Wow... I see a whole lot of denial and finger pointing going on... meanwhile no body's really addressing the problem.
In this country white women are the standard of beauty... the epitome symbol of success and the ultimate icon of femininity.
Now yes, many Black men have been conditioned to harden himself towards the Black woman from centuries of not being able to protect her.
And Black women have hardened herself against the Black man from centuries of having no one she could turn to.
But what do we do about this now?
NO, BLACK MEN ARE NOT HANDLING THEIR BUSINESS. Check college stats, Black colleges: 75% women. 25% male.
ANd yes there are Black women who, through years of abuse and no father figure or proper mother figure present are thought of as no more worth than what's between her legs (or as in that bust baby clip what is--or isnt--in her throat).
Women especially like to feel beautiful and admired/adored for her beauty... but the Black woman instead of being adored for her beauty as a person, is summed up to her pussy and ass... and when she tries out to be the object of beauty in these videos and magazines, and advertisements, she isn't given an opportunity to participate UNLESS she is showing pussy, tits and ass... so rather than sit at home she sees her worth to get men excited by what she can do sexually.
When was the last time you saw a man get so excited he jumped out of his seat for a woman talking about politics... now when a bird says she got no tonsils he ejects himself into the air!
Women as a whole are seen as sex objects, white, black, other... its just that, when a white woman is sexy, she's called a femme fatale or a bombshell... a Black woman is a slut or bitch.
Look at the way men behave: They fear commitment, they like non committal sex, and many of them wouldnt bother to speak to women if it wasnt for pussy. So pussy is the only stronghold to make a man do. Men are so weak for female flesh, so women show flesh to make men weak, because for the majority of base men out there, that's the only thing that will do it. Other than that, he's elusive, disconnected, and distant. Only pussy excites him. So what is a woman to do?
3/4ths of Black women will NEVER get married
In this country women have been so weakened that her body is her only bargaining chip.
Sorry if I offended anyone with the writing of this post.
-TonyaTko