Aight ladies I've always wondered this. When a women loses trust in their man how does a man go about getting it back? Or perhaps a better question is, "Is it even possible?". Should he just have put up with his girl constantly accusing him of lying and just live with her demands on him that are supposed to make her feel "comfortable" (even though he thinks some of them are unreasonable). OR should he be firm with it and be like "Look brawd, I lied in the past but I don't do that no more. I'm a changed man and I've proven it to you. If you can't see that in me then I'm gone!!"
I've had a female friend tell me that once the trust of a woman is gone it will NEVER come back fully. Yea she may not bring the shit you did to her in the past up as often or maybe not at all, but it always in the back of her mind no matter what. Is this ACTUALLY true? IMO men, in general, are very different. If we say we forgive you and we are over it we usually don't punish you for it later. You know the kind of punishment some females do. For example, if in the past your man was calling people he shouldn't have called, yall then start going through his phone records/voicemail just because. Or if he don't pick up the phone right away when you call you automatically think he was doing something he have no business doin, even though a nigga was just sleep lol. Or the good ol' "Why you sound so guilty? What was you doin!?" question that ya'll sometimes ask when your trying to catch us in a lie lol.
Again, I know all women aren't like this but I just wanted to get some insight from you ladies.
I've had a female friend tell me that once the trust of a woman is gone it will NEVER come back fully. Yea she may not bring the shit you did to her in the past up as often or maybe not at all, but it always in the back of her mind no matter what. Is this ACTUALLY true? IMO men, in general, are very different. If we say we forgive you and we are over it we usually don't punish you for it later. You know the kind of punishment some females do. For example, if in the past your man was calling people he shouldn't have called, yall then start going through his phone records/voicemail just because. Or if he don't pick up the phone right away when you call you automatically think he was doing something he have no business doin, even though a nigga was just sleep lol. Or the good ol' "Why you sound so guilty? What was you doin!?" question that ya'll sometimes ask when your trying to catch us in a lie lol.
Again, I know all women aren't like this but I just wanted to get some insight from you ladies.
He said he didn't know, anyways long story short, I never took him back even though I wanted to, because I knew deep within me that i wouldn't live with his infidelity for the rest of my life if we were to make a life together.
