And be certain he was faithful within that circle? hmm?
Ladies, could you ever share a man with another woman? 2 additional wives?
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LoneStar29
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No, hell no, and hell mothafuckin no
So you have no problem sharing your woman, right?? There are WAY more men for a good-looking gal.
American men and women share partners a lot of the time but U guys make such a fuss about it.
Your promiscuous lifestyles mean you share partners regularly yet U make such a fuss about "cheating"
It's funny to watch you from outside and just laugh.
I am african and I watched ma grandfather have 3 wives who he merrily had 16 kids with.
My father had 9 kids with 3 diff. women.
I have had girlfriends who I knew I was sharing with other guys and sometimes girls.
It's a fact of life that at some point someone somewhere will be popping that coochie or riding that dick that U think belongs to you alone.( U are deceiving yourself if U think someone's sexual organs belong exclusively to you)
If the dick or possy really belonged to you, it would be stuck to your body. So long as it's between someone else's legs, U are just a temporary owner. They will share it with whoever they please when U are not around and there is nothing U can do about it !!!
Your promiscuous lifestyles mean you share partners regularly yet U make such a fuss about "cheating"
It's funny to watch you from outside and just laugh.
I am african and I watched ma grandfather have 3 wives who he merrily had 16 kids with.
My father had 9 kids with 3 diff. women.
I have had girlfriends who I knew I was sharing with other guys and sometimes girls.
It's a fact of life that at some point someone somewhere will be popping that coochie or riding that dick that U think belongs to you alone.( U are deceiving yourself if U think someone's sexual organs belong exclusively to you)
If the dick or possy really belonged to you, it would be stuck to your body. So long as it's between someone else's legs, U are just a temporary owner. They will share it with whoever they please when U are not around and there is nothing U can do about it !!!
So you have no problem sharing your woman, right?? There are WAY more men for a good-looking gal.
Aren't there more women than men?
Ugly but true.
No I could not share. Probably because that is not how I was raised. In another society/culture, I probably would not know any different...
Now my question is: do all men cheat?
No more than women.
and that comes from an acknowledged adulterer.
LoneStar29
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There is a difference between cheating (your partner not knowing what you are doing) and being in a polygamous relationship ... one is open and honest and the other is built on lies ... you cant compare the 2 IMO
The question was if us women could openly be involved in a polygamous relationship and the answer is no for myself ... which also means I do not want a cheater as well
More power to the people who can be in a polygamous marriage ... that is very common in my country and many in my family have been involved in that ... but its not for everyone, including me
The question was if us women could openly be involved in a polygamous relationship and the answer is no for myself ... which also means I do not want a cheater as well
More power to the people who can be in a polygamous marriage ... that is very common in my country and many in my family have been involved in that ... but its not for everyone, including me
LoneStar29
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And I dont think all men cheat ... but I do think more men cheat than women
Who do you think we cheat with? Just single women?
Men who's wives cheat on them and stay tend to keep that info to themselves while women will let everyone know their man did them dirty.
LoneStar29
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I know that alot of women cheat ... but I think men do it with more partners ... a man is more likely to have more than one sidepiece at a time ... from what I have seen. And most men whose wives cheated on them were also cheating on her but there are alot of wives who have been cheated on and didn't cheat or they cheated later on after gettin played a bunch of times ... from what I have seen men do it more
That's because women don't admit their dirt, Star and when they do, it's their husband's fault. I can see the "he cheated first" excuse but it's not valid. If he cheats and you stay, all's forgiven. If you cheat as some sort of payback, you lose all moral advantage and, if he stopped, expect him to go back to doing his thing.
Most men, when having an affair (that's when a sidepiece comes in, random cheaters are a different animal), it's usually with one chick. There are the exceptions but it's hard to balance two women and even harder to do more.
Attractive (and even not so attractive) women are chased by men 24/7. Virtually ANY woman could get laid ANY time she wanted to. The same can't be said for men (unless they're paying for it).
BGOL and internet porn exist (and flourish) because men are uncontrollably horny from morning to night. Women don't operate on that type of wavelength.
I was in a committed relationship and was offered to be in a relationship with another woman who was divorced and only needed a "buddy" . All she asked was that I didn't sleep with anyone other then her and my girl. And she promised to sleep only with me...and surprisingly she seemed to be extremely loyal.
And till this day swears she was and would have stayed that way...
I had to make sure she was "kept fed" as she put it sexually.
It actually worked out for almost a year I never got caught but I actually ended it because I was catching feelings for her and couldn't deal with the split life...
I think women are "generally smarter and more mature and are more able to deal with something like that men...I said generally!
And till this day swears she was and would have stayed that way...
I had to make sure she was "kept fed" as she put it sexually.
It actually worked out for almost a year I never got caught but I actually ended it because I was catching feelings for her and couldn't deal with the split life...
I think women are "generally smarter and more mature and are more able to deal with something like that men...I said generally!
I have to disagree with you on that one, bruh. Girls mature physically faster than boys but mentally, we're neck and neck. I used to think men had an advantage in the ability to compartmentalize emotions but as I've gotten older, I've found women can do it just as well. In that same breath, women can make some of the same boneheaded, short sighted mistakes in relationships that as men we know we do.
