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Guys, when would you want to know?

followup said:
**This is not necessarily about me** :)

Some women date more than one man at a time. Should we tell you from day one or should we wait until you ask if we're seeing anyone? Would you automatically not want to date a woman who sees multiple men at the same time? (don't assume she's sleeping with all of them).

Ladies what do you think?

I feel like if a woman says it right off the bat, it will turn some men away. But I think it should be stated up front :dunno:
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See thats the fucking problem with women. We aint datin unless we fucking. So if you dont plan on fuckin then you just wasting my time. How about telling us that from day one?
 
followup said:
**This is not necessarily about me** :)

Some women date more than one man at a time. Should we tell you from day one or should we wait until you ask if we're seeing anyone? Would you automatically not want to date a woman who sees multiple men at the same time? (don't assume she's sleeping with all of them).

Ladies what do you think?

I feel like if a woman says it right off the bat, it will turn some men away. But I think it should be stated up front :dunno:
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Fuck outta here.
 
followup said:
**This is not necessarily about me** :)

Some women date more than one man at a time. Should we tell you from day one or should we wait until you ask if we're seeing anyone? Would you automatically not want to date a woman who sees multiple men at the same time? (don't assume she's sleeping with all of them).

Ladies what do you think?

I feel like if a woman says it right off the bat, it will turn some men away. But I think it should be stated up front :dunno:
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Why lie about that :dunno:
 
Why must people complicate their lives?

When you go out on a date with someone it's automatically assumed that you're both available. Why the fok would you go out on a date when you're already involved in a relationship with someone else? :confused: That's just stupid.

The end.
 
You ain't gotta tell me shit.

I don't assume that I'm the only man that fancies a particular female, and the same goes for her about me. I won't assume, and neither should she.

Initially, we don't owe each other anything. Even after a while, feeling should be communicated to make sure everything is mutual and amicable.
Unless we talk about and agree to something being exclusive.... IT AIN'T. Also, even if either party decides not to have "other friends" its just their personal choice, it doesn't mean the other party is obligated to do the same.
 
Black Limey said:
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I must be living in a different world because I only date one woman at a time and would expect that from her

If she was on a dating site.... I would understand but it just makes the woman look like a bit of a slag if she is juggling cock.

I had some sista crying down the phone to me after she accidentally called my house asking for another dude and after that bullshit

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Same here, I do one woman at a time.
 
I've always considered myself a serial monogomist :lol:

I find it hard to date more than one man at once...

I tried it in graduate school, and, in the end, I ended up telling the other dude, after date three, I wanted to exclusively date someone else...

Funny...I always assumed most guys dated more than one girl at once, until he asked to be her boyfriend, etc. Then again, somehow, I can kind of sense if a guy is dating more than one person at a time... I don't know what it is, but I feel like I can tell the type. Then again, I might be naive :lol:
 
JofromthaNO said:
I've always considered myself a serial monogomist :lol:

I find it hard to date more than one man at once...

I tried it in graduate school, and, in the end, I ended up telling the other dude, after date three, I wanted to exclusively date someone else...

Funny...I always assumed most guys dated more than one girl at once, until he asked to be her boyfriend, etc. Then again, somehow, I can kind of sense if a guy is dating more than one person at a time... I don't know what it is, but I feel like I can tell the type. Then again, I might be naive :lol:
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It's easy enough to tell the players. They're not always available, communication is sporadic the signs are usually there if your willing to accept what you see.

We don't all date multiple women at once. Times have changed its costly and with cell phones its not so easy to be "out of reach" and have a valid excuse.

BTW I don't think your thoughts or your being naive just real.
 
I guess it depends on what you're looking for with this "date".

If you're just hanging out, having fun with someone cool or who is a friend, then you needn't put that info out there.;)

However; if your diggin' this person and are interested in getting to know them better or "intimately", I say BE HONEST...

I personally wanna know from the jump wheter or not she's seeing anyone before I take her out. And yes; I'd ask her beforhand.
Why?

#1. I need to protect myself emotionally. (In relation to catching intimate/romantic feelings for her or not) If she's seeing other men then: NO

#2. Avoiding having potenial problems with the OTHER man/men or women she's seeing.
(You know. The jealous man who MAY see us out together & might not handle it "well"). I'm NOT fighting anyone over a woman. :smh:

#3. Far too many relationships start off with a lie. Why not be honest if you're looking for more with that person? It's the responsible thing to do. Better safe than sorry...(STD/HIV/AIDS anyone?)

Just my 2 cents...
 

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