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:lol: This is a different situation because the nigga always pays me back on the day he says he will but the shit gets annoying because when he hits me up I already know what the nigga wants. The shit that bothers me is the motherfucka always tries to make small talk first instead of just asking for the money. Anybody else have a friend that only chops it up with you cause he needs to borrow some shit(but always pays it back on time)? I dont even consider the dude a friend anymore I just loan him the dough and charge him crazy interest!
 
hollywood cole sr. said:
:lol: This is a different situation because the nigga always pays me back on the day he says he will but the shit gets annoying because when he hits me up I already know what the nigga wants. The shit that bothers me is the motherfucka always tries to make small talk first instead of just asking for the money. Anybody else have a friend that only chops it up with you cause he needs to borrow some shit(but always pays it back on time)? I dont even consider the dude a friend anymore I just loan him the dough and charge him crazy interest!
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I do but for every 25 dollars my people borrow i make them give me 5 extra dollars back so if they want 200 i need 240 back..... make it worth your wild:yes:
 
Webbootie God said:
I do but for every 25 dollars my people borrow i make them give me 5 extra dollars back so if they want 200 i need 240 back..... make it worth your wild:yes:
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Shit I GO the long way fam. Every 30 I charge an extra 20. Thats why I dont trip because Im making money with my money but why all the small talk before like I dont know why you are calling me. It kinda insults my intelligence.
 
hollywood cole sr. said:
Shit I GO the long way fam. Every 30 I charge an extra 20. Thats why I dont trip because Im making money with my money but why all the small talk before like I dont know why you are calling me. It kinda insults my intelligence.
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id get shot...

at the memorial day BBQ if I tried that mess:smh:
 
playahaitian said:
id get shot...

at the memorial day BBQ if I tried that mess:smh:
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Why? Desperate people pay interest out the ass. How do you think credit card companies get rich. This dude is a weed head and spends money he doesnt have before he even gets it. Fuck it, Ill give him the money but I just dont like the small talk.

doggish_098 said:
naw bruh left them niggas behind in my 20's
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I feel you man but I keep trying to teach this nigga that he is just throwing money away when he borrows it, he wont listen.
 
normally i dont have that issue with male friends but some female friends. although its normally some off the wall favor and not money because most people know im tight. the funny thing is i may not have heard from a person in months then they'll hit me up out of the blue but dont ask for whatever until a couple of days/weeks later.

i just got in the habit of letting these people go to voice mail then hit them back by text. i use to lie even if i could help but now i just say no for the most part.

the people who only contact me when they need something are not my real friends and more than likely they never ask the people who they keep in regular contact with for help or even let them know they are in need.
 
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guyver said:
normally i dont have that issue with male friends but some female friends. although its normally some off the wall favor and not money because most people know im tight. the funny thing is i may not have heard from a person in months then they'll hit me up out of the blue but dont ask for whatever until a couple of days/weeks later.

i just got in the habit of letting these people go to voice mail then hit them back by text. i use to lie even if i could help but now i just say no for the most part.

the people who only contact me when they need something are not my real friends and more than likely they never ask the people who they keep in regular contact with for help or even let them know they are in need.
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Thats real. I mean this nigga was my dude for damn near 12 years. He doesn't know how to manage his money and lets hoes stay with him for free. Every time he ask to borrow money I always ask.."you have two bitches staying there, why are they not dropping cash?" I never get an Answer and give him the money. Like I stated he has always paid it back every time on time so that is not the issue. I just hate the fact that he always try to get some small talk in before he asks. I am actually coming up every time he borrows so I dont t wanna cut that free money off but I wanna make it clear that I know he is on some bullshit.
 
doggish_098 said:
naw bruh left them niggas behind in my 20's
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There you go...if you dont need the extra dough, let that shit go to voicemail, dude aint your friend anyway. It got the point where one of my so-called best dawgs who I've known since age 7 would only reach out when he needed work done and then try to lowball me or ask for shit on the arm. Always starts off with the small talk, then "hey...I was trying to find out if you could..." Come to find out hes lowballin me cause hes trying to make $ for himself on the sneak. But'll tell everybody oh thats my brother, thats my main dawg right there

Right now this cat couldnt get a warm cup of piss from me if he was on fire and wont even look me in the eye when I see him.
 
