I'm l fucken too strick ?

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I'm l fucken too strict ?

Okay, l live with a cousin who came from Zimbabwe last year and she is 16. She wants to date a 19 year old and l am saying no the age difference is too big. She won't talk to me. Guys l'm l being too strict ?
 
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no, if you are her caretaker. have every right to look after her wellbeing and safety.
that includes guiding her on the best path possible to a stable adult life.
 
no, if you are her caretaker. have every right to look after her wellbeing and safety.
that includes guiding her on the best path possible to a stable adult life.

However, l also shouldn't be too strict because that will fuck her up in so many ways. I want to strike the right balance. She strongly feels that a 3 year difference in age is not a big deal. What do you think is she correct ?
 
Absolutely not. You're the caretaker. You set the rules. I understand wanting to set balance. But she thinks she's got more presenceof mind than she does. It's up to YOU to make sure her clouded judgement doesn't affect her life. Put your foot down. Absolutely not. And you talk to this young man and explain to him that you will press charges and use every means at your disposal to keep this girl away from him.
 
However, l also shouldn't be too strict because that will fuck her up in so many ways. I want to strike the right balance. She strongly feels that a 3 year difference in age is not a big deal. What do you think is she correct ?

thats not being strict imo. being strict is not letting her go out, not letting
her talk to friends, buying her amish type clothes etc. at 16 she should be
focused on school and thinking about a career path, not seriously thinking
about a 19yr old dude.
 
tell her she will meet him if she does:yes:
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Re: I'm l fucken too strict ?

If you need to come here and canvass the opinion of strangers as to how to care for a minor in your charge, then maybe you're not ready to accept such a responsibility......Send her back home!!!
 
Re: I'm l fucken too strict ?

If you need to come here and canvass the opinion of strangers as to how to care for a minor in your charge, then maybe you're not ready to accept such a responsibility......Send her back home!!!

Nonsense....people start threads here asking for advice on a whole range of issues !
 
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