How Well Does Your Mate Know Your Body?

Mo-Better

The R&B Master
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This is a tough question if you think about. Ever say to yourself I wish they would __________? Yeah we all have. I'm asking this after seeing responses from 3 women who have claimed to have difficulties reaching orgasms via intercourse. It would bother the hell out of me if I had a woman that could make that claim.

But this question is for the guys too. Because I know there's some guys who feel their girls are lacking technique. How many mind blowing BJs have you fellas gotten. If any you probably can count them on one hand. Sorry ladies its the truth.

Bringing your mate to orgasm shouldn't be a difficult task if your paying attention to your other. From the very first time together you should be looking for signs aka responses. If your paying attention the sex should be good right from the start. However I have to believe there's some communication missing.

As much as we like to think we know everything there is to know about our mates, our knowledge is only based upon our past experiences. Every woman I've known intimately has been different, some were similar some very different.

So how well does your mate know your body and if he/she is not getting you there what are you doing about it?
 
Very well. So well in fact I have to stop her from doing somethings, that is if she wants the sex to last longer than 4 minutes. It helped that neither had a problem telling the other what we liked early even moving a hand here or there when necessary.
 
Interested in the responses. I don't know if this 1 of those topics will be truthful with.

I'm hoping the responses are truthful. There's no reason for anyone to lie. There exist a degree of anonymity here. If this goes right everyone can benefit from the responses of others. We should never want to stop learning.
 
I'm hoping the responses are truthful. There's no reason for anyone to lie. There exist a degree of anonymity here. If this goes right everyone can benefit from the responses of others. We should never want to stop learning.


I think that about the entire board but that doesn't stop people from creating these personal alternate realities for themselves. I don't even see why a person would lie about this.
 
I think that about the entire board but that doesn't stop people from creating these personal alternate realities for themselves. I don't even see why a person would lie about this.

I'm not concerned with those individuals. Can't do anymore about them than I can the weather. But if you notice dialogs here seem to be on a different level as on the other forums. It will be fairly easy to determine which posters are genuine and who is not.
 
My current chick can't give head to save her life, but I deal with it because she is pretty open to doing most other things.

To be honest I've never been all that crazy about head, but there was this Italian chick I used to mess with from bbrooklyn :itsawrap: chick used to suck my dick like it had flavor to it
 
I know what you're sayin Mo, i'd like to see some good responses. But yeah...just cuz there's no reason...this tends to be 1 of those subjects for some reason in my experience people have tried to puff up about.
 
I think its about 80-85% but that is something that I think has to build up over time. It takes awhile to learn what your partner likes and responds to. Also, sometimes they may change too, so you have to be able to adjust accordingly.
 
I think its about 85-90% but that is something that I think has to build up over time. It takes awhile to learn what your partner likes and responds to. Also, sometimes they may change too, so you have to be able to adjust accordingly

C/s. I'd say "pretty well". The thing is I know my body, so if something doesn't feel right or could feel better I usually communicate about it. That probably takes the pressure off the learning curve quite a bit.

On a side note, I think that's what differentiates great lovers from good lovers sometimes. Some people are just really good at paying attention to subtle cues. Some people really really LISTEN to your body. Others are just blessed with favorable anatomy so pretty much anything they do is going to feel good without extra effort. I think it's that extra that makes it exceptional though.
 
C/s. I'd say "pretty well". The thing is I know my body, so if something doesn't feel right or could feel better I usually communicate about it. That probably takes the pressure off the learning curve quite a bit.

On a side note, I think that's what differentiates great lovers from good lovers sometimes. Some people are just really good at paying attention to subtle cues. Some people really really LISTEN to your body. Others are just blessed with favorable anatomy so pretty much anything they do is going to feel good without extra effort. I think it's that extra that makes it exceptional though.

Exactly
 
I'll be honest, not too well. She's old fashioned and downright boring. I've tried teaching her but some chicks just don't have it and is opposed to certain things.

I do have side chicks who know and go all out on me though. One is a straight freak, nut in her mouth, fuck her in the butt, and anything else I ask for.

The other J.O is like the main chick, real conservative but a dirty talker in bed (which I love!).

That's as honest as I can be, they all compliment each other. :dunno:
 
I'll be honest, not too well. She's old fashioned and downright boring. I've tried teaching her but some chicks just don't have it and is opposed to certain things.

I do have side chicks who know and go all out on me though. One is a straight freak, nut in her mouth, fuck her in the butt, and anything else I ask for.

The other J.O is like the main chick, real conservative but a dirty talker in bed (which I love!).

That's as honest as I can be, they all compliment each other. :dunno:

Sounds like if you rolled all them into one woman, she'd be perfect.:D
 
My current chick can't give head to save her life, but I deal with it because she is pretty open to doing most other things.

To be honest I've never been all that crazy about head, but there was this Italian chick I used to mess with from bbrooklyn :itsawrap: chick used to suck my dick like it had flavor to it

Don't feel like the Lone Ranger on the head thing. I started a thread on that subject about a year ago. Its never happened with me either. Some women never develop the proper techniques. Then again maybe that technique worked with others just not with you.
 
I think its about 80-85% but that is something that I think has to build up over time. It takes awhile to learn what your partner likes and responds to. Also, sometimes they may change too, so you have to be able to adjust accordingly.

It can be a thing that takes time or it can be mind blowing right from the start. It depends on how well your mate reads you and your responses. But your right we do change and we have to adjust. But sometimes we need to take charge and show them what we want.
 
I think its about 80-85% but that is something that I think has to build up over time. It takes awhile to learn what your partner likes and responds to. Also, sometimes they may change too, so you have to be able to adjust accordingly.
foh:hmm:

anyway. i stub my toe and cum, so i'm good.
 
Don't feel like the Lone Ranger on the head thing. I started a thread on that subject about a year ago. Its never happened with me either. Some women never develop the proper techniques. Then again maybe that technique worked with others just not with you.



It's the Teeth the damn Teeth..........She just doesn't get the hint. :crymeariver:

So when ever she does he thing i'm like Oooo, Yea, thats nice! okay enough of that lets fuck..
 
It's the Teeth the damn Teeth..........She just doesn't get the hint. :crymeariver:

So when ever she does he thing i'm like Oooo, Yea, thats nice! okay enough of that lets fuck..

That's funny because I'm a teeth guy. I like some biting and nibbling when done properly.

I did have a girl who wasn't the best at head but she got better then we broke up. I felt like I had done my job and helped her learn a new skill.
 
I just said that. I had to really talk her into biting it. Damn, the dick is hard, just put your teeth on the shaft and apply pressure. Have a woman do that right and you'll be begging for it.

..... have a woman do it wrong and you be a cussin' and a fussin' :roflmao:
 
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