I can deal with a lot of things....

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onyxfemme

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But I cant stand a liar!
Have you ever dealt w/ someone who lied so much that they started to believe their own lies? Then get mad at you because you call them on their shit! Wow.........This is one time I am going to have to reach out for assistance-Because the old me (90's) wants to put them on blast...But the me that listens and obeys her man wants to just ignore them because it hurts them more when you dont feed into it. Why do attention whores want symapathy and to always look like a victim? That shit is annoying!
I am not perfect....So how would you deal w/ this?


**exhales**
 
OnyxFemme said:
But I cant stand a liar!
Have you ever dealt w/ someone who lied so much that they started to believe their own lies? Then get mad at you because you call them on their shit! Wow.........This is one time I am going to have to reach out for assistance-Because the old me (90's) wants to put them on blast...But the me that listens and obeys her man wants to just ignore them because it hurts them more when you dont feed into it. Why do attention whores want symapathy and to always look like a victim? That shit is annoying!
I am not perfect....So how would you deal w/ this?


**exhales**
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*Wants details???* :dunno:

This isn't enough information? :dunno:
 
mpthaking89 said:
(busta rhymes voice) WHHAT'S THE SCENERIO!!
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Ok my ex is a liar-I wont go too much into detail but dude lies and have done alot of dirt. He is mad I have moved on and am happy. I dont want or need anything from him. Well..............
He decided that he would go to his family and give them a completely different scenario-I provided them w/ proof of his fluckery and now he is hott and sent me a crazy email like I started the shit. I wanted go off but my baby calmed down and explained it to me...Dont feed into it-He just wants you to respond...But I want to..I am in a "how dare his sorry ass" kind of mood.


Now having said all that....Naaaaw I wont go there. I can only laugh:lol:
 
OnyxFemme said:
Ok my ex is a liar-I wont go too much into detail but dude lies and have done alot of dirt. He is mad I have moved on and am happy. I dont want or need anything from him. Well..............
He decided that he would go to his family and give them a completely different scenario-I provided them w/ proof of his fluckery and now he is hott and sent me a crazy email like I started the shit. I wanted go off but my baby calmed down and explained it to me...Dont feed into it-He just wants you to respond...But I want to..I am in a "how dare his sorry ass" kind of mood.


Now having said all that....Naaaaw I wont go there. I can only laugh:lol:
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OK, but I must say it seems like you wanna put dude on blast. I mean starting a thread and all...I say fuck it, spill (all) the beans... :devil::devil::devil::devil::devil::devil:

















...Naw, I'm just kidding like Jason...




































...Unless you gon' do it...









:lol::lol::devil::devil::lol::lol:

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CT-You know me better than that-Thats not my style.
I could put a lot of folks on blast, but why?
This is about me showing my emotions and loosing my cool about one of my peeves.
So I ask again how would you handle this?
 
Leave it alone. If it really gets heated and he wants to call your bluff at least do it in person in front of those he trying to impress. That way the truth can't get twisted.
 
melonpecan said:
Leave it alone. If it really gets heated and he wants to call your bluff at least do it in person in front of those he trying to impress. That way the truth can't get twisted.
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Thanks Melon I am calming down more and more now.......I will follow your advice-thats the same thing my man told me.
 
OnyxFemme said:
CT-You know me better than that-Thats not my style.
I could put a lot of folks on blast, but why?
This is about me showing my emotions and loosing my cool about one of my peeves.
So I ask again how would you handle this?
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You're right...My bad...Whatever the case, I hope things work out for you...
 
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Liars are never worth your time and effort....

You say your happy and have moved on then let it be...
 
OnyxFemme said:
Ok my ex is a liar-I wont go too much into detail but dude lies and have done alot of dirt. He is mad I have moved on and am happy. I dont want or need anything from him. Well..............
He decided that he would go to his family and give them a completely different scenario-I provided them w/ proof of his fluckery and now he is hott and sent me a crazy email like I started the shit. I wanted go off but my baby calmed down and explained it to me...Dont feed into it-He just wants you to respond...But I want to..I am in a "how dare his sorry ass" kind of mood.


Now having said all that....Naaaaw I wont go there. I can only laugh:lol:
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You were told not to respond and that is the correct way to handle this. I wouldn't give him the satisfaction of a response. You can bet either his friends or family have questioned him about the divorce. Socially his image has been wounded. He won't admit it was his fault. He's not man enough for that. So he lies about the events. What he's doing amounts to damage control.

I've seen this happen before and I've had it happen to me. The best response is no response. If the people who care really want to know what happened "they will ask you directly." Then its up to you how you respond.
 
