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Black Men Read This!!!!

We have all been played like a deck of cards on a Vegas Strip! Listen all we see these days are black men ain't shit, followed by the black women ain't shit, back and forth all day.
But think, when did this shit start? Well it started around the same time they started cutting off welfare. Which leads me to conclude that the two may be related.

Now back when welfare was out of control, there very little urgency on black women about getting married or even finding a suitable father for their kids, remember not too long ago when it seem to be in vogue for black women to want that rough neck thug, and that no card having Rasta with 15 kids?
I do, I even remember the songs they made to glorify the shit. And remember when those same guys fucked up or treated them bad, those same women was fast to say get the fuck out, I don't need no man, I can do bad all by myself, and ain't nothing going on but the rent.
Well all of that was made possible due to their real man who had their back, his name is the American Government, Uncle Sam or what we call welfare. Now welfare was very addictive, shit almost addictive as the candy he gave us called crack!
Guess you can say that Uncle was sort of an expert on addiction, and using it to change your outlook on life. Shit he found ways of getting welfare to make a lazy ass, never did shit in her life woman, be able look you strait in the eyes and say I am a independent women who has no time for scrubs, you better have that fly whip, and a j-o-b if you want to get with me.
Say what you want, Uncle at the very least gave them chicks options and self esteem, like a mother fucker, and that much power is very addictive.

So with all these options and power that the black women had, did they parlay into something positive, like getting that quality man and better quality of children? NOpe not in the very least!
Instead they squandered a golden opportunity to do the right thing and wasted it on self gratification, mainly to jump from one relationship to the next, holding it like an triumph card, or a quick get out of jail free card.
Meanwhile many of us guys brought into the system abuse also, getting that reckless pussy, knowing that our good old Uncle Sam was there to pick up the bill and the cost of raising the children. What made things worse, the more we fucked up the more "our Uncle" would shell out. Being reward for nonproductive actions is the direct opposite of evolving, so it should be no surprised to see how we have fallen from a race of once proud black men to a bunch of adults who act and think like boys.
Now they are cutting welfare, and the black women are starting to miss their fix, first they ran to the white man, and well errrrrrrr that wasn't happening, then that lesbian shit became the new fad, but dikes are typically worse off then men, then the new savior was child support, but good luck on trying to get money from the populous who's been hit the hardest in the job economy of today.
So now its back to the black man, but now we must some how get out of boy mode, into full fledge honorable man mode, over night just to cater to them, their children and their debt.

Hey I am all for black men stepping up and being men, but not to be a replacement for welfare!!!
Whats even more fucked up, is how the so called good black men, have long adjusted to the fuckery of the game, and have long moved on, away from the bullshit games, either by hooking up with a positive sister (funny they never have problems finding a husband) or dating a woman outside the race (funny other races have no problems getting good black men to marry them).

Essentially positive black women have always been getting married with little to no problems to write home about. (note a positive black woman is not a woman who just goes to church and declare she is positive just because she say she is, but rather a woman who loves herself, her race and her blackness) The same can be said about positive or good black men they too have very little problems finding the right mate.
The real problem is that due to de-evolution nature of welfare abuse, our population pool of positive blacks have been steady shrinking. To the point were that the majority of the black men no longer is more concern about busting a nut, a could not give a flying fuck about being married and having kids, while the majority of black women are just not suitable for being married.
If you could do that to roaches, you would be a millionaire!

So whats the solution? I can tell you what the solution isn't, its not bickering at each other pointing fingers! But instead we must be honest with ourselves, stop being greedy and self centered, get to know each other and ourselves. Look at each other as part of ourselves, as opposed to our enemy.
Stop looking at marriage and children as risky and hard, because you know what, it is supposed to be risky and hard, but at the same time it can be the most rewarding thing in the world. And to be honest, we must stop thinking like faggots, because only fags have this live for pleasure attitude, due to the fact they cant procreate. Strait black people are the future of our race! By giving in to the pleasures of only self, we would fail to exist one day. If you are ok with that thought, again you are thinking like a fag!
 