hollywood cole sr. said:
Thats real. I mean this nigga was my dude for damn near 12 years. He doesn't know how to manage his money and lets hoes stay with him for free. Every time he ask to borrow money I always ask.."you have two bitches staying there, why are they not dropping cash?" I never get an Answer and give him the money. Like I stated he has always paid it back every time on time so that is not the issue. I just hate the fact that he always try to get some small talk in before he asks. I am actually coming up every time he borrows so I dont t wanna cut that free money off but I wanna make it clear that I know he is on some bullshit.
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i feel you but i dont believe these type of people respect or fuck with the people helping them out. the giver is just a means to an end in their mind and some how theyre winning. neither party involved has respect for the other and in the long run may cause more problems .what happens when he decides his not giving you shit or just no interest? however you decide to handle it will end up being more work than you'd like.
 
guyver said:
i feel you but i dont believe these type of people respect or fuck with the people helping them out. the giver is just a means to an end in their mind and some how theyre winning. neither party involved has respect for the other and in the long run may cause more problems .what happens when he decides his not giving you shit or just no interest? however you decide to handle it will end up being more work than you'd like.
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It will probably end with me saying fuck it, Keep that shit. I dont sweat pennies because in the long run he is going to need to borrow more because his money management skills are weak as fuck. Perfect example, the nigga doesn't have a car...when he gets a little money guess what he buys? A bigger hard drive for his Xbox!!!? I mean what grown man does that shit? The dude screams pimp and has two females living with him but tell me why is he borrowing bus money from me? I feel like a nigga is trying to insult my intelligence but thats impossible coming from a nigga like that.
 
blackmarket said:
There you go...if you dont need the extra dough, let that shit go to voicemail, dude aint your friend anyway. It got the point where one of my so-called best dawgs who I've known since age 7 would only reach out when he needed work done and then try to lowball me or ask for shit on the arm. Always starts off with the small talk, then "hey...I was trying to find out if you could..." Come to find out hes lowballin me cause hes trying to make $ for himself on the sneak. But'll tell everybody oh thats my brother, thats my main dawg right there

Right now this cat couldnt get a warm cup of piss from me if he was on fire and wont even look me in the eye when I see him.
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Thats How it is with this nigga. I wont hear from him in like a week. The nigga will hit me up with" whats good fam slide through", Five minutes later it is "let me borrow a dub for some green" :lol: This shit is like clock work fam...every single fucking time without an exception! I keep breaking the bread because he always pays on time and I clock him interest but damn nigga stop with the lame ass small talk!
 
no....but my wife does. and that bitch is mad aggravating. she always seems to wanna come around and borrow shit around the holidays. hoe gets on my fuckin nerves.
 
Hes giving you the bullshit small talk because he knows he aint shit. He knows that the only time he fucks with you is when he needs something so he gets with the chit chat to make himself feel better about borrowing your money. When he gets to the point of just asking for money without the chit chat that means he doesnt give a fuck anymore and you probably wont get your money back.
 
He's not your friend if you charge interest.

I would distinguish between money for a dub sack and essential needs but if you're making money off of your chump associate I don't see what your problem is.
 
Jae said:
just curious, how old is he?
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27 :smh:

Coldchi said:
no....but my wife does. and that bitch is mad aggravating. she always seems to wanna come around and borrow shit around the holidays. hoe gets on my fuckin nerves.
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Damn are yall separated?

BGLR1212000 said:
I got a homeboy that always need a ride, but at least he shoot me gas money.
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This nigga asked me to shoot him to the grocery store today:lol: The grocery store is one 5 minute bus ride..he has two bitches living with him...I live across town:lol: I shot that shit down.

W.M.D. said:
Hes giving you the bullshit small talk because he knows he aint shit. He knows that the only time he fucks with you is when he needs something so he gets with the chit chat to make himself feel better about borrowing your money. When he gets to the point of just asking for money without the chit chat that means he doesnt give a fuck anymore and you probably wont get your money back.
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Thats the thing pimp...Im about to tell the nigga fuck the small talk joe, how much you need. If the nigga dont pay back the chump dub then he is cut off. Im actually the only cat out of all the old homies that still fucks with him, so he will be up shits creek!:lol:
Costanza said:
He's not your friend if you charge interest.

