By the same woman (Von) that did the "difference between black nerds and white nerds".
This is coming straight from the heart...I don't give a fuck if it comes off as shallow or superficial to some. I've been too damn nice about this but now I'm going to let you bitches (and that's exactly what this group of "nerdy" or a better term...UN-FUCKING-ATTRACTIVE black men are) have it with both barrels.
I don't find your ass attractive...That is my right...That is my perferance. If other women don't find you attractive that is their right and that is their perferance. I have standards just like you have standards. A fucked up ugly black man WILL NOT be getting my attention. A black man with a fucked up personality and no charima WILL NOT be getting my attention. A fat sloppy ugly black man WILL NOT be getting my attention. A black man who looks like he hasn't seen the inside of a bathtube in years WILL NOT be getting my attention. A black man who walks around looking any kind of way WILL NOT get my attention. I'm not attracted to a black man who walks around looking like this...
Or this....
Or this....
Or this....
Or this..
Or this....
If you are wide, big, round, hard to look at, sloppy, teeth fucked up, skin fucked up, ashy, crosseyed, hunchedback/timid/shy, dirty looking, not masculine (physically and personality wise), tacky, weird looking, or any of the above as pictured you're NOT on my radar...that is my PERFERANCE. I don't care if you do have book sense or on the "come up." I'm not someone who can look on the inside and completely ignore the outside or the personality of an individual...most people don't fit into this category.
This is what I like to see from a black man...
or this...
Or this...
Don't get me wrong there is more to a man than a masculine hard body. However, as a human being this is the FIRST thing that catches my eye. His personality/character comes second. His career/what he does for a living comes third (notice I didn't say education because unlike some people it's really not high on my list...great to have but not a must...I can just as easily respect a sexy blue collar man). Everything else (including his money...which means nothing to me because I get mine) comes after that.
But wait...because I like men who brings more to the table than just book sense I'm shallow right? Because I like men who can dress and look good I'm shallow right? Because I like men who are the total package (who have both substance and charisma/swag) I'm fucking shallow and superficial right?
Black men kill me with this bullshit of, "Oh she's so shallow and superficial" when in reality they are the most shallow motherfuckers walking the face of the planet. You assholes wouldn't date a fat chick but you expect me (and other black women) to want/seek/desire an UNATTRACTIVE pathetic looking black man simply because he has BOOK SENSE?!? Get the hell out here! Black men discriminate against black women based on skin tone and physical features but they expect me (and other black women) to want/seek/desire an UNATTRACTVE sorry looking black man simply because "he's going someplace in life?" Get the fuck out of here!!!!
You wouldn't give this woman the time of day...
But black women like myself are supposed to accept your ugly ass in any shape or form simply because you have book sense??? Are you kidding me?
"Well, what about character Von?"
What about it? Black men don't give two shits about the character of someone like the woman above. No, they are looking at her face and her waistline. Then they have the nerve to get angry and pissed when black women who can be selective (the individuals who are on point themselves) look at them with the same DEMANDING EYE. Black men can't stand it when a black woman inspects them the same way they inspect women.
Now it seems to me that this group of "nerdy"...wait let me use the word UNATTRACTIVE for the slow folks...black men I put on blast believe black women SHOULD NOT have any standards whatsoever when it comes to them. "Oh I'm a good black man...you should just love and accept me asis." Fuck that! If you are busted (personality and lookwise) you can keep it moving. If I find myself even questioning your masculinity you can keep it moving. If you are overweight (really what excuse do men even have for this other than a medical condition) you can keep it moving. If you look like a bum you can keep it moving.
Be a damn man and accept the fact that every black woman is not interested in your ugly ass. Every black woman is not desperate for a man...especially a half-ass man. Get your shit together, modify the ugly, take responsilbity for your short-comings/what's keeping women at bay, stand up straight, and man the hell up! Either change, go another route, or shut the fuck up about black women overlooking you for more appealing men. Your damn character is NOT ENOUGH in alot cases. Your book sense is NOT ENOUGH in alot cases. Your bank account is NOT ENOUGH in alot cases. You need to bring more to the table. Most women seek a well-rounded individual.
Most black women I know would far rather be single than deal with an unattractive, boring, often times broke, no personality having man. Let me make it plain and simple: Black women (minus the hoodrat population and those with piss poor taste in men) don't have a thing for thugs...we simply don't like ugly. Most of you individuals who go around saying we like thugs almost ALWAYS fit into the unattractive/ugly category. Most of you individuals who go around bitching about being overlooked by black women almost ALWAYS fit into the unattractive/ugly category. I have NEVER seen a good-looking black man complain about being overlooked.
Wait...I must be "bitter" for saying all this right? No, I'm just tired of idiots writing me as if they can't see the damn writing on the wall. I hope this helps.
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