Ladies, how did you learn what it means to be sexy?

[dwnsouth]

I am talking about being sexy around a man. From things like what to wear to how to walk. What to say and how to get his attention. I asked a female friend of mine and she told me a roommate she had many years ago schooled her in a lot of ways. Gave her all sorts of information about what men like to see, do, and want. She said before those lessons she had never had a female tell her things and the circle of women she hung with at the time didnt talk about such things.


so i am asking how did you learn what it means to be sexy.

 

[BCAA2009]

a lot of women these days can't tell the difference between sexiness and bland attention whoring. Sadly, pussy hungry simps only further their confusion by chasing even the scummiest of attention whoring females. Tits and ass hanging at times is not sexy, but rather done to put on a show.

 

[melonpecan]

I honestly have no idea.

 

[Cleopatra_J]

a lot of women these days can't tell the difference between sexiness and bland attention whoring. Sadly, pussy hungry simps only further their confusion by chasing even the scummiest of attention whoring females. Tits and ass hanging at times is not sexy, but rather done to put on a show.

dude... your sig is grossing me out!!!! completely ..


And I think that what's sexy also depends on the guy ... and idk ... I think its definitely something you aren't born with .. someone has to teach you .. i'm still being taught.

 

[dwnsouth]

I honestly have no idea.

c'mon.....when did you realize that wearing pajamas to bed verses a silk nightie and panties was sexy

And I think that what's sexy also depends on the guy ... and idk ... I think its definitely something you aren't born with .. someone has to teach you .. i'm still being taught.

Cleo, I dont want to be the teacher to her. that would suck.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

c'mon.....when did you realize that wearing pajamas to bed verses a silk nightie and panties was sexy



Cleo, I dont want to be the teacher to her. that would suck.

But to some guys pajamas are sexy. I just observed what other women did. And i was told.

 

[onyxfemme]

I started by learning myself and what made me feel sexy.
Then I applied it to what my man found sexy as I wanted to please him/them (different relationships).

 

[melonpecan]

c'mon.....when did you realize that wearing pajamas to bed verses a silk nightie and panties was sexy

I never did.

I did go through this phase of nakedness though...


...normally it would just be like I'm at the store...let me buy this new cut of draws...I put them on, "I like those". Ok I know what you like now. Or side comments of stuff that is sexy but I can't do or isn't. I'm working on it...but for reals, I have no idea.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I never did.

I did go through this phase of nakedness though...


...normally it would just be like I'm at the store...let me buy this new cut of draws...I put them on, "I like those". Ok I know what you like now. Or side comments of stuff that is sexy but I can't do or isn't. I'm working on it...but for reals, I have no idea.

lol and i gotta say. Again. lol Intrigued. lol. These threads lately are making me think alot about things. What makes you feel sexy? Like you ever look at yourself and say "hmmmm Nice."

 

[onyxfemme]

I do it all the time
I turn myself on.........

lol and i gotta say. Again. lol Intrigued. lol. These threads lately are making me think alot about things. What makes you feel sexy? Like you ever look at yourself and say "hmmmm Nice."

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I do it all the time
I turn myself on.........

Same here. I used to wonder if i was really bi or was i just super conceited?

 

[SamSneed]

I honestly have no idea.

i find your randomness sexy, it lets me know your are unique and not some carbon copy bitch.

 

[Black Mamba Jamba]

a lot of women these days can't tell the difference between sexiness and bland attention whoring. Sadly, pussy hungry simps only further their confusion by chasing even the scummiest of attention whoring females. Tits and ass hanging at times is not sexy, but rather done to put on a show.

LADIES !!!

not half a dikes

 

[melonpecan]

lol and i gotta say. Again. lol Intrigued. lol. These threads lately are making me think alot about things. What makes you feel sexy? Like you ever look at yourself and say "hmmmm Nice."

Once again...nope. Never did.

I do it all the time
I turn myself on.........

Lucky

i find your randomness sexy, it lets me know your are unique and not some carbon copy bitch.

