I FEEL LIKE SHE DID ME DIRTY!!!(can i get some opinions)

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Okay so I was going out with this girl for about 2 years,long distance relationship at that. It was going pretty good but all of a sudden she just changed, she went from being a good girl to a bitch...I mean just nasty with it.

Shes in college,live in a dorm and it was me and her at one point. Just like we planned it out,just me and her but as time went by she started feeling as if she couldn't do anything for me yet at the same time she could do any and everything for her friends. It was like i became the bad guy. Just little shit she could not and would not do for me,I told one little ass lie about getting a suitcase and all of a sudden she couldn't believe a word I was saying to her. Now that i think about it I didn't even lie about the suitcase,I just didn't get it when she wanted me to get it. Stupid shit.

I figured I try to talk to her,she figured she would just yell and talk over me and tell me what I am thinking and put words in my mouth. this went on for a little over a month....after seeing that things wasn't gonna change I broke up with her.

Immediately after I broke up with her I felt that was a wrong move,I made a mistake. I don't know why but i felt that way and tried to get back with her. Each and every day I would try and try and try and try but she wasn't trying to hear me....understandable but i feel like she could have at least heard what I had to say.

Shes calling me telling me she miss me and she wants to see me and im telling her the same things...she gets mad at me and hangs up every single time. we couldn't talking having a good time but as soon as i start talking like that she catches an attitude.

Wait wait wait,let me take a step back,I have this girl,she my friend.Met her at work. She seems to think I was fucking her,after all of her guy friends who I believed was just friends she had it in her mind that I was fucking her.

Ok so when we broke up she really went in,I could not mention this girls name without her flipping out on me,screaming and shit,accusing me of fucking her. Telling me wear a condom and I hope your dick don't fall off and make sure shes clean and blah blah blah.

Soooo about.......I would say like the middle of our break up she met this guy. Said they were just friends,I'm like ok cool w/e. They chilling all the time she sleeping in his bed every other night but they just friends,cool im like w/e I believed her. In the back of my mind I felt something was going on but i believed her. Maybe a week later we talking on the phone,everything is cool so I say to her my friend is coming over(the girl) and she flips the fuck out. It got so bad I just hung up on her,she called right back and I picked up and she was still yelling like crazy...hung up again,she called again only this time I didn't pick up.

So a few days go by,we have words and I find out she and the guy shes been sleeping in bed with started fucking. He came onto her and one thing led to another. She didn't even tell me I just threw the shit out there and she was like yea we had sex...........at this point im shocked because for one she was still a virgin,the plan was to wait until we get married and two she said it would be with someone she loved and trusted and three she wanted me to get tested just in case we did anything.I knew I didn't have anything but she wanted me to and I did. Now the reason why I say she did me dirty is because

-she lied and said they were just friends
-she kept accusing me of sleeping with a girl who is my friend(never ever slept with this girl) yet she turns around and does exactly what she thinks I'm doing
-Gave it up after we have only been broken up for not even a month
-Felt she did nothing wrong

I'm not exactly saying she was wrong for fucking another guy bcuz we were kinda broken up but how she went about it I feel like she did me dirty,

Any opinions on this?
(i pretty much know someone will laugh at this and call me stupid but fuck it,it was love)
 
Bless me father....for I haven't read.
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maan, pay these clowns no mind maan. you got this serious shit u wanna get off your chest and they got jokes. anyways, u have just learned a lesson in life. dont ever mess with virgins againo, if they keep going on and on about they wanna wait till they get married (trust me, i've been there before. see my last post on here) BOUNCE QUICK. you dont want to be the guy who butters her up for the next nigga to come and skeet in her. that's what usually happens to the first guy who steps up to a virgin. it's always usually the second guy who actually gets the pussy.
and what are you, an idiot? how can a girl be sleeping in a man's bed and you didnt think nothing of it?
 
Come back in 90 days or 150 more quality posts and I'm sure someone will be glad to help you. But until then, you are on the FTP list.
 
Okay so I was going out with this girl for about 2 years,long distance relationship at that. It was going pretty good but all of a sudden she just changed, she went from being a good girl to a bitch...I mean just nasty with it.