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I swear, you ninjas are crazy.

I never had a problem getting pussy when I was broke.

When I was making real money, I got more pussy, but I actually spent less getting it, meaning, I didn't trick, didn't do movies dates or hotel rooms like I did when I was broke.

Women will actually cook for you, clean for you, entertain you, and try to enter your domain if you're confident.

If your plan is to make money, to then get the broads, then it's the money that is getting the women, and NOT YOU. You're still the same chump ass ninja you were before you came up.

This Ninjas premise is all wrong. Disregard Materialistic endeavors acquire self confidence.

Once you come to terms with you, there is nothing you can't achieve.

You want to make money? You make it to use as a tool, not as a way to define yourself.

You want women? Either you deal with them to find a partner, or if you simply want to play the field, you do that. It will only cost you what you're willing to put into it.

You won't worry about having to pay women for attention or time. You should never do this.

If you ever do decide to do that, it's because she is your wife and she does the same for you. At that point in your life you are entering a relationship as a fully developed man, not a boy.

Knowledge of sell my brothers, knowledge of self.
 
from rick ronson

you grow from your mistakes

you learn what to look for

you learn how to test women without them knowing

you make an assessment of which women on the roster have
personalities that are conducive to peaceful healthy loving
relationships

everything falls into place.


if not you do the same shit over and over and end up frustrated and lonely.

alter your search criteria

modify it so its not so appearance based

if its one thing you know about a bitch is she can disguise herself.

learn to see past what she shows your monkey ass or you are doomed
 
random, all credit goes to the writers...

You are neither an insignificant speck nor are you so precious or essential to the universe that it simply cannot do without you. Know where you fit in the grand scheme of things and keep a balanced perspective on your sense of worth. Thinking too much of yourself is as dangerous as thinking too little of yourself. Do not dismiss your accomplishments, but don’t laud yourself or lord over others any position or good fortune you’ve managed to secure. Avoid pretense. Keeping a balanced sense of self and being genuine will help you stay humble and avoid false pride.
Remember, you are not synonymous with your talents, abilities, or physical attributes. They are all endowments (i.e. fortunate accidents of nature, “gifts” of God, the universe) entrusted to you. Recognize where things really come from and give credit and recognition where credit and recognition are truly due. Who you are and how you are defined as a character are in large measure determined by what you do with what you’ve been given. The credit for your life and innate capabilities belongs to nature or, ultimately the creative force behind nature. The credit for what you do with all you’ve been given goes to you. This is the essence of merit. Honor the life force within you as well as all who might have nurtured your potential by using your gifts for the good of all. It’s not so much the outcome of your actions that matters either, for that’s also not entirely in your hands. It’s the effort you make that matters most. Judge yourself on your merits. Having appropriate reverence for what you’ve been given and honoring the creative force through your actions is the essence of both genuine humility and healthy self-respect.


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Ya Know...

I'm so glad these types pf threads are blowing up now. Especially in regards to Black Men and relationships.

For too long GOOD Black Men have stood silent, while Black Women have been on attack mode for what many of them do not want to admit are their own bad choices. So decent Brothers have had to take the brunt of this shit for decades. It's about fuckin' time Brothers and even some Black women are speaking out honestly on this.

The other great thing about this is that many of us as Black men are finally getting out of this "talking about feelings is for women and Fa**ots" shit and actually talking shit out. And we are still getting criticized for it in some circles. Especially from Black Women who misguidedly see this trend as an attack on them, or Black Men who do this as Gay. That shit is so further from the truth. All we want is for them to fuckin' ACT RIGHT! and stop playing games and shit.

Though men and women of all races experience this, with US it's a different scenario. We have so more much at stake than other races do. I tand to take a historical/social perspective on most things in regards to our people. And a lot of us have no sense of that perspective.

