Ladies...At what age did you have the TALK?

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playahaitian

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I wanted to ask the ladies here at what age did your mom have THE TALK with you?

Did your mom and dad do it together?

Or did you have the talk with your father only?

Looking back who would you have wanted to have the talk with?

And any suggestions on the proper age and manner to bring this up with a little girl?

Thanks.
 
playahaitian said:
I wanted to ask the ladies here at what age did your mom have THE TALK with you? Boys get that talk - girls rarely do...I never got a talk.

Did your mom and dad do it together? see above

Or did you have the talk with your father only?
see above​

Looking back who would you have wanted to have the talk with? As the above poster said, mothers can talk to their girls about it around the time their bodies are beginning to change. Talk about all the feelings and thoughts that will come up, and the negative attention, especially from horny little boys. Talk about preserving their body, and taking care of it and not giving it away to a cute boy just because...
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WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff said:
I know many women who've had the sex talk and it only entailed "Don't do it."
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Almost every woman I know has told me some variation of this...

that is STILL crazy to me.

It was different for my family my mom was very serious about talking to my sisters about sex and their bodies early...and me too.

I can actually remember 2 different instances of girls getting their periods for the first time in school and having NO IDEA what was happening.

I laugh at the things we THOUGHT we knew about sex.

It seems to me this generations have SEEN a lot of pictures and videos but are somehow MORE emotional unprepared / ignorant then we were.

As a father I want to be there for her (if she wants that to answer questions and concerns from a male perspective) but I have YET to meet a woman you had a a frank talk about sex with their own MOTHER let alone father.
 
Probably really won't happen until this new crop is coming along. Our children were exposed to sex education early. They were taught not to be ashamed. They were taught that sex is natural. They were taught what it lead to. Early. Often. They were taken to africa as youngins so they got to see alot of non american things early on.

My mother was catholic and a crazy person. Our kids are lucky as shit.

You take away the mystery. You take away the hang ups and so far i've got 3 older children no grand kids and they're all pretty terrified of having children. Our boys don't use and abuse women. All 3 of the oldest have been with their respective ladyfriends for 2 - 3 years. So so far... i think we did alright.

But not one of us had a decent talk with our mothers about sex. Or fathers. And i still don't think you'll have a majority of body secure females until maybe our grandkids gen.
 
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