Ladies could you Forgive a Cheater ?
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thats why i like you Onyx..
u keep it 6'oclock,
and understand how men think...
u aint with that "woah is me" mentality most chicks have.
i can see why u got a good dude who scooped u up quick.
www.rkellyisguilty.com
^^^^^^^ these are just 2 of the quotes that u cant really speak on.
bcuz u have NO idea what that woman did sexually to that man,
or better yet,
u dont know how she made him feel.
and that "bubblehead" u speak of did have something physically on you.
SHE HAD YOUR MAN.,
better yet,
she had him in a way YOU couldnt have him..
MENTALLY.
and the problem is once a man allows a woman to get into his head,
she is there forever.
u need to stop with the narcassism (which im sure he was tired of from the jump),
and talk to OnyxFemme on how to step your man game up
www.rkellyisguilty.com
i was NOT posting this shit to get criticism from "leftyluchini" first of all.you're not worth addressing. this wasn't posted to get advice from anyone - i just wanted to post my account to help out other readers. point was not to feel insecure about yourself so much -
all i did when it happened was question myself and feel insecure, i.e i wasn't satisfying him, i wasn't what he liked physically, etc etc.
he liked the chick personally but it wasn't someone that he wanted to be with or leave me for. i'm not the type to fight over a man. if he wanted to be w her, fine, goodbye, but that wasn't the case. it was just was newness and something different and at the same time, i was preoccupied w work, school and my friends. same thing when i had my "friend." and if in bed she was good, fine, but i'm not insecure about myself in that respect.
if ure not insecure about yourself in that respect,
why even make comparisons on how physically superior u are over the other chick?
and u admit u were so preoccupied with work, school, and your friends,
but were u this preoccupied when u had your "friend"?
did u ever stop to think that there were just things this other woman could do,
that you couldnt?
hoodrats are experts at being "the ones who will".
a man aint gonna sit up and bitch to another woman about how their main girl doent have time for them.
but they WILL let them know what the main girl wont or cannot do to satisfy them. (and i dont just mean sexually)
and of course he's not gonna leave u for her,
shes a hoodrat.
but what he does know now,
is that there are PLENTY women who pick up and run with what youve chosen to drop.
btw,
i do appreciate u addressing this,
altho u said im not worth addressing.
www.rkellyisguilty.com
I think a woman "forgives" but i don't think that they should in all circumstances. I did my ex dirty, i was young and reckless, she let me get away with it once and I didn't learn from my mistake. Very immature on my part and i believe the only way that i could have learned is she would have nipped that shit in the bud early. Let me marinate on it for a good while but that wasn't the case and i continued that fucked up behavior.
if ure not insecure about yourself in that respect,
why even make comparisons on how physically superior u are over the other chick?
and u admit u were so preoccupied with work, school, and your friends,
but were u this preoccupied when u had your "friend"?
did u ever stop to think that there were just things this other woman could do,
that you couldnt?
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and of course he's not gonna leave u for her,
shes a hoodrat.
hoodrats are experts at being "the ones who will".
a man aint gonna sit up and bitch to another woman about how their main girl doent have time for them.
but they WILL let them know what the main girl wont or cannot do to satisfy them. (and i dont just mean sexually)[/
but what he does know now,
is that there are PLENTY women who pick up and run with what youve chosen to drop.
btw,
i do appreciate u addressing this,
altho u said im not worth addressing.
www.rkellyisguilty.com
That is the TRUTH!!!!!! Check my 2nd post...Dont knock a hoodrats hustle. I am telling you!
Sorry, once a cheater, always a cheater. He may change, but most likely it won't be with you and most likely it will take him realizing that he might fuck up a good thing over what he did. I don't do that forgive and forget stuff with most things. If he cheated, I must be lacking something that he needs. Instead of being honest and talking to me about it he decides to go outside of the relationship, then it's the end of us when I find out. If I cheated he'd kick me to the curb, so why should I let him get away with his infidelity?
you're a wise lady - I can see why your girlfriends came to you for advice/help with their problems
If you're talking about forgiving a cheater in a gf/bf relationship, that's one thing. If you're talking about forgiving someone in a marriage...that's a WHOLE different ballgame. AND YA WON'T KNOW HOW YOU'LL REACT, UNTIL IT HAPPENS TO YA. Take it from someone who has been there. God forbid, if there are kids in the mix.
If you're truly in love someone, you don't want anyone else. And when someone cheats on you, it makes you question their love for you...if they truly love you and how much the care about your feelings.
I've tried forgiving a cheater, but I had to let him go. He claimed he loved me and that he wanted to be with me, but he also wanted me to be okay with him "occassionally" stepping out. I couldn't do that. Again, I believe if you're truly in love someone, you don't want anyone else.
Call me old-fashion but I do believe in fidelity.
I've tried forgiving a cheater, but I had to let him go. He claimed he loved me and that he wanted to be with me, but he also wanted me to be okay with him "occassionally" stepping out. I couldn't do that. Again, I believe if you're truly in love someone, you don't want anyone else.
Call me old-fashion but I do believe in fidelity.
Hell no. Just ended things with a no good lying dog. I have no time to be with you and someone else. I am a good person. I should be all you need. I was mad as hell at his ass but its all good. Im fidna put his little pic on dontdatehimgirl.com.
His story and pics will be up sometime soon unless I have some sort of divine intervention.
Being that you could not hear the tone of my sentence through the internet, don't assume that I said what I said in a "big and bad" tone. And why would u even waste your own time to tell me how to or how not to "sound"? LMAO
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