How much dough a guy gotta make....

How much money does a guy have to make for you ladies to consider him to be ballin' ?????

I think it's more than what you actually make. It's what you save. It's your assets.

It's how you spend and how comfortable you are financially.

All of that comes into play.
 
Just remember, It's the guy with the nice house and average car that's is probably "ballin'". That guy who has a nice ride but has a million excuses about having some quality time at his place that is frontin. Ninja probably in his mom's basement. :smh:
 
thing is, is to make as much as you can, but not for someone else, but for yourself first.
 
Just remember, It's the guy with the nice house and average car that's is probably "ballin'". That guy who has a nice ride but has a million excuses about having some quality time at his place that is frontin. Ninja probably in his mom's basement. :smh:

Agreed. I'm a little suspicious of too flashy men. Most of the people I know (high degrees, good income 6 figures) are usually saving money, buying real estate, taking care of children (daycare and private schools are expensive!!!!) paying off student loans (especially the MD's and PhD's) and actively trying to build wealth and not accumulate debt. Even if they dress nice, they drive modest cars and don't wear excessive jewelry.

I refuse to buy a new car. I am extremely cheap like that. I will drive a car until it falls apart because its paid for and why make another bill?
 
Agreed. I'm a little suspicious of too flashy men. Most of the people I know (high degrees, good income 6 figures) are usually saving money, buying real estate, taking care of children (daycare and private schools are expensive!!!!) paying off student loans (especially the MD's and PhD's) and actively trying to build wealth and not accumulate debt. Even if they dress nice, they drive modest cars and don't wear excessive jewelry.

I refuse to buy a new car. I am extremely cheap like that. I will drive a car until it falls apart because its paid for and why make another bill?


Sound like my type of woman! :yes:

I want tobe able to take whoever I wind up with on a vacation every year once we retire. I plan to not be working in my twilight years. And to do that, my spouse (should I remarry) should be thinking the same way.

We have to save now so that we can spend later. :dance:
 
izayoi.yesssssssssssssssss.i am the same way.i did alot of investing in the stockmarket, that is where thr real ballers are at.my car is a 95 and paid for i dont deal with credit cards next move roth ira. wish more black people did the same we would be in a better postiton than we are now, stop but spining rims and tvs in the head rest...
 
Just remember, It's the guy with the nice house and average car that's is probably "ballin'". That guy who has a nice ride but has a million excuses about having some quality time at his place that is frontin. Ninja probably in his mom's basement. :smh:

I'd just like to point out that there is nothing wrong with mom's basement. I would live in my mom's basement if I didn't have kids and living with a partner. It's a very nice house and I could stack my cheese or squander my cheese taking risks or having fun. Whatever. But there is nothing wrong with moms basement. There are lots of guys with money who still live at their parents house.

I know most sisters on here don't meet guys whose parents have a very big house and/or more house than they need and if life is good at home and I am still living and loving the bachelor life. I would be in no freaking rush to get out. If I am in a serious relationship and moms like approve of her then we move forward and we discuss new living arrangement then.
 
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