Ladies...Ever Been to Swing Party?

[BRUCE LEROY]

Ladies...Ever Been to a Swing Party?

It seems like swingin' is as popular as ever. There are so many swing clubs and events poppin' off everywhere...especially in Southern Cali

Questions for the ladies:

-Have you ever been to a swing party/orgy? What were the circumstances?
-Do you like seeing your man (or girl) with other people? Or, do you go alone?
-Do you like being watched by other people when you're getting yur freak on?
-Or, do you like watching others f#ck and suck?
-What's the most partners you f#cked in one nite of swingin'?
-Tell us your favorite experience.

Give us details...details.

Give a shout out to your favorite swing club. Brothas can weigh in too.

Bruce Leroy...the nosey one!

 

[Yahweh]

It is forbidden.

 

[Rythm]

Re: Ladies...Ever Been to a Swing Party?

Not me cuzz. Mingling with strangers and their germs and disease's aint nothin to brag about

 

[Chicutie]

Re: Ladies...Ever Been to a Swing Party?

Not me cuzz. Mingling with strangers and their germs and disease's aint nothin to brag about

Co-sign!

 

[femmenoire]

I went to a swinger's club with a male friend back in the day.

Very interesting. Mostly white people. Mostly unattractive, IMO.

It's the first and last time I had a woman go down on me. And it wasn't appealing at all.

I'm an exhibitionist by nature, but that wasn't really appealing because everyone is fucking so no one is really watching you so that spoiled my high.

 

[sakinnuso]

You know the crazy thing? As a guy, at 33, I'm kinda over the swing-party menage thing. I feel old and square saying it, but I did a lot of that in my 20's. From 21-28, it seemed like every woman that I met and seriously dated was bi. It wasn't intentional, but in my young mind I assumed that those women were more 'open-minded' and adventurous - and I don't just mean sexually.

Now that I'm older, I'd prefer a straight woman who has done all that shit in the past. Yeah, yeah, i get that couples get bored and need sparks on occasion but WHATEVER with that. My experience says that a woman who's still into all that is probably a woman who's not going to be committed to your monogamous relationship in the long haul. If it's my choice between a bed of freaky chicks ready to suck and ride at my whim, or one good woman that there's real connection to...

Ain't no orgy in the world can replace that.

 

[HoneyBerry]

Re: Ladies...Ever Been to a Swing Party?

It seems like swingin' is as popular as ever. There are so many swing clubs and events poppin' off everywhere...especially in Southern Cali

Questions for the ladies:

-Have you ever been to a swing party/orgy? What were the circumstances?
-Do you like seeing your man (or girl) with other people? Or, do you go alone?
-Do you like being watched by other people when you're getting yur freak on?
-Or, do you like watching others f#ck and suck?
-What's the most partners you f#cked in one nite of swingin'?
-Tell us your favorite experience.

Give us details...details.

Give a shout out to your favorite swing club. Brothas can weigh in too.

Bruce Leroy...the nosey one!

Never been to one, but I might be open to it with someone I really trusted and who would be discreet. I would probably just watch and want to be watched, but not fuck everybody in the joint. It would freak me out if I saw my uncles or somebody up in there though. Or my parents.

 

[femmenoire]

You know the crazy thing? As a guy, at 33, I'm kinda over the swing-party menage thing. I feel old and square saying it, but I did a lot of that in my 20's. From 21-28, it seemed like every woman that I met and seriously dated was bi. It wasn't intentional, but in my young mind I assumed that those women were more 'open-minded' and adventurous - and I don't just mean sexually.

Now that I'm older, I'd prefer a straight woman who has done all that shit in the past. Yeah, yeah, i get that couples get bored and need sparks on occasion but WHATEVER with that. My experience says that a woman who's still into all that is probably a woman who's not going to be committed to your monogamous relationship in the long haul. If it's my choice between a bed of freaky chicks ready to suck and ride at my whim, or one good woman that there's real connection to...

Ain't no orgy in the world can replace that.

We seem to have very similar ideas. I did all my wild stuff in my 20's.

 

[Duece]

How do they work? Do you have to bring somebody with you

 

[femmenoire]

How do they work? Do you have to bring somebody with you

Generally swing clubs charge more for men going alone. The reason being is that men who go by themselves ten to be more "hungry" and don't follow the rules very well.

General prices are 100 for a single, even if you're a woman btw. And 50 for a couple.

 

[bigirl]

Generally swing clubs charge more for men going alone. The reason being is that men who go by themselves ten to be more "hungry" and don't follow the rules very well.

General prices are 100 for a single, even if you're a woman btw. And 50 for a couple.

