Females - SELF DEFENSE THREAD

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DO NOT BE A VICTIM.

It is a morbid world. Femme will tell you.

Men, feel free to chime in, post, and ADD. I ask, and encourage you to do so.

Ladies, let me know. DO YOU WANT A THREAD LIKE THIS.


Well, I'ma do it anyway. :hmm:



This thread is for women who love themselves, and men who love women . . . even when we can't stand next to them, and protect.

As an ex, HS, college, and freestyle wrestler I was into a lot of shit, heavy into Aikido.
I had a thread on this back in the day on the main board, where I uploaded on my own servers, and allowed people to DL videos.

Now I know you all can fight. :rolleyes: :D :hmm:

But is a mentality.

If you know how to fight, you've taken an ass whoopin or two. :(:yes: Mostly when younger.

The FACT now is, it could mean your life. :hmm:



There is not one woman I date, that does not know how to effectively defend herself from being grabbed off the top of her head or hair. Because I work with them, I am NOT an expert, but I do what I can.

We will start off with some hand to hand, Krav Maga, with youtube, I also hope to get into firearms, situational and home defense and just general, watching your back, watch your background.

But most IMPORTANTLY . . . THINKING ABOUT IT.

Let's begin . . .

Krav Maga AKMA - A Krav Maga demonstration -

Krav Maga (Hebrew קרב מגע: "contact combat") is an eclectic self-defense and military hand-to-hand combat system developed in Israel, which assumes no quarter, and emphasizes maximum threat neutralization in a "real life" context. It came to prominence following its adoption by various Israeli Security Forces

[flash]http://www.youtube.com/v/7Z4UH_LG6t4&rel=1[/flash]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Z4UH_LG6t4








Krav Maga Self Defense Techniques for Women : Using a Groin Kick in Self Defense


[flash]http://www.youtube.com/v/usBBHdAl8JQ&rel=1[/flash]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=usBBHdAl8JQ



Krav Maga Self Defense Techniques for Women : Defense Against an Arms Free - Bear Hug From Behind


[flash]http://www.youtube.com/v/BIwOOT2D4cs&rel=1[/flash]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BIwOOT2D4cs




Because it's a love of mine, here's an Aikido demo -

Sheila Haddad
:yes: Respect

[flash]http://www.youtube.com/v/Emlgy_gJUFI&rel=1[/flash]

I'll talk about the street fighting applications, and overstanding of how Aikido's grappling can disarm an attacker quickly, and put you into control further later.

Again, I encourage some of our law enforcement brothers and sisters, self defense cats, military here on BGOL to ADD.
 
It'd be just my luck just because I read this thread some shit's gonna pop off this week.
I haven't even thought of fighting since middle school.
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It'd be just my luck just because I read this thread some shit's gonna pop off this week.
I haven't even thought of fighting since middle school.

I know right. . . DAMN :smh:

Perhaps this thread is not for you.

I am absolutely not advocating fighting, or any type of violence.




What I am advocating is black women, all women, understanding, and thinking about the fact that there are people who are willing, and eager to ATTACK you. Beat you, and they are willing to MURDER you, as women.

It is serious. That's why I made this thread.

I've invited other men, more on it than me, and all men to input on this thread.

Unfortantly, the two of you just showed, WHY I made this thread.

It is all attitude, and understanding.

All I'm trying to do, is participate in helping black women, and women, understand, just trying to punch, hit, may not work.

You need to understand how to fight as an adult.

I don't mean to be mean. But take this personally.

The attitude of BOTH of you, basically says to me, A MAN CAN BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF YOU.

If your not even open to understanding how to defend yourself, any MAN, can end your life in less than 5 mins.

It is that serious.


If you think your high school, bullshit fighting is going to defend you as adult, you CAN NOT defend yourself against a MAN.

You will die, or be injured badly.

I understand, it's not a daily thought with women SOMETIMES, as it is with men.

But to act as if you are not open to understanding. :hmm:


Here's what I understand. You man is not worried about your life.
ALL women I talk to, deal with, date, fuck, I've bought them mace, an they will not get got without a fight.

Play that bullshit if you want.

Go get your nails done, but make it through that DARK parking lot out your job first.

:cool::hmm: This thread ain't for you.

Miss me with that head shaking shit.









Thank you Shane great post:yes:

Thank you. It will continue.
 
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Neck Chops and sternum pokes.

Stay calm and seem cooperative to create illusion.

I little 4 inch blade does wonders on a windpipe.

Mace and pepper spray will get you Effed up close range:smh:

If ever in a rape situation.....TAKE A BITE OUT OF CRIME.

The suspect can be easily identified that way.:D

The nutts are the first place he knows you will aim for so you have
to set it up with something up top like a spin kick (advanced) to the
head or the throat chop.

By the way you have to do the throat chop super hard like ur life
depended on it. You hit that apple right and a mf will concentrate
on trying to breathe which gives you time to roll.

