How can you tell when the relationship is poisoned?

[Dannyblueyes]

You know the story. Girl and boy meet. They hit it off hard and fast. Sex is great, can't spend a moment without each other, talk about marriage, kids and so forth.

Then one day boy does something horribly wrong. He apologizes, promises it will never happen again and maybe even keeps his word. The problem is that he's crossed a line.

it doesn't mean girl dumps boy. She might even marry him and have children, but she will never see him the same way again. From that moment on girl loves, respects and trusts him less every day.

at this point it doesn't matter what boy does for girl. He could become successful our even save her life, but the damage is done. The resentment and hatred grows in her like a poisonous rot until eventually he is completely useless and undesirable to girl. The relationship moves unhappily along to a very bitter end.

So ladies, how can a man tell when this poisoning has started? I think it has happened in my current relationship and it may be time to bounce. Then again she could just be mad at me. How can I tell for sure? What are the signs?





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[Kpdubs]

Let go

 

[jucurious]

It starts when you cross the line

You listed signs of the decline so what is not clear? Cut your losses, take the lessons, leave the pain and keep it moving.

Care to share what line was crossed?

 

[BlackSmurf]

by the time you think there is a problem its already been over for about a month and cheating has usually already occurred ... relationships are damn near impossible beyond the honeymoon stage these days

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

The OP is caucazoid.

 

[mailboxpimp]

this is why you keep an extra bitch on the side!

 

[ballscout1]

when there os no trust its over.

you will never regain it.

doesn't matter if what the person thinks was a betrayal happened or not.

Once they think there was a betrayal and they believe it.


no trust poison to strong..move it along

 

[lurkedndapast]

If you have to ask the relationship is done. Be grown enough to admit your mistakes and wise enough never repeat. When you love someone there are certain lines you refuse to cross. So if you crossed them already you killed the relationship first. You didn't want to be there otherwise you wouldn't have crossed the line nothing is by mistake it all happens for a reason. Most likely you are looking for a reason to leave and couldn't come up with one good enough, so you did what you did hoping they will leave, but secretly not wanting them to. You can hurt someone you love but you cant hurt someone you like because essentially you want them to keep liking you. Stop playing games and be real with yourself and them. I am sure at some point they meant enough to you to deserve that much from you.

 

[kes1111]

 

[Crown Royal]

Then why stay in a relationship that you know is doomed. Never understood this......

 

[purple16]

Then why stay in a relationship that you know is doomed. Never understood this......

misery loves company i guess woman look at it emotionally where as men look at the situation logically most of the times. i know it was time for me to bounce when i started to have dreams of choking her out...i have 2 boys i didnt want them to see what i was displaying as how you treat a woman..