wow...shockingly i agree
just b/c a dude let's u answer his phone or announces he is with his girl doesn't mean he aint cheatin
-the "other" women can be cool w/ it and not say anything, its actually a thrill to speak to his girl on the phone knowing he's fucking u
-one of my boy's showed me in his phone my name and like 3 other girls numbers under my name b/c his girl knows who i am (yeah messed up right...lol)
-and NO he doesn't have THAT many damn female cousins
i'm sorry...having a lot of male friends shined light on some slick as grimey shit that they can do to get away w/ things
oh and don't sleep...chics are doing the same

To answer the OP, I don't answer their phone and I don't feel like I should. Even if I were given the green light, I still wouldn't do it.