So you place yourself in that demographic then???
I was involved in 1. And it was a very happy, functional way of doing things. It takes a special melding of people, and it definitely takes i think a certain ability to not think in terms western mechanics. Western beliefs and ideals of what marriage is. And love.
Get real.
I am very real. You overestimate the "horniness" of men while underestimating it in women.
He overestimates everything. It's his gimmick.
Whats that quote..20% of men are sexing 80% of the women...
any woman that would share a man w/ another woman & have sex w/ another woman in the process is a lesbian / gay woman... that is not ready to admit that she is gay....... gay is gay ... if a man ever attempted to be wit another man we would call him gay!!!!!!! so it seems like you really want to know which women go both ways or are gay..... if you mean as far as a 3some goes....
That's a very limited way of thinking of things Mr. Mailbox. And as such a woman i'll tell you that it's ENTIRELY untrue way of thinking. Just because you say something is, doesn't neccasarily make it so.
No.
Girl...........
All the women saying no I am going to assume have never slept with a guy then found out he didn't completely break it off with his kids mother and still slept with him again for what ever reason. I am going to assume they all gave up a guy that they enjoyed being with because they found out he still lived with his wife/the mother of his kids.
The rational: Clearly she is not providing him with all that he needs. or he is good to me and for me.
The rational: Clearly she is not providing him with all that he needs. or he is good to me and for me.
Well if she did not know, then it is cheating and not sharing
I think the OP meant living like some of our families did with one husband and more than one wife. Men these days are not capable of doing that and American and most other societies will not function like that. Someone is always going to get the short end of the stick in that relationship and the women will end up competing or resenting each other, while being stuck in their situation. I can't even imagine having children in that type of situation 
Even in African societies there are problems between the wives and they have been doing it for centuries. So you can't tell me in modern times that everything is peachy To the second part of your statement, not necessarily. Some men just cheat because they can. Has nothing to do with the woman. She could be great in bed, have his meals ready, take care of the kids, etc. If an opportunity presents itself with new pussy, a pretty face and a few nice words--most men are going for it. Men are wired like that. From an early age, told to get as many women as they can. They are competing with their friends to get phone numbers and then get the most sex. Women just are not raised with that mentality (in most cases) because there are labels that get put on us and our desirability goes down with that type of behavior. men do not suffer the same consequences because a lot of times even when women know how he is, there is this thought of 'I'm different, I am better than her, he would never do that to me, a man is always going to cheat'. Some women accept it and others do not.
Well if she did not know, then it is cheating and not sharing
To the second part of your statement, not necessarily. Some men just cheat because they can. Has nothing to do with the woman. She could be great in bed, have his meals ready, take care of the kids, etc. If an opportunity presents itself with new pussy, a pretty face and a few nice words--most men are going for it. Men are wired like that. From an early age, told to get as many women as they can. They are competing with their friends to get phone numbers and then get the most sex. Women just are not raised with that mentality (in most cases) because there are labels that get put on us and our desirability goes down with that type of behavior. men do not suffer the same consequences because a lot of times even when women know how he is, there is this thought of 'I'm different, I am better than her, he would never do that to me, a man is always going to cheat'. Some women accept it and others do not.
First paragraph: No kind of relationship is peachy, sweetheart. Even monogamous relationships are in shambles, especially in the African American community.
Second paragraph: That is all true. But you didn't address the last part of his sentence "or he is good to me and for me." Oftentimes, this is the case and we shouldn't hold this against the woman. If he is good to her and makes her happy... who are we to judge
It's just not going to work in this society.
I think you missed my point. Women in America and all over the world for that matter knowingly share man. As I was saying it can start out with neither of the women knowing about each other when they started but once it got started neither wanted to give up the man. Mainly because he fullfilled a need. The wife may go along with it for whatever he justification is.
The main problem is the distribution of resource.
I take it that you are prepared to share your man based on your premise that "a man is always going to cheat."
The main problem is the distribution of resource.
I take it that you are prepared to share your man based on your premise that "a man is always going to cheat."
Well if she did not know, then it is cheating and not sharing
To the second part of your statement, not necessarily. Some men just cheat because they can. Has nothing to do with the woman. She could be great in bed, have his meals ready, take care of the kids, etc. If an opportunity presents itself with new pussy, a pretty face and a few nice words--most men are going for it. Men are wired like that. From an early age, told to get as many women as they can. They are competing with their friends to get phone numbers and then get the most sex. Women just are not raised with that mentality (in most cases) because there are labels that get put on us and our desirability goes down with that type of behavior. men do not suffer the same consequences because a lot of times even when women know how he is, there is this thought of 'I'm different, I am better than her, he would never do that to me, a man is always going to cheat'. Some women accept it and others do not.
Oh I see what you are saying. Well, that is true...many women just accept that he is cheating, but do not want to let him go/be alone/have a failed relationship.
Wait a minute...there is a difference between posing a question and having a premise.
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