February Brings Death...

[HoneyDip]

So I know many of you probably read the title and wondered what the hell... Let me explain

Last year in February I lost BOTH of my grandparents in a tragic car accident. It hit me and my family very hard. Then this February... I lost my uncle suddenly to a heart attack... A few years back I lost another uncle in another tragic car accident. So Im starting to believe that the Month of February Brings nothing but death and gloom to my family. People are dying and this month is nothing but hurtful to me. Im tired of the thought of loosing my family in sudden situations...

Not only is this messing my emotions up but its also messing up my focus in College. I have to keep trying to bounce back after these situations and its challenging in a sense. I find myself feeling overwhelmed. Any advice on what I can do to reduce that feeling???


I just had to get my feelings off my chest and figured why not here...

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Hold ya head up.

 

[BenQ]

HoneyDip

Hold ya head up.

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[melonpecan]

I am sorry for your losses.


The best thing you can do is pray and know they are in a better place. Sometimes there aren't explanations for anything- they just are.

 

[Chicutie]

I don't what your faith is. . . but when I'm going through things. . I pray

When I say pray. . not just one prayer. I mean pray everytime you feel that hurt or find yourself missing those you have lost. Regardless of where you or who you are around. . just say a silent prayer. .

Also fast. . . if you believe in it. . . it will work. . trust me.

Those things work for me. . . I wish the best. .

 

[sean69]

Sorry about your losses HoneyDip.

Reminds us all how fickle life is. Stay focused on what's "real".

 

[OnSlaught]

I kinda know how you feel. Stay strong, try to find peace in this time of turmoil and strife, and don't ever lose yourself in the tide of death until it is truly your time.

Take care girl and many blessings....

 

[mpthaking89]

im real sorry to about your losses...you'll be ok..don't dwell on it

 

[onyxfemme]

100% Cosign

I don't what your faith is. . . but when I'm going through things. . I pray

When I say pray. . not just one prayer. I mean pray everytime you feel that hurt or find yourself missing those you have lost. Regardless of where you or who you are around. . just say a silent prayer. .

Also fast. . . if you believe in it. . . it will work. . trust me.

Those things work for me. . . I wish the best. .

 

[HoneyDip]

Thanks for all the support... Im holding my head up everyday that Im breathing and praying to see the next one...

 

[Mo-Better]

Let's hope and pray this year will be a more positive year for you.

 

[RESPECT]

So I know many of you probably read the title and wondered what the hell... Let me explain

Last year in February I lost BOTH of my grandparents in a tragic car accident. It hit me and my family very hard. Then this February... I lost my uncle suddenly to a heart attack... A few years back I lost another uncle in another tragic car accident. So Im starting to believe that the Month of February Brings nothing but death and gloom to my family. People are dying and this month is nothing but hurtful to me. Im tired of the thought of loosing my family in sudden situations...

Not only is this messing my emotions up but its also messing up my focus in College. I have to keep trying to bounce back after these situations and its challenging in a sense. I find myself feeling overwhelmed. Any advice on what I can do to reduce that feeling???


I just had to get my feelings off my chest and figured why not here...

c/s
but my month is october. i learned how to pray for the worst and hope for the best so when things hit me i can deal wit it better. finish your schooling so that you can still make your uncles and grandparents happy. don't let the devil draw you in.
peace to all

 

[onyxfemme]

Hey how are you HoneyDip?
You are in my prayers-stay positive young Diva

 

[LoneStar29]

*hugs*