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[Mr2Fly]

For a long time now. there has been a stigma about men that all men are dogs. I can understand how this came into being due to the fact that most men at a young age are not ready for a true committed relationship. Thus they bounce around from woman to woman like the "dog" or "Man-ho".

But here is my issue...

If the perception is that most men are "hoes".

and that most women especially those with kids want stability and a relationship.

why is it that women have chosen to take on the stand point of mimic the behavior of these men or "hoes" or "dogs"?

Not saying that women sleep around as much as men, but why disrespect your point of view, self and moral center on the grounds that "they get theirs so I'm going to get mine"?

So the choice is made to have a babysitter watch the kids or wait till the kids are asleep and then LET A MAN THAT MEANS ABSOLUTLY NOTHING...(OTHER THAN HE IS PLAYING IS CARDS RIGHT FOR NOW) SLUT YOU DOWN ON THE SOLE STRENGTH OF YOUR LIBIDO?or is it just women trying to be equal in the most idiotic un-queen like way?

just because some dogs are getting at you and doing you wrong doesn't make you clear to be a ho or dog yourself, in my eyes.

why would a "self respecting woman" do something like that?

Speak on it...

 

[onyxfemme]

I feel where you are coming from. Let me say this....Even a self respecting mature woman will fall from her "highness & maturity" if she has been hurt too many times. Sometimes as women thoughts and judgement are clouded by the hurt that has been inflicted on us. So what do some do?
They conform to a role that will keep their feelings from being hurt and/or a role like the person who hurts them.
It is NOT in a womans natural nature to be "whorish". We are meant to be bound to one person.
Is it right for anyone to sleep around? It depends...On are they hurting anyone in the process? If not if is their current mindset......We cant really say it is wrong or right.

For a long time now. there has been a stigma about men that all men are dogs. I can understand how this came into being due to the fact that most men at a young age are not ready for a true committed relationship. Thus they bounce around from woman to woman like the "dog" or "Man-ho".

But here is my issue...

If the perception is that most men are "hoes".

and that most women especially those with kids want stability and a relationship.

why is it that women have chosen to take on the stand point of mimic the behavior of these men or "hoes" or "dogs"?

Not saying that women sleep around as much as men, but why disrespect your point of view, self and moral center on the grounds that "they get theirs so I'm going to get mine"?

So the choice is made to have a babysitter watch the kids or wait till the kids are asleep and then LET A MAN THAT MEANS ABSOLUTLY NOTHING...(OTHER THAN HE IS PLAYING IS CARDS RIGHT FOR NOW) SLUT YOU DOWN ON THE SOLE STRENGTH OF YOUR LIBIDO?or is it just women trying to be equal in the most idiotic un-queen like way?

just because some dogs are getting at you and doing you wrong doesn't make you clear to be a ho or dog yourself, in my eyes.

why would a "self respecting woman" do something like that?

Speak on it...

 

[LoneStar29]

 

[onyxfemme]

dang Lone

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Gotta agree with Sister Star on this one. C'mon man, how old are you? Drop these oversimplified generalizations that wedge people in boxes.

 

[Mr2Fly]

I feel where ya'll are coming from. thanks for the replies.
femme I feel where you. I guess the best action is to just let sistas do what they do and keep it moving. I just seen a couple family members doing it and I hold them women in high regard.
but some re-thinking just may be in order.