The ones I went to don't allow single men at all, couples pay and single women are free. I went hoping I would meet some cool bi women or something. I didn't like it at all. Like Femme said mostly ugly white people and it was just gross. Not for me. I'm open to alot of things if they happen spontaneously. I don't like a contrived situation ike that.

 

[HoneyBerry]

The ones I went to don't allow single men at all, couples pay and single women are free. I went hoping I would meet some cool bi women or something. I didn't like it at all. Like Femme said mostly ugly white people and it was just gross. Not for me. I'm open to alot of things if they happen spontaneously. I don't like a contrived situation ike that.

I wonder if there are any all black parties with an age limit? That might be interesting

 

[femmenoire]

I wonder if there are any all black parties with an age limit? That might be interesting

There is one in Atlanta that has nights where the crowds are primarily black.

www.trapezeclub.com

 

[HoneyBerry]

There is one in Atlanta that has nights where the crowds are primarily black.

www.trapezeclub.com

 

[DaleMabry]

You know the crazy thing? As a guy, at 33, I'm kinda over the swing-party menage thing. I feel old and square saying it, but I did a lot of that in my 20's. From 21-28, it seemed like every woman that I met and seriously dated was bi. It wasn't intentional, but in my young mind I assumed that those women were more 'open-minded' and adventurous - and I don't just mean sexually.

Now that I'm older, I'd prefer a straight woman who has done all that shit in the past. Yeah, yeah, i get that couples get bored and need sparks on occasion but WHATEVER with that. My experience says that a woman who's still into all that is probably a woman who's not going to be committed to your monogamous relationship in the long haul. If it's my choice between a bed of freaky chicks ready to suck and ride at my whim, or one good woman that there's real connection to...

Ain't no orgy in the world can replace that.

Real talk. I mean sometimes couples have both but its very very rare.

The ones I went to don't allow single men at all, couples pay and single women are free. I went hoping I would meet some cool bi women or something. I didn't like it at all. Like Femme said mostly ugly white people and it was just gross. Not for me. I'm open to alot of things if they happen spontaneously. I don't like a contrived situation ike that.

Well I think private (vetted) parties are the way to go for that sort of thing, if interested.

Not some club or party with a General Admission policy.

 

[bigirl]

Well I think private (vetted) parties are the way to go for that sort of thing, if interested.

Not some club or party with a General Admission policy.

they were private. i just didn't like it. even the ones where everyone had to be pre screened by picture and supposedly if they weren't "hot" they weren't on the list i guess what is "hot" to crackas is very different from my version. and wanna be porn stars and too much plastic surgery and those tattoos on the lower back and just too much for me. plus as soon as i see a whiteboy its an instant turnoff for me and thats with clothes on.

 

[mcguyver]

Re: Ladies...Ever Been to a Swing Party?

Never been to one, but I might be open to it with someone I really trusted and who would be discreet. I would probably just watch and want to be watched, but not fuck everybody in the joint. It would freak me out if I saw my uncles or somebody up in there though. Or my parents.

Excuse me Ms honeyberry......Thats me.​

 

[Izayoi]

It is forbidden.

This ninja right here

Anyway, no and no desire to. That's where my freak puts a screeching halt on the brakes. It's not the idea of group sex, it's as femme noted no way I would be physically attracted to most of those people (judging from what I've seen of those that do it).

I know an older white man that swings. We did some collaboration together and we spoke pretty honestly about things after working on some writings about sexuality. He got on this rant about how adept he was at sexual pleasure and how he could show me things . Hell no- then he said I was missing out because I was too superficial.

 

[femmenoire]

This ninja right here

Anyway, no and no desire to. That's where my freak puts a screeching halt on the brakes. It's not the idea of group sex, it's as femme noted no way I would be physically attracted to most of those people (judging from what I've seen of those that do it).

I know an older white man that swings. We did some collaboration together and we spoke pretty honestly about things after working on some writings about sexuality. He got on this rant about how adept he was at sexual pleasure and how he could show me things . Hell no- then he said I was missing out because I was too superficial.

Girl the name of the club I went to was called Caligula, fitting right.

Anyway, the white men were all over the few sistas that were there. My friend would go to the bar and get us drinks and then the men would swarm. It was nuts.

 

[HoneyBerry]

Re: Ladies...Ever Been to a Swing Party?

Excuse me Ms honeyberry......Thats me.​

 

[lilsexii]

You know the crazy thing? As a guy, at 33, I'm kinda over the swing-party menage thing. I feel old and square saying it, but I did a lot of that in my 20's. From 21-28, it seemed like every woman that I met and seriously dated was bi. It wasn't intentional, but in my young mind I assumed that those women were more 'open-minded' and adventurous - and I don't just mean sexually.

