Keith Sweat Telling modern single women that they gotta bring something to the table to get something from me.
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I came in with an agenda but I'm sorry, the voice in the background is hilarious. I know it's supposed to be ignorant, but it's really entertaining.
The best thing you could tell modern women is
For God's sake: STOP HAVING BABIES BY BOYFRIENDS.
Aim to be a man's wife, not his baby momma. Most men don't want a woman with someone else's kids, so be it from birth control, or condoms - use protection because kids are the most preventable things ever. Abortion isn't a bad thing, but too many is. No one is saying stop fucking, just stop fucking recklessly. The pullout method doesn't really work.
Have a standard, that you also meet, to fuck with you. So for me:
For God's sake: STOP HAVING BABIES BY BOYFRIENDS.
Aim to be a man's wife, not his baby momma. Most men don't want a woman with someone else's kids, so be it from birth control, or condoms - use protection because kids are the most preventable things ever. Abortion isn't a bad thing, but too many is. No one is saying stop fucking, just stop fucking recklessly. The pullout method doesn't really work.
Have a standard, that you also meet, to fuck with you. So for me:
- I make 6 figures, so she gotta make 6 figures or close. I'm not about to be some broke bitch's lottery ticket
- Zero to one kid
- If your name isn't on a lease or mortgage YOU ARE HOMELESS. I don't fuck with homeless people. Go away.
- Some college or trade skills
- Be able to hold a conversation
This sounds like some church going bullshit. No offense. men and have varied often contradictory expectations of women and vice versa. just get in where you fit in
You can always spot the respectability politics nonsense from a mile away. They're selling you marriages because that's where they intend to tax most. There's a reason why white people get paid just a bit more — to escape being caught in the trap set for black folks.
Fuck out of here. I don't give a goddamn about no motherfucking church or that piece of shit ass Bible. What I have to say has nothing to do with that.
Saying that it's more important to be married and have kids versus having a baby by a boyfriend is some church shit? No. It means have a commitment to someone who is willing to have a commitment with you Vs being some dude's baby mama
Nobody saying wait till marriage to fuck, I'm just saying wait till marriage to have a fucking baby. I don't give a fuck about fucking, I give a fuck about proof, and though marriage has a 50% divorce rate, breakups between boyfriend and girlfriend are hella higher
I'm just talking about the commitment dude. Too many chicks are getting knocked up by boyfriends and it happens all the time on our side of the field. Most men with ain't checking for baby mamas if there are women around who don't have kids
Black women have abortions at a far lower rate than white women because many white women middle-class and above know that most men don't want a woman with somebody else's kid so they abort or swallow. The endless baby mamas cycle is my aim
All my posts spoke to was a bit more responsibility. Kids are hard, and they're a lot harder when you link up with someone making an 18-year commitment when they are unwilling to make a commitment to you
Women can make decisions for themselves without outside counsel and black women need not appeal to European social standards because they aren't white. You should concede it's not a decision you would make and admit you're not giving birth either. I know of a guy who married a woman with 8 kids.
Something definitely off about him physically.. wonder did he suffer any type of health issue
He’s rich, can’t he pay someone to do all that?
He's just drunk
If he's drunk I'll have whatever he is drinking. Legend.
Oh so marriage stops you from doing all the bullshit that boyfriends do? come on bro. Let's go point for point on this then.... I seem to remember you bragging about fucking a married woman or fucking a woman while you were married in your car doing work just a few years ago btw...
You know one guy that married a woman with eight kids. One guy.
Let me tell you how it is as a single guy dating a woman with kids. They don't want me there and I don't want them there. I can't get any time alone with her because of them always being around 417 days a year. No peace at all. I tried, but I won't ever do that shit again
Marriage is not a European standard. Coupling has been a thing since men and women were men and women, and it's better for kids to be raised in a family with a man present as long as the dudes a good dude.
What single mother parenting does is not give the girls and example of a man. The girls don't have an example of the type of man to seek out in the boys don't have an example of a man that they should be like. It's like raising a tiger in captivity. When released to the wild It has no idea how to act like a tiger.
I don't know if you're just opposing for opposition's sake, but are you suggesting that men and women shouldn't get married because it's a European standard and that the current standard operating procedure of getting knocked up by a boyfriend, breaking up and being a single mother, then getting knocked up by the next boyfriend and breaking up and being a single mother to two kids, and then getting knocked up by a third guy and being a single mother to three kids It's the way that it should be in our community?
Bring to the table? Keith forgot that all he used to require for a woman to be 'young and ready, ready to learn,' and that's all.
Yes, I'm fucking a married chick. I'm just saying, we need these women to Make better choices in men. Marriage is not a guarantee, especially if you marry the wrong person.
The Married chick in my current situation has a sex issue with her husband. He's a good dude and I met him and I'm hoping they stay together. I'm just providing a freaky sexual outlet while helping her gain the confidence to mold him into giving her what she wants in the bedroom. She called me last week while they were on vacation to tell me that she tried some of the things I suggested and he was open to it. I know what I'm doing it's not right though
Would I be kicking it with this married broad if she had kids? Probably not. She probably wouldn't even have the time to spend with me anyway because of the kids.
Marriage doesn't stop boys from doing dumb boyfriend shit, but there are so few examples of good men and good relationships around for boys and girls to use for guidance or examples and that's a huge problem.
I saw him at the New edition concert in Cleveland a couple years ago. He drinks Hennessy when he performs. I think that's all that needs to be said
Adults will always justify their questionable morality while questioning others.
I totally agree with you on this brother!!..Facts!!..
That's not the point dude.
I'm not justifying My questionable morality. I know what I'm doing is fucked up. It's fun for me and fun for her while it lasts. I'm not trying to get her caught up And I'm playing my role as the perfect side guy.
The end game is to get her and her husband to have the kind of relationship she wants sexually that she can't seem to get in his current lazy one nut and I'm out kind of M.O.
As far as young woman and young men not having an example of good relationships or good parenting examples I feel it's okay to speak on that. With all the progression we've made as black people over the past 50 years, there seem to be fewer married couples. We all know that that has a lot to do with the breaking of the black family in the '60s and '70s and '80s through various white influenced actions.
My statement that men don't prefer women with someone else's kid is largely fact. From me, the men I know, The friends I have and the men I talk to if there's a woman with kids and a woman without they're going for the woman without simply because of time and access.
My same women should aim to be wives not baby mamas isn't wrong, nor is my saying that those young women should adopt "basic qualifications to fuck with me." Simply put, I don't know what you're arguing, bro
Though I don't have kids, all of my friends have daughters, and I don't want to see none of those young women as single mothers back to looking for a good guy today and then being a single mother again because they got knocked up by the next dude. That's not the way this shit should be