Shes in college,live in a dorm and it was me and her at one point. Just like we planned it out,just me and her but as time went by she started feeling as if she couldn't do anything for me yet at the same time she could do any and everything for her friends. It was like i became the bad guy. Just little shit she could not and would not do for me,I told one little ass lie about getting a suitcase and all of a sudden she couldn't believe a word I was saying to her. Now that i think about it I didn't even lie about the suitcase,I just didn't get it when she wanted me to get it. Stupid shit.

I figured I try to talk to her,she figured she would just yell and talk over me and tell me what I am thinking and put words in my mouth. this went on for a little over a month....after seeing that things wasn't gonna change I broke up with her.

Immediately after I broke up with her I felt that was a wrong move,I made a mistake. I don't know why but i felt that way and tried to get back with her. Each and every day I would try and try and try and try but she wasn't trying to hear me....understandable but i feel like she could have at least heard what I had to say.

Shes calling me telling me she miss me and she wants to see me and im telling her the same things...she gets mad at me and hangs up every single time. we couldn't talking having a good time but as soon as i start talking like that she catches an attitude.

Wait wait wait,let me take a step back,I have this girl,she my friend.Met her at work. She seems to think I was fucking her,after all of her guy friends who I believed was just friends she had it in her mind that I was fucking her.

Ok so when we broke up she really went in,I could not mention this girls name without her flipping out on me,screaming and shit,accusing me of fucking her. Telling me wear a condom and I hope your dick don't fall off and make sure shes clean and blah blah blah.

Soooo about.......I would say like the middle of our break up she met this guy. Said they were just friends,I'm like ok cool w/e. They chilling all the time she sleeping in his bed every other night but they just friends,cool im like w/e I believed her. In the back of my mind I felt something was going on but i believed her. Maybe a week later we talking on the phone,everything is cool so I say to her my friend is coming over(the girl) and she flips the fuck out. It got so bad I just hung up on her,she called right back and I picked up and she was still yelling like crazy...hung up again,she called again only this time I didn't pick up.

So a few days go by,we have words and I find out she and the guy shes been sleeping in bed with started fucking. He came onto her and one thing led to another. She didn't even tell me I just threw the shit out there and she was like yea we had sex...........at this point im shocked because for one she was still a virgin,the plan was to wait until we get married and two she said it would be with someone she loved and trusted and three she wanted me to get tested just in case we did anything.I knew I didn't have anything but she wanted me to and I did. Now the reason why I say she did me dirty is because

-she lied and said they were just friends
-she kept accusing me of sleeping with a girl who is my friend(never ever slept with this girl) yet she turns around and does exactly what she thinks I'm doing
-Gave it up after we have only been broken up for not even a month
-Felt she did nothing wrong

I'm not exactly saying she was wrong for fucking another guy bcuz we were kinda broken up but how she went about it I feel like she did me dirty,

Any opinions on this?
(i pretty much know someone will laugh at this and call me stupid but fuck it,it was love)

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Okay so I was going out with this girl for about 2 years,long distance relationship at that. It was going pretty good but all of a sudden she just changed, she went from being a good girl to a bitch...I mean just nasty with it.

Shes in college,live in a dorm and it was me and her at one point. Just like we planned it out,just me and her but as time went by she started feeling as if she couldn't do anything for me yet at the same time she could do any and everything for her friends. It was like i became the bad guy. Just little shit she could not and would not do for me,I told one little ass lie about getting a suitcase and all of a sudden she couldn't believe a word I was saying to her. Now that i think about it I didn't even lie about the suitcase,I just didn't get it when she wanted me to get it. Stupid shit.

I figured I try to talk to her,she figured she would just yell and talk over me and tell me what I am thinking and put words in my mouth. this went on for a little over a month....after seeing that things wasn't gonna change I broke up with her.

Immediately after I broke up with her I felt that was a wrong move,I made a mistake. I don't know why but i felt that way and tried to get back with her. Each and every day I would try and try and try and try but she wasn't trying to hear me....understandable but i feel like she could have at least heard what I had to say.

Shes calling me telling me she miss me and she wants to see me and im telling her the same things...she gets mad at me and hangs up every single time. we couldn't talking having a good time but as soon as i start talking like that she catches an attitude.

