How do you keep a woman on her toes
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I think the best way to keep her on her toes is to keep YOUR game crispy tight. If she knows you have options, she has to keep her stuff tight, or she can be replaced.
Fuck That!!!
1) Tell Her Don't Let "my Money" Go To Your Head!!
2) Make Sure You Ration The Dick Like They Ration The Pussy. The Next Time She Tells You She Wants Something From You And You Can't For What Ever Reason Ans She Withholds The Pussy, Superman That Hoe.
3) Make Sure You Allow Yourself Free Time For Yourself. Allocated 1 Hour A Day For You And On;y You. If She Rears Her Head Make Her Leave.
Just Kidding...........
All You Got To Do Is Inspire Her To Reach For The Stars.... What Woman Would Let Herself Become Stale If She Knew You Want A Progressive Woman.
1) Tell Her Don't Let "my Money" Go To Your Head!!
2) Make Sure You Ration The Dick Like They Ration The Pussy. The Next Time She Tells You She Wants Something From You And You Can't For What Ever Reason Ans She Withholds The Pussy, Superman That Hoe.
3) Make Sure You Allow Yourself Free Time For Yourself. Allocated 1 Hour A Day For You And On;y You. If She Rears Her Head Make Her Leave.
Just Kidding...........
All You Got To Do Is Inspire Her To Reach For The Stars.... What Woman Would Let Herself Become Stale If She Knew You Want A Progressive Woman.
No doubt... if your girl knows that other chics want you, she'll be more likely to stay on top of her game.
Right ladies?
I kind of don't agree with this. If you are doing what you're doing that will keep her on top of her game. My man is good to me, keeps me motivated, compliments me, stimulates mentally and physically, and that is enough to keep me interested...even though he tells me "NO" sometimes lol. Therefore, I could give a fuck who else wants him, because I want him.. and that's all that matters.
You must not know much about women. How do you keep a woman on her toes? Mental or the threat of physical abuse... 
If you feel the need to keep her on her toes then she's not really your woman. No woman I know wants to deal a stressful relationship. These weak minded games are old and played out.
You treat your woman right she'll keep you on your toes.
If you feel the need to keep her on her toes then she's not really your woman. No woman I know wants to deal a stressful relationship. These weak minded games are old and played out.
You treat your woman right she'll keep you on your toes.
But by him doing/being all those things he would naturally become (more) attractive to other women thus increasing his options. Whether he explores those options is up to him...and you.
It seems like you have a "good" man. Don't sleep sista.
*two cents*
Yes and also beyond marriage...
But by him doing/being all those things he would naturally become (more) attractive to other women thus increasing his options. Whether he explores those options is up to him...and you.
It seems like you have a "good" man. Don't sleep sista.
*two cents*
He is GREAT man, and I don't need the idea of other women wanting him to "keep me on my toes", seeing his greatness does that for me... He is always going to be attractive to women as will I always be attractive men, but the idea or threat of someone else wanting your partner shouldn't be the driving force behind why you treat them well; the love and mutual respect and desire you have for each other should... Wake up brother
*keep the change*
How romantic and I wish you guys the best but you are proving my point. You know you have a good thing in him and will do right by him because you know, admitting or not, that other women see his greatness too and wouldn't mind being in your spot. His "greatness" gives him options. If it didn't you seeing it wouldn't keep you on your toes as you so claim.
This has very little to do with romance and more to do with the sexual market place that none of us can escape... People want people of "greatness" but to keep them they must bring something of equal value to the table; "stay on there toes (game)"Best believe that if you stopped see his "greatness" or if he stopped being "great" you would be singing a different tune and rightfully so.
Very romantic but dont slip sista.
*two cents*
How romantic and I wish you guys the best but you are proving my point. You know you have a good thing in him and will do right by him because you know, admitting or not, that other women see his greatness too and wouldn't mind being in your spot. His "greatness" gives him options. If it didn't you seeing it wouldn't keep you on your toes as you so claim.
This has very little to do with romance and more to do with the sexual market place that none of us can escape... People want people of "greatness" but to keep them they must bring something of equal value to the table; "stay on there toes (game)"Best believe that if you stopped see his "greatness" or if he stopped being "great" you would be singing a different tune and rightfully so.
Very romantic but dont slip sista.
*two cents*
Seeing someone's greatness is not a romantic notion....it's rational...and seeing that my partner is great for me is my subjective opinion.. Other women may see him as a great man and others did before me, but he didn't choose them and they didn't choose him... I think it's good that other women find him to be attractive, and we are both aware of the other having options. My job is not to try to limit those options, I'm not living my life trying to keep other women from wanting him, my job is to keep him wanting me. Furthermore, even those who are not great have options, ugly people have options, stupid people have options, etc. That will always exists..Sure some may have more and some may have less, but we all have them.