Now that I'm older, I'd prefer a straight woman who has done all that shit in the past. Yeah, yeah, i get that couples get bored and need sparks on occasion but WHATEVER with that. My experience says that a woman who's still into all that is probably a woman who's not going to be committed to your monogamous relationship in the long haul. If it's my choice between a bed of freaky chicks ready to suck and ride at my whim, or one good woman that there's real connection to...

Ain't no orgy in the world can replace that.

Truth. I went to a couple of swing parties years ago, then I went to a club once about a year ago. It is what it is, its interesting to watch, but at a certain point it gets old. I'd prefer to meet someone who's been out there but has since "grown up" and moved past it. That way you get the benefit of great sex with someone who won't judge you because they're just as open minded and adventurous as you are

 

[SinaminDelite]

I wonder if there are any all black parties with an age limit? That might be interesting

I've heard of a few private/vetted places in NY that has an all-black crowd, but I've seen the pics and . Not the type of people I would get down with on a one-to-one. I have done many things, but as Izayoi said, swinging is where I draw the line. It has never appealed to me.

 

[Izayoi]

Girl the name of the club I went to was called Caligula, fitting right.

Anyway, the white men were all over the few sistas that were there. My friend would go to the bar and get us drinks and then the men would swarm. It was nuts.

I really think old white dudes are the freakiest folk alive! I'm not mad 'em, but its not for me, girl.

 

[femmenoire]

Truth. I went to a couple of swing parties years ago, then I went to a club once about a year ago. It is what it is, its interesting to watch, but at a certain point it gets old. I'd prefer to meet someone who's been out there but has since "grown up" and moved past it. That way you get the benefit of great sex with someone who won't judge you because they're just as open minded and adventurous as you are

That is exactly where I've been at the past 5 years.

 

[onyxfemme]

I've been a few times. Once w/ a female friend of mine and once w/ my husband. W/ the female friend I went into the watch room and ended up doing my friend...While doing her a chick came up and started on me

When I went w/ my husband it was fun, we watched but that was it...We left went and bought some porn and decided, we would never go again. The people that were there......

 

[DaleMabry]

they were private. i just didn't like it. even the ones where everyone had to be pre screened by picture and supposedly if they weren't "hot" they weren't on the list i guess what is "hot" to crackas is very different from my version. and wanna be porn stars and too much plastic surgery and those tattoos on the lower back and just too much for me. plus as soon as i see a whiteboy its an instant turnoff for me and thats with clothes on.

I feel you on all of that

 

[MTL]

Re: Ladies...Ever Been to a Swing Party?

It seems like swingin' is as popular as ever. There are so many swing clubs and events poppin' off everywhere...especially in Southern Cali

Questions for the ladies:

-Have you ever been to a swing party/orgy? What were the circumstances?
-Do you like seeing your man (or girl) with other people? Or, do you go alone?
-Do you like being watched by other people when you're getting yur freak on?
-Or, do you like watching others f#ck and suck?
-What's the most partners you f#cked in one nite of swingin'?
-Tell us your favorite experience.

Give us details...details.

Give a shout out to your favorite swing club. Brothas can weigh in too.

Bruce Leroy...the nosey one!

Been to several here in Montreal, but only watched, too many diseases out there. Also been in porn theater with my ex. The idea was to go and get "wild" but i chickened out because of all the weirdo' there. Some were more interested in HIM than me Been to the Green door in VEGAS also... In these places men pay 100 or more it's cheaper to get in as a couple. People are usually respectful if you say no.

 

[BLK FIRE!!!]

We seem to have very similar ideas. I did all my wild stuff in my 20's.

Me too! A few things in my 30's, now I'm 42 with a committed, god fearing woman, 4 beautiful kids, home, cars, job I love, and now am ready to return to my 20's or 30's

 

[demere]

Re: Ladies...Ever Been to a Swing Party?

-Have you ever been to a swing party/orgy? What were the circumstances? I've never been to a "club" but I have ended up in situations where a mini orgy has broke out. I have some male friends who go to some clubs in Los Angeles though.
-Do you like seeing your man (or girl) with other people? In the past yes. I do have a friend I love seeing with this chick I fool around with from time to time. When I do kick it with her, I usually ask for him to get involved, and he never seems to have a problem with it.
-Do you like being watched by other people when you're getting yur freak on?Nope, I definitely fall under the voyeur category.
-What's the most partners you f#cked in one nite of swingin'? Well, like back in '98 something jumped off in the dorm room, 3 Girls and 2 Guys, but I did not have intercourse with any of the men. I've never been with more then one man in any short period of time.