Now I feel crazy up givin this info to ALL WOMEN cause some of yall are straight........nevermind.

Keep in mind none of this is guaranteed but your best bet is to
keep it cool then suprise the
attackerwith every bit of force like its your one chance.
Get punching bags its great stress relief and a good workout and keeps you ahead of these
newport smoking 40 drinkin ass mfs who do punk shit like hit women
Excuse me

Good Luck this world is ______ed
 
Excellent excellent thread Shane. I've taken my share of martial arts and self defense, but this is some good shit...and very necessary.
 
This is an awesome thread Shane!

I used to take Jujitsu. I need to take it up again.

My former boss takes MMA and he always advised me to make sure when I'm going to my car to take the biggest key and rest it in between my middle and ring finger and if anyone tries to get me from behind, jab him in the eye.

And he said no matter what, the hardest kick to the groin area will send any man to the ground.
 
Perhaps this thread is not for you.

I am absolutely not advocating fighting, or any type of violence.




What I am advocating is black women, all women, understanding, and thinking about the fact that there are people who are willing, and eager to ATTACK you. Beat you, and they are willing to MURDER you, as women.

It is serious. That's why I made this thread.

I've invited other men, more on it than me, and all men to input on this thread.

Unfortantly, the two of you just showed, WHY I made this thread.

It is all attitude, and understanding.

All I'm trying to do, is participate in helping black women, and women, understand, just trying to punch, hit, may not work.

You need to understand how to fight as an adult.

I don't mean to be mean. But take this personally.

The attitude of BOTH of you, basically says to me, A MAN CAN BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF YOU.

If your not even open to understanding how to defend yourself, any MAN, can end your life in less than 5 mins.

It is that serious.


If you think your high school, bullshit fighting is going to defend you as adult, you CAN NOT defend yourself against a MAN.

You will die, or be injured badly.

I understand, it's not a daily thought with women SOMETIMES, as it is with men.

But to act as if you are not open to understanding. :hmm:


Here's what I understand. You man is not worried about your life.
ALL women I talk to, deal with, date, fuck, I've bought them mace, an they will not get got without a fight.

Play that bullshit if you want.

Go get your nails done, but make it through that DARK parking lot out your job first.

:cool::hmm: This thread ain't for you.

Miss me with that head shaking shit.











Thank you. It will continue.

Needless to say this is a serious issue. I never would advocate being a victim and not opening your eyes to what's going on around you. I try to approach most situations with a light heart (namely this thread). I did mention I haven't had to defend myself since middle school, but don't get it twisted I'm not prissy I get down and dirty when needed. I think Femme posted a thread yesterday about a lady's finger being pulled off during a purse snatching. If an oppurtunist knows your slipping they will take advantage.
(As for the go get your nails done comment.... in my profession short clean unpolished nails are the standard)
 
Damn, beat me to the punch. Although, great minds do think alike, I was thinking more along the lines of pepper spray, knives and guns...
 
This is an awesome thread Shane!

I used to take Jujitsu. I need to take it up again.

My former boss takes MMA and he always advised me to make sure when I'm going to my car to take the biggest key and rest it in between my middle and ring finger and if anyone tries to get me from behind, jab him in the eye.

And he said no matter what, the hardest kick to the groin area will send any man to the ground.

ah i was just about to post this with the keys. I actually walk with a key inbetween each finger.

sweeps can be very helpful and easy. once you have them on the ground they are yours.

yes the nuts, adams apple and eyes are all very effective attack points.
 
That's not true I saw on the news the other day this Hispanic grandmother was a victim of attempted robbery. I say attempted because she beat his ass and held him there untill the cops came. What most guys seem to forget is that woman raised these "big bad men" so believe me for every man you find I can find a woman who can beat him. If not with strength than with intellect.:yes:
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Perhaps this thread is not for you.

I am absolutely not advocating fighting, or any type of violence.




What I am advocating is black women, all women, understanding, and thinking about the fact that there are people who are willing, and eager to ATTACK you. Beat you, and they are willing to MURDER you, as women.

It is serious. That's why I made this thread.

I've invited other men, more on it than me, and all men to input on this thread.

Unfortantly, the two of you just showed, WHY I made this thread.

It is all attitude, and understanding.

All I'm trying to do, is participate in helping black women, and women, understand, just trying to punch, hit, may not work.

You need to understand how to fight as an adult.

I don't mean to be mean. But take this personally.

The attitude of BOTH of you, basically says to me, A MAN CAN BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF YOU.

If your not even open to understanding how to defend yourself, any MAN, can end your life in less than 5 mins.

It is that serious.


If you think your high school, bullshit fighting is going to defend you as adult, you CAN NOT defend yourself against a MAN.

You will die, or be injured badly.

I understand, it's not a daily thought with women SOMETIMES, as it is with men.