My point is that what drives you or keeps you on your toes shouldn't be trying to keep other people away. That is futile...your job is to be sure that even if someone does step to your mate, that they know what he or she stands to lose is far greater than what they will gain in that moment.
It should be that YOU see what is good, YOU want to be everything for you mate, regardless of what others see in them.. My SO isn't worried about the idea that some other cat may want me, he is making sure I want him...
You are saying things as if they are profound, of course when you stop seeing and appreciating your partner for who and what they are, they will surely begin to look elsewhere....whether the person is great or not...anybody can find somebody else
Exactly... You are both in a sense "keeping each other on your toes" which I see as putting your best foot forward for your mate and expecting the same in return... It seems like you guys are doing that.
And your right what I said is not profound...but how many girlfriends/ cats do you know ride on the curtails of romance, ignoring the day to day upkeep of a relationship, only to lose their significant other to someone else. Common sense ain't so common these days sista.
I wish you and your beau the best.
*two cents*
And your right what I said is not profound...but how many girlfriends/ cats do you know ride on the curtails of romance, ignoring the day to day upkeep of a relationship, only to lose their significant other to someone else. Common sense ain't so common these days sista.
I wish you and your beau the best.
*two cents*
Seeing someone's greatness is not a romantic notion....it's rational...and seeing that my partner is great for me is my subjective opinion.. Other women may see him as a great man and others did before me, but he didn't choose them and they didn't choose him... I think it's good that other women find him to be attractive, and we are both aware of the other having options. My job is not to try to limit those options, I'm not living my life trying to keep other women from wanting him, my job is to keep him wanting me. Furthermore, even those who are not great have options, ugly people have options, stupid people have options, etc. That will always exists..Sure some may have more and some may have less, but we all have them.
My point is that what drives you or keeps you on your toes shouldn't be trying to keep other people away. That is futile...your job is to be sure that even if someone does step to your mate, that they know what he or she stands to lose is far greater than what they will gain in that moment.
It should be that YOU see what is good, YOU want to be everything for you mate, regardless of what others see in them.. My SO isn't worried about the idea that some other cat may want me, he is making sure I want him...
You are saying things as if they are profound, of course when you stop seeing and appreciating your partner for who and what they are, they will surely begin to look elsewhere....whether the person is great or not...anybody can find somebody else
Re: How do you keep a woman on her toes
options, options, options, if she knonws you got em, she ell always be on her
toes. 1 out of nine will always give it her all, nine out of ten, sorry to say will only make a good number two, because she needs competition in order to perform.
story. this girl was at my house sittin on my couch talkin about she cooks and cleans but doesnt like to, she likes men that can cook or whatever, goes into my bathroom and when she comes out shes a washin my dishes, vaccuuming my carpet, moppin the hell outta my floor. im like whatta change of heart, lol. later i went in the bathroom and realized this other broad left her pants hangin behind the door. wow.
options, options, options, if she knonws you got em, she ell always be on her
toes. 1 out of nine will always give it her all, nine out of ten, sorry to say will only make a good number two, because she needs competition in order to perform.
story. this girl was at my house sittin on my couch talkin about she cooks and cleans but doesnt like to, she likes men that can cook or whatever, goes into my bathroom and when she comes out shes a washin my dishes, vaccuuming my carpet, moppin the hell outta my floor. im like whatta change of heart, lol. later i went in the bathroom and realized this other broad left her pants hangin behind the door. wow.
Re: How do you keep a woman on her toes
Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep.
*two cents*
options, options, options, if she knonws you got em, she ell always be on her
toes. 1 out of nine will always give it her all, nine out of ten, sorry to say will only make a good number two, because she needs competition in order to perform.
story. this girl was at my house sittin on my couch talkin about she cooks and cleans but doesnt like to, she likes men that can cook or whatever, goes into my bathroom and when she comes out shes a washin my dishes, vaccuuming my carpet, moppin the hell outta my floor. im like whatta change of heart, lol. later i went in the bathroom and realized this other broad left her pants hangin behind the door. wow.
Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep.
*two cents*
keep her thinking all the time....
Touché
not saying that you wouldnt want him anymore, but would you express yourself as a lady whos happy and wants to play your part to keep him happy or as a woman who has made her catch.
I don't see having my man as "making my catch" lol.. I see myself as getting someone I deserve and want to be with, and I understand that in order to keep us both happy and in love that I do what is necessary to maintain it.
I think the type of woman you are referring to is not me. I am not one who dresses all fancy, keeps her hair done, works out, cooks, etc. just to "catch a man"... I do those things for myself everyday because I love me, man or no man. Having my mate just makes me work harder, and because I love him and I love us, I'm going to make sure he is taken care of in every way... not because of the possibility of someone else wanting him, but because he deserves to be taken care of, and because he takes care of me.
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