Why thank you! Never thought of it like that...I just talk how I feel

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Once again...nope. Never did.



Lucky



Why thank you! Never thought of it like that...I just talk how I feel

What's your sign? And if you know your moon or ascendant what's those as well?

 

[melonpecan]

What's your sign? And if you know your moon or ascendant what's those as well?

Aries


Don't know me moon but I was born in the afternoon on a...Friday?

Why you ask?


Curious!!!

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Was wondering which of the loopy original signs you were. Aries is cool. I'm a leo we're fire signs. We get it poppin! lol. But yeah arians don't tend to be as self perceptive as some others.

 

[melonpecan]

Was wondering which of the loopy original signs you were. Aries is cool. I'm a leo we're fire signs. We get it poppin! lol. But yeah arians don't tend to be as self perceptive as some others.

Self perceptive or self aware? Is that the same thing?

Help me out. I'm claiming slowness on this one right hrr.






SN :

My baby a Leo...she so adorable! And I think you are right she is a little firecracker at times.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Self perceptive or self aware? Is that the same thing?

Help me out. I'm claiming slowness on this one right hrr.






SN :

My baby a Leo...she so adorable! And I think you are right she is a little firecracker at times.

Self perceptive. Ya'll don't usually spend alot of time and energy looking AT yourself. Nowhere near as a vain as me. usually anyway. Yes ma'am. You got a Leo girl? lol She's the QUEEN. Be prepared for a bossy, vain, self important, demanding, attention seeking lil something.

 

[melonpecan]

Self perceptive. Ya'll don't usually spend alot of time and energy looking AT yourself. Nowhere near as a vain as me. usually anyway. Yes ma'am. You got a Leo girl? lol She's the QUEEN. Be prepared for a bossy, vain, self important, demanding, attention seeking lil something.

Too late.

She go around the house saying she's the queen of her castle. She's not as bossy as her gemini sister though but you described her leo aunt perfectly.




And damn...I don't pay attention to myself. I'm am very aware of others...I sense shit about other people that the people around me don't pick up on. But I rarely do me, which is why I am in trouble right now.


*goes off to find a psych's couch

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Too late.

She go around the house saying she's the queen of her castle. She's not as bossy as her gemini sister though but you described her leo aunt perfectly.

Just be careful. Stress humility at all times, but don't, i mean do try to maintain her respect of herself. But always stress humility. One of my redeeming qualities is that i had to learn to be humble. I had to learn when to tone it down. And be appropriate. A leoness who doesn't learn this is in for a WORLD of hurt. I was really bad at 1 point with my husband when we first got together. He had to train me to be honest. lol


And damn...I don't pay attention to myself. I'm am very aware of others...I sense shit about other people that the people around me don't pick up on. But I rarely do me, which is why I am in trouble right now.


*goes off to find a psych's couch

Fire signs have a really bad time looking into ourselves. I think i do mostly because i'm so vain. Don't worry about it too much it's just kind of how you are. Do you think you're sexy?

 

[melonpecan]

Fire signs have a really bad time looking into ourselves. I think i do mostly because i'm so vain. Don't worry about it too much it's just kind of how you are. Do you think you're sexy?

Oh hells no!


See that's something I been trying to work on. That's probably why I can't relate to this thread. Shit, I don't even remember the last time I went "damn I was pretty". That's why I ban all photos of me to this day. Don't no one want to look at no ugly bitch.



That's just me being real. Which is why I have such a disconnect with this thread.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

That's pretty revealing there melo. Alot of times i don't even believe it's our aesthetics that make us feel that way even. I was not cute as a chlid. And i remember no one ever saying i was. My sister on the other hand always was raved about how pretty she was. And i think over time that's just what i wanted to do. And i got to the point where i was like, yeah. Damn i do look good!

Of course that lead to me doing things for the attention of others to fuel that. Something of course i believe all women do. But being a leo and liking the attention i probably did it even more than i should've.

That's something you should practice though. Just a little bit. We've all got to learn to like ourselves. Maybe not the extent that I DO? lol. But a little bit won't hurt.