In order for me to even consider any type of relationship with a woman she must:
Have the ability to conceive a reality in which her personal needs and wants do not outweigh the responsibilities and functions that it would take to stabilize situations in order for the equal enjoyment of said reality by me or others(mainly me).
Have the ability to disguise any attempt at manipulation in such a way that you both maintain my respect and engage my intellect. Any blatant half assed attempt will be ignored at the least.
Have the ability to realize that there is a wall that exist between what you feel and what you think. Even though emotions do have the ability to cloud judgment and one or even two irrational actions are tolerable within the constraints of immediate reaction but any actions beyond initial response becomes redundant and deems you unworthy of my attention..taking the time to thoroughly think out actions as an adult negates irrational action...thus this ability is crucial in order to deserve my attention.
Have the ability to realize and embrace the uniqueness that god has blessed you with, and that this uniqueness, being divine, should be cherished by you and you alone. Respect yourself enough to not allow others to cripple you perception of yourself and respect others enough not to drown them in your ego or your arrogance.
Have a strong belief that life is to be cherished during both its positive and negative increments. Regardless of you religion or beliefs know that you are alive so therefore function accordingly. Don't live life in away where you are an emotional siphon that drains the joy out of us that actually feel that we have a purpose and therefore want to live meaningful lives, either dump ya funk or keep it moving buster.
Have the ability claim responsibility when you make mistakes. We all have malfunctions sometimes its only natural. Its also natural for the child in us to want to blame others for our mistakes because it feels better to take the pain and exert it onto an outward source. This however is very irresponsible and age alone should give us a sense of knowing better than to take this action. Its best just to swallow your pride, admit your wrong, and take steps toward prevention of the same mistakes. At the same time don't let "sorry" become a crutch that we use to get you by because eventually people will realize that you are either insincere or an incompetent idiot incapable of learning life lessons, neither of which is attractive in an adult.
In conclusion this is not me telling you how to qualify your women...this is just me letting you know how I filter the creme da la creme from the crumb de la crumbs. Live your life how YOU want....