Hell. After all the BullShit I went through in my marriage, I've seen shit that make me question even wanting to be bothered anymore. I'm in my late 40s. People tell me I look like I'm still in my late 20s. I jokingly tell them that I kept my youthful looks at the expense of my sanity. But I sure as HELL wasn't going to let my (estranged) wife take several decades of my life either. But the same folks say I look way better now that I've been away from her.

And after a few "incidents" in regards to women recently, I decided to just spent more time with myself, travel, take care of business, and just keep it moving.

I said to a friend recently describing situation that kept me a wreck for a few days, that "I'M DONE!" when it comes to these women today.

And I'm starting to feel a bit better for it.

Thanks to those Brothers at for having the courage and honesty to ignore being clowned and speaking out. Y'all are helping others out there deal.

Its not about being a nice guy or a bad boy, its about being comfortable being yourself, even if you disagree with a chick. Nice guys have a tendency to agree with everything a chick says, even if they disagree internally. A "bad guy" doesnt give a fuck if she disagrees with him, he's gonna stick to his guns, uncompromised. Its not that women like thug niggas, its that women love men that are real, even if they disagree, because it poses a challenge. And as a result, she will find herself continuously tring to change him, because he disagrees with her. Thats why you have women that keep going back to guys that treat them like shit, because they feel they can change the nigga, not knowing that change comes from the individual himself, not from his woman...Another thing I notice to is that nice guys are scared to make their women cry. Not saying you gotta do it everyday, but you gotta make her cry every here and there so she knows you mean business...Nice guys are afraid of bringing their women through all emotions(happy, sad, etc), so as a result they always lose
 
I was about to put up a colin pic until i sat down and read the article and was quite impressed. i illustrates perfectly whats wrong in our community. the question now is how do we fix it? Shit aint like it used to be were someone could support a family by himself anymore. Its rough out there.
 
random...
Never change who you are for anyone. If youre a nice guy, than continue to be a nice guy. However the problem with most nice guys is that you only pursue one woman. Thats insane. Being nice has its pros and cons. This is why you have to date more than one woman at once. The typical nice guy dates one woman and shes his end all. NOOOOOO. You continue to pursue other woman. As you date these women, you continue to act like yourself. You'll be able to see who really cares, whos really feeling you, and most importantly who's trying to use and abuse you. This is called weeding; youre separating the woman from the girls.

As you get rid of those that arent meant for you, you'll have to learn another important word.......its NO! Nice guys tend to to be yes men. Never ever say yes to everything a woman wants. Do you give a child everything he/she wants? No! Besides theres a difference between wants and needs. Let her spoil you playa. In order to obtain this, you have to learn the word NO and you cannot be available at all times. Don't always answer your phone, don't see her everyday, leave unexpectedly; basically have other shit to do. Nice guys tend to focus their whole lives around their woman. NO! If this is you, you need a fuckin hobby then playboy!

Now your a nice guy with a little game in his back pocket. The key to woman is getting inside their heads. This is the real game that Tariq and these other cats refuse to teach you young niggas. Hell if they did, you wouldnt need their shows anymore. I get pms everyday from cats who need a little help. If you need assistance just hit my box. I love rappin about this shit.

BTW, the key word for today is NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
-That's young bitch stuff right there. Young girls (chronologically or emotionally) tend to fall for whatever sexual attraction they've idealized, then project it onto whoever is convincing / convenient.

This is why older men pull so many young freaks.

This is why some men will advise other men (as I was once advised) to "shut the fuck up, be neutral, cool and quiet and let her see in you what she wants to see" as the fastest route to get the drawers.

This is why women get dogged the fuck out when they are young, then turn bitter and loaded with baggage in later years. They pretend to be mad at men but they are really mad at themselves for being such fucking idiots and picking such wack ass suckas.
never let a woman be more woman to you than you are a man to her
Karma only works against people who think that they are doing something wrong at some level.
 
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