All the posts in here are fine and dandy ... but sometimes you gotta call a mothafucka out to really shut them up ... some people will take your silence for them "winning" so to speak and that will make them keep carrying on ... those types of people I shut em down quick


Edit: LMAO @ Desire lol
 
LoneStar29 said:
All the posts in here are fine and dandy ... but sometimes you gotta call a mothafucka out to really shut them up ... some people will take your silence for them "winning" so to speak and that will make them keep carrying on ... those types of people I shut em down quick
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that always works for me.....:yes::yes::yes:

blast 'em....
 
Just got up looked at my children, called my baby and I am good.
I am not a perfect person by no means-I had my moment and now I am good.

Mo-As you have a little more insight onto the matter-I appreciate your response and know that I am following yours, Mel's, JA's and my man's advice. I knew/know how to handle the situation-but dayum he got under my skin. Something I dont normally allow. I am good it will work itself out, I refuse to come off of my pedestal for the likes of him.
Plus the fact that I am doing so well and always have is my vengeance enough. Sucks to be him/you right now.


jjUSTAZZ said:
Liars are never worth your time and effort....

You say your happy and have moved on then let it be...
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Mo-Better said:
You were told not to respond and that is the correct way to handle this. I wouldn't give him the satisfaction of a response. You can bet either his friends or family have questioned him about the divorce. Socially his image has been wounded. He won't admit it was his fault. He's not man enough for that. So he lies about the events. What he's doing amounts to damage control.




I've seen this happen before and I've had it happen to me. The best response is no response. If the people who care really want to know what happened "they will ask you directly." Then its up to you how you respond.
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Girl:hmm:
DeSiRe said:
post his dick pics
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OnyxFemme said:
Just got up looked at my children, called my baby and I am good.
I am not a perfect person by no means-I had my moment and now I am good.

Mo-As you have a little more insight onto the matter-I appreciate your response and know that I am following yours, Mel's, JA's and my man's advice. I knew/know how to handle the situation-but dayum he got under my skin. Something I dont normally allow. I am good it will work itself out, I refuse to come off of my pedestal for the likes of him.
Plus the fact that I am doing so well and always have is my vengeance enough. Sucks to be him/you right now.
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Hey your mellowing in your old age, it happens.:rolleyes: But seriously I see no need to lower yourself to that level. People like that usually expose themselves in time. Keep being you. :yes:
 
OnyxFemme said:
Ok my ex is a liar-I wont go too much into detail but dude lies and have done alot of dirt. He is mad I have moved on and am happy. I dont want or need anything from him. Well..............
He decided that he would go to his family and give them a completely different scenario-I provided them w/ proof of his fluckery and now he is hott and sent me a crazy email like I started the shit. I wanted go off but my baby calmed down and explained it to me...Dont feed into it-He just wants you to respond...But I want to..I am in a "how dare his sorry ass" kind of mood.


Now having said all that....Naaaaw I wont go there. I can only laugh:lol:
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not for nothing, but now thats it over and you moved on i would just leave it alone. it says a lot how hes still hung up on shit. shows that he missed out on something good so keep doing you...
 
**Chases at you w/ a switch-dont let me catch them legs**
LoneStar29 said:
:lol:



So is that a maybe ooooooooooooooooor:dunno: *runs*
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This is exactly what a "homey" of mine said yesterday.
I got it though...I am all good-little momma is back on track w/ her temper now.
UrBoSS said:
not for nothing, but now thats it over and you moved on i would just leave it alone. it says a lot how hes still hung up on shit. shows that he missed out on something good so keep doing you...
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OnyxFemme said:
Ok my ex is a liar-I wont go too much into detail but dude lies and have done alot of dirt. He is mad I have moved on and am happy. I dont want or need anything from him. Well..............
He decided that he would go to his family and give them a completely different scenario-I provided them w/ proof of his fluckery and now he is hott and sent me a crazy email like I started the shit. I wanted go off but my baby calmed down and explained it to me...Dont feed into it-He just wants you to respond...But I want to..I am in a "how dare his sorry ass" kind of mood.


Now having said all that....Naaaaw I wont go there. I can only laugh:lol:
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If you are not together then why care what he says. I mean be real with yourself. Who is going to willingly degrade their own character:dunno: Just like you or anyone else when it comes to past relationships we will always paint a picture that is in our favor.
 
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Thanks Melon I am calming down more and more now.......I will follow your advice-thats the same thing my man told me.
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Also are you that Naive to go and tell your man about your Ex. You just gave him a free card to go get some outside pussy. I never understood why females continue to do this. :smh: NEVER and I mean NEVER go to your man about bullshit with your ex. As men we don't want to hear that bullshit no matter how concerned we may sound.
 
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