Wait wait wait,let me take a step back,I have this girl,she my friend.Met her at work. She seems to think I was fucking her,after all of her guy friends who I believed was just friends she had it in her mind that I was fucking her.

Ok so when we broke up she really went in,I could not mention this girls name without her flipping out on me,screaming and shit,accusing me of fucking her. Telling me wear a condom and I hope your dick don't fall off and make sure shes clean and blah blah blah.

Soooo about.......I would say like the middle of our break up she met this guy. Said they were just friends,I'm like ok cool w/e. They chilling all the time she sleeping in his bed every other night but they just friends,cool im like w/e I believed her. In the back of my mind I felt something was going on but i believed her. Maybe a week later we talking on the phone,everything is cool so I say to her my friend is coming over(the girl) and she flips the fuck out. It got so bad I just hung up on her,she called right back and I picked up and she was still yelling like crazy...hung up again,she called again only this time I didn't pick up.

So a few days go by,we have words and I find out she and the guy shes been sleeping in bed with started fucking. He came onto her and one thing led to another. She didn't even tell me I just threw the shit out there and she was like yea we had sex...........at this point im shocked because for one she was still a virgin,the plan was to wait until we get married and two she said it would be with someone she loved and trusted and three she wanted me to get tested just in case we did anything.I knew I didn't have anything but she wanted me to and I did. Now the reason why I say she did me dirty is because

-she lied and said they were just friends
-she kept accusing me of sleeping with a girl who is my friend(never ever slept with this girl) yet she turns around and does exactly what she thinks I'm doing
-Gave it up after we have only been broken up for not even a month
-Felt she did nothing wrong

I'm not exactly saying she was wrong for fucking another guy bcuz we were kinda broken up but how she went about it I feel like she did me dirty,

Any opinions on this?
(i pretty much know someone will laugh at this and call me stupid but fuck it,it was love)

Dude, I actually took the time to read this because I ain't got shit to do for a while...but honestly, I feel for you but I have a few points for you to consider.
1. If you believe this chick was a virgin then I got some ocean front property in Nebraska to sell you...
2. If you believe this is the first Dude she fucked while she was supposed to be with you makes you a sucker...(anytime a woman or man starts acting all shitty and what not for no reason it's because they are getting their needs met elsewhere and they really don't have any respect for you, etc.
3. You should be glad that you found out about her while you are still young and can easily move on. Otherwise you would have probably ended up looking like a Jackass on cheaters or something.:lol:
4. I would stop dealing with this chick, stop taking her phone calls, etc. I'm not saying she is a bad girl but she appears to a little unstable, maybe trying to find herself...or she is just a trifling bitch!!!! You decide but either way you are better off without her. Move on Chief!!!!
 
maan, pay these clowns no mind maan. you got this serious shit u wanna get off your chest and they got jokes. anyways, u have just learned a lesson in life. dont ever mess with virgins againo, if they keep going on and on about they wanna wait till they get married (trust me, i've been there before. see my last post on here) BOUNCE QUICK. you dont want to be the guy who butters her up for the next nigga to come and skeet in her. that's what usually happens to the first guy who steps up to a virgin. it's always usually the second guy who actually gets the pussy.
and what are you, an idiot? how can a girl be sleeping in a man's bed and you didnt think nothing of it?


thanks for the insight,i sure as hell did a lesson.well two and thats no more long distance and no more virgins
 
it's over. i've done the long distance relationship thing before and one thing i can tell you is that once someone has cheated, it's almost impossible to ever regain that trust if you stay long distance. i cheated on an ex-gf - very stupid thing to do that i regretted the second after - and even though i wouldve never cheated on her again, she never got over it and eventually everything just fell apart. finally, assuming you guys are both college aged, u should be enjoying these years fukking as many broads as possible w/o having to worry about some chick a thousand miles away and whether she's getting piped by her dorm RA.
 
Honestly, i seen all that, so what i was gonna do was scroll down, read some of the responses, and just co-sign somebody, My bad dawg. but thats alot of shit to read.
 

She's fuckin the other dude. She's BEEN fuckin the other dude. Suck it up and get out there and step to some other females.
 
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