because you aren't bound by bullshit social standards. If you see something you want, go fucking get it. All these so-called advanced and all this other bullshit feminists spew are sitting back twiddling their thumbs waiting. WTF? Grown ass women playing this games in 2008 is not a good look.
Co-Sign.
Co-sign again. Most women take rejection alot worse than men. We get that shit all the time, most women dont. I can get turned down all day and it not bother me at all, some women can get turned down once and their mind is fucked up for a while.
coshizzle
If she's really feeling you, she'll call. If she doesn't so what? Keep it pushing.
what if the male say lets exchange numbers and she ask the male the number for the number?
Then give her your number
If she calls you're in there!
Then give her your number
i know.shorty didnt call. I text her and she didn't get back to me. Im going to call and see whats up.
Well she might see you as a bugaboo. Or she could have had a good reason. Personally I would just take the L and move to the next woman cuz this one has you jumping through hoops just to talk to her
shorty didnt call. I text her and she didn't get back to me. Im going to call and see whats up.
Whomever asks for the number, is supposed to call first. In the case, where the number is offered and accepted anything can go...
yeah, ima move on. shorty already got a man according to her myspace page. I think ima flirt with her just for the hell of it. she looks beautiful too, a snowflake with blond curlyhair, nice body, dress good and a nice smile.
some chick im chatting with only communicate with me throught texting. shes always busy and she told me she likes to play hard to get
. what he fuck she mean by that?
yeah, ima move on. shorty already got a man according to her myspace page. I think ima flirt with her just for the hell of it. she looks beautiful too, a snowflake with blond curlyhair, nice body, dress good and a nice smile.
some chick im chatting with only communicate with me throught texting. shes always busy and she told me she likes to play hard to get
Reverse phychology, she's not interested but likes attention, she likes to play with your mind. You are a like a link on her chain of fools...Game!
Not calling you a fool, lightweight...
really? Should i let this go? cause she said even thos she play hard to get, she act different in person.
i texted her today, the last time i text her was on thursday night.
yeah, ima move on. shorty already got a manb according to her myspace page. I think ima flirt with her just for the hell of it. she looks beautiful too, a snowflake with blond curlyhair, nice body, dress good and a nice smile.
some chick im chatting with only communicate with me throught texting. shes always busy and she told me she likes to play hard to get
whats the point of doing this to you?
I would always prefer to be the caller. I know a lot of people feel as though when someone calls you that the person being called has the "upper hand" but I don't subscribe to that school of thought. I prefer to be the caller/pursuer because I get to set the terms. I am calling you on my time. I am inviting you out to the place of my choosing. That way the female gets to see the kind of person I am because she is on my turf and then she can make a decision based off of that?
And a question. In 2008 is calling = to texting? Can someone get your number and text you first? Or is a phone call more to your liking?
And a question. In 2008 is calling = to texting? Can someone get your number and text you first? Or is a phone call more to your liking?
I think a text is a sour way to communicate...its only word. Real communication is only 10% (if that) words. A phone call is way more to my liking.
ladies what do u think of this situation...theres this girl that obviously wants me. we met one time but she didnt give any signs or anything however on the internet she let me kno how she felt. so i gave her my # but she said she is too shy to call first.
but i adopted a new rule that I dont ask for phone #s i give mine out n then go from there. in this day in technology a girl will either call or text first with texting being more comfortable for most.
this has me wondering how many girls prolly think "he prolly got alot of girls i dont wanna seem like im fiending" n wont call???
but i adopted a new rule that I dont ask for phone #s i give mine out n then go from there. in this day in technology a girl will either call or text first with texting being more comfortable for most.
this has me wondering how many girls prolly think "he prolly got alot of girls i dont wanna seem like im fiending" n wont call???
LoneStar29
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I think she is being silly ... if you gave her your number and she likes you than she should dial it
I don't feel anyways about calling a guy first ... I'll call up to 3 times and leave 1 messgae if I don't hear back then I'll know he aint interested and I wont call back ... simple
