ok - youngin - keep this in your mind when dating:
find them
FOOL them
then fuck them
your dates should never know what you are spending - they don't get see the bill, don't need to know about discounts or hookups etc. Just make sure they are having fun and feel a little special
If get really good - they will think the entire date was spontaneous, even though you were in control- you planned and prepped the entire evening