But to act as if you are not open to understanding. :hmm:


Here's what I understand. You man is not worried about your life.
ALL women I talk to, deal with, date, fuck, I've bought them mace, an they will not get got without a fight.

Play that bullshit if you want.

Go get your nails done, but make it through that DARK parking lot out your job first.

:cool::hmm: This thread ain't for you.

Miss me with that head shaking shit.











Thank you. It will continue.

I guess I should have added more to my original post than the damn comment. Your post is appreciated.. When I first opened the thread it just reminded me of how paranoid I already am about something like that happening. But I realize the seriousness of the issue and I trust me I don't take your post for granted because I have been in situations where I've to defend myself before. I am definitely grateful that I have taken self defense classes because if I hadn't I probably wouldn't be here today. So thanks for your post.
 
Wrist grab self defense techniques and more
[FLASH]http://www.youtube.com/v/TYOvQMRY43c&rel=1[/FLASH]

Very lethal weapon, in anyone's hands, who can aim and shoot
[FLASH]http://www.youtube.com/v/y4Tl7ryC3lI&rel=1[/FLASH]

Sabre pepper spray, loaded with dye, pepper and tear gas
[FLASH]http://www.youtube.com/v/iUOaUoUrnNE&rel=1[/FLASH]
 
why so they can get their ass beat thinking they're bruce lee?


boy you know I get a little tired of you yes.
How about so that they can learn how to possibly protect themselves. I know its a difficult concept huh. If you need me to break it down into smaller words let me know. Thanks








Peace
 
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i need to save this thread to my harddrive or something

how can i keep a perm record of this thread?
 
I've been doing Taekwondo on and off since 2003 (grading for my 2nd degree blk-belt next summer. Kick-boxing since 1996.

For all my experience in martial arts, a grossly misconceived notion that under-rates the potency of martial arts, is rather foolhardy and dangerous.

I've seen teenage females shatter hard-wood boards (across the grain) with knife-edge jabs and kicks! :eek:

If I ever have daughters, martial arts training for them will be very relevant to my interests. :yes::yes:
 
boy you know I get a little tired of you yes.
How about so that they can learn how to possibly protect themselves. I know its a difficult concept huh. If you need me to break it down into smaller words let me know. Thanks

Peace

get a pistol.....put a .38 in your purse and learn how to shoot it .
 
3-in1, Tear Gas, Dye & Pepper spray, should be a first option~~! One tube, multiple use, under $20. No license necessary.

Folding pocket knives. So many types. Brand names, Smith and Wesson, Colombia River, Ka Bar, Gerber, Shrade. Necklace knives are handy so ask questions.

If you resort to firearms, apply for a concealed weapons permit. Be trained and experienced;how to aim properly and be willing to deliver severe bodily injury, without hesitation.

Better to get a firearm holster for your torso, clips inside your pants or skirt or leg holster, rather than in your purse. Get a small caliber .25 auto or snubnose, hammerless revolver .38 .357 revolver...


http://www.sacbee.com/220/story/940214.html
 
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Great thread!

Those of you who walk with pepper sprays, knifes and other devices don't think these devices are all you need for your protection. They are tools which can assist you that is all. If by chance you are attacked and you manage to disable your attacker, put your egos in check do not go on the attack, get the hell away from your attacker they may not be alone.

Nothing you can purchase beats common sense. So watch your surroundings, watch your back. Observe your rear view mirror, make sure your not being followed. If you are being followed do not go home go someplace where you can be safe, like a police or fire station a mall anywhere there's a lot of people.

Also understand any device you carry can be used against you if your not fast enough. So the best weapon you have is again to use your common sense. Watch your surroundings in case you didn't know it violent crimes against women are at an all-time high.
 
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LADIES PLEASE TAKE A LIVE SELF DEFENSE COURSE! not a martial arts class but an actual self defense class! a basic course shouldn't be longer than 3 to 6 weeks. (If you want to be lethal, then take a self defense class offered by a Krav Maga teacher...)

these videos are useless until you acquire a defensive mind set and have some real tactile training... the best techniques, tricks, and weapons (keys, mace, etc) are useless if you are not AWARE of your environment.

Practice the same 2 or 3 techniques daily until you can execute them with out thinking about it, keep it simple...



For those that have had some training I recommend learning a grappling technique or three from Judo or Ju-jitsu (no slight to Aki-do, its the same techiques, but Aki-do does not train with real life resistance to locks and throws. also the other 2 are more aggressive)


For those with no training... scream FIRE! not help! there is nothing wrong with biting, but if you do bite don't stop until your teeth meet or you've ripped off some flesh and hopefully some muscle, then run away, don't hang around.

hard open hand slaps to the ear or neck/ throat will stun anyone (you might get lucky and rupture the ear drum or bruise the larynx) then run away...

if you're close enough to step on attackers foot - use your heel and put all of you weight, aim for the center of the foot (not toes) then run away

hopefully you know someone like the op who can work with you... or just take a self defense course...

 
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