I would distinguish between money for a dub sack and essential needs but if you're making money off of your chump associate I don't see what your problem is.
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Thats the thing, I wouldn't charge him interest for essentials. He borrows 20 here and 30 there for weed sacks and brew. The problem is Im tired of the lame as small talk. Ill be talking to the nigga and he will be like "what you on today?" Ill be like "shit".After that its a long ass pause cause I aint got shit to say and just be waiting for that "Yo you think I can..." :lol:When that occurs its like "YEP" CHING CHING!:dance:
 
Naw my 'boys know now to ask me for no money. They'd ask they girl or moms before they ask me. I'd never ask one of my boys from money. I mean I guess if you have to you have to but I think its a fucked up thing to do to a person you call your friend.
 
dtownsfinest said:
Naw my 'boys know now to ask me for no money. They'd ask they girl or moms before they ask me. I'd never ask one of my boys from money. I mean I guess if you have to you have to but I think its a fucked up thing to do to a person you call your friend.
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See the they way I was taught was there isnt a such thing as friends so any nigga I kicked it with I made sure we was fam. I dont have a problem hitting niggas off with what they need but you know how you grow up and some of your guys just refuse to? Its one of those situations.
 
RunawaySlave said:
those ain't friends, those are users. I know people who TRY we probably all do
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Yeah Im starting to feel that but the nigga always pays back with the interest and on time...so in turn Im the user making at least 100 bucks every month of dude...He probably thinks he is getting over by only hitting me up to borrow :lol:
 
hollywood cole sr. said:
Thats the thing, I wouldn't charge him interest for essentials. He borrows 20 here and 30 there for weed sacks and brew. The problem is Im tired of the lame as small talk. Ill be talking to the nigga and he will be like "what you on today?" Ill be like "shit".After that its a long ass pause cause I aint got shit to say and just be waiting for that "Yo you think I can..." :lol:When that occurs its like "YEP" CHING CHING!:dance:
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So you call him "homie" and shit but you admit that you aren't friends and you don't want to be friends with him?

Cutting off the small talk may be bad from a business perspective, as inauthentic as it is. Then again, the moron may not give a shit, how would I know? But it's a possibility.
 
hollywood cole sr. said:
Yeah Im starting to feel that but the nigga always pays back with the interest and on time...so in turn Im the user making at least 100 bucks every month of dude...He probably thinks he is getting over by only hitting me up to borrow :lol:
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well, if he always pays back that's different, probably just going through a rough patch...
either that, or he setting you up for the big score :lol:
 
Costanza said:
So you call him "homie" and shit but you admit that you aren't friends and you don't want to be friends with him?

Cutting off the small talk may be bad from a business perspective, as inauthentic as it is. Then again, the moron may not give a shit, how would I know? But it's a possibility.
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The nigga has been a hommie for damn near 12 years so Its hard to just say fuck that nigga...When a nigga didnt have a place to stay or something to eat his family would take me in. The problem stemmed from him never being pushed out the tree and having to fend for his own. He aint never not lived with his moms up until the last couple years..I actually looked at him like a little brother. Its just getting to the point where his priorities are so fucked up. I guess with the way we use to hang..he thinks mines are just like his but I have more paper. I always try to explain to him that we are not lil thug niggas running around anymore. I got a whip nigga cause I busted my ass for it..I got a crib cause I busted my ass for it. He has a crib cause he gets a check every month that is gone soon as it touches his pocket. The nigga wants to be a pimp so bad, he has two good for nothing bitches in his crib and they dont drop a dollar. I try to chop it up with him and explain what he is doing wrong but he always comes up with some fucked up logic on why they dont bring shit to the table.
 
RunawaySlave said:
well, if he always pays back that's different, probably just going through a rough patch...
either that, or he setting you up for the big score :lol:
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A rough patch is not borrow money to supply your weed habit. That is what the money is for...EXCLUSIVELY!! Like I stated..Im at a point in my life where 20 bucks is not shit to me. If he wants to burn that bridge over a dubb..shit go ahead..I didnt loose shit, he lost a good friend thats been there.
 
It was this dude that I use to work with everytime he wanted to borrow money he would give me some important info about the job then ask me can he hold something
 
i had one person like that..borrowed a good amount...said he would pay me back within a few months..i was like cool....few months turned into a few years....id ask him about it until he told me one day over the phone "that if i keep asking about the money, then i won't get my money" :hmm::angry:..what was even more unbelievable was later on i had got a internship at a top fortune 500 company and i was getting paid..and he knew it because he saw me with a car, new wardrobe..all kinds of stuff..one day before spring break he calls me up wanting to borrow money so he can stay at a hotel or something even though he owes me money already..:lol::hmm::smh:...lets just say he was removed permanently from my circle shortly after
 
callbacc said:
It was this dude that I use to work with everytime he wanted to borrow money he would give me some important info about the job then ask me can he hold something
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Man remember when I said up there the nigga asked me if i could run him to the grocery store that was 5 minutes up the street? Why am I going to pick up my money from dude today and the nigga asks again? :lol: basically he didnt go yesterday and waited it out starving for me to come over and take him while I was there :smh:
 

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