Dating in 08' - Ladies, I need some feedback.....

Aight playa. Its all good. Good luck chasing them bitches mayne.

You all good, mayne! You got alot of cheerleaders! They bitches too! :lol:

Seriously, I let females come to me not because of insecurity, but I don't want to waste my time. I am good with females who are not feeling me for whatever reasons, I am not the guy cussing females out cause he bought them a drink, fighting another brother for the number, etc., etc.

Also, I am in total agreement that being 40, single, and hanging with 20 year olds is a BAD LOOK. <<MY WIFE LEFT ME>>. Secondly, I did try hanging out with people my age, and they are so lame and bitter, it was DEPRESSING, not much to look forward to..

Finally, hey, I have actually been doing pretty well, I do get a lot of women chasing, but not my top pick. Got a couple tonight with the same question :lol:

In the Atl, it takes money and persistence to get the cream of the crop females, was just looking for a short cut :lol: I appreciate the response even from the HATERS, but seriously, its all love:dance:
 
It's not a good look to be 40 and single, and you say assume that a 40 year old man automatically doesn't have his shit together? What about a 40 year old man that is single because he is a widower? Does that make him a "loser" too? :rolleyes:

So this brotha "loses points" because he is 40? :confused: If that's the case, then that means that a single woman over 40 is clearly in the red being that "majority opinions rule" and society values women on their physical appearance as a way of determining their worth or "date-ability"


Well I personally think at 40 you should stop all that chase and game shit. If it ain't worked for you in 20-25 years of your life, then maybe you're doing something wrong. Maybe you should take heed and try another route. Not be all up in the club chasing young tail.

I think the same definitely goes for women.

Focus on other things in your life. Know when to bow out gracefully instead of looking like a loser chump.
 
Quit trying to run game on women. Just go for a simple hello and spark up a conversation. Most of the time the women that will fall for the game, lines, or any kind of shit like that arent the ones you wanna make the wifey. They might be ok for just sex tho
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dude, it still seems like uve got some psychological issues u dealin with..

the Ex musta really fucked up your head mayne..

just the way u keep comparing yourself by physical attractiveness to your boys screams your emmense insecurity.

even if u think u look as good as u say,
can knock it out in the bedroom, etc...

the fact that u even mention all of this and focus so much on your (and your boys :smh:) outer attributes shows that somethin aint right about u inside..

..and trust, women can sense it.

at 40, ure supposed to have all of this figured out already my dude.

hell, actually by your early 30's u should.

the best thing a single dude your age can do IMO,
is quit hangin with a crew of other hardlegs like u still in high school,
and roll solo for dolo..

women like to see a man stand alone on his own when they make the decision to deal with u.

it shows a level of confidence and solidarity that is sexy to a woman.
unfortunately, what seems like confidence to u,
is really your arrogance (mentioning "checkin your ego" when u holla @ a broad is a dead givaway) crippling your game.

i can bet the cool low key dude that came in alone to the spot,
sippin his drink in the corner,
is the one that is still fuckin the same chick (who calls HIM) that wouldnt call u back after that night u cracked.


p.s.,

..and STOP mentioning how attractive your boys are, and how they look like " Reggie Such-and-Such".

that "no homo" shit dont work when u talkin on some homo shit. :hmm:


www.rkellyisguilty.com
 
dude, it still seems like uve got some psychological issues u dealin with..

the Ex musta really fucked up your head mayne..

just the way u keep comparing yourself by physical attractiveness to your boys screams your emmense insecurity.

even if u think u look as good as u say,
can knock it out in the bedroom, etc...

the fact that u even mention all of this and focus so much on your (and your boys :smh:) outer attributes shows that somethin aint right about u inside..

..and trust, women can sense it.

at 40, ure supposed to have all of this figured out already my dude.

hell, actually by your early 30's u should.

the best thing a single dude your age can do IMO,
is quit hangin with a crew of other hardlegs like u still in high school,
and roll solo for dolo..

women like to see a man stand alone on his own when they make the decision to deal with u.

it shows a level of confidence and solidarity that is sexy to a woman.
unfortunately, what seems like confidence to u,
is really your arrogance (mentioning "checkin your ego" when u holla @ a broad is a dead givaway) crippling your game.

i can bet the cool low key dude that came in alone to the spot,
sippin his drink in the corner,
is the one that is still fuckin the same chick (who calls HIM) that wouldnt call u back after that night u cracked.


p.s.,

..and STOP mentioning how attractive your boys are, and how they look like " Reggie Such-and-Such".

that "no homo" shit dont work when u talkin on some homo shit.
:hmm:


www.rkellyisguilty.com


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I tried my damndest to stay outta this thread, b/c some of the stuff I heard my man saying had me :smh::eek: But the ideas some of you have about 40+ yr old folks is ridiculous, and obviously written by VERY young folks who still think 40 is like being a senior citizen(wait til you get there :lol:). Being 40 & single is not a good look? To whom? There's prolly a 50% chance SEVERAL of you will be 40 & single. Last I heard, the divorce rate isn't going down. As far as hangin out in the club at 40, do you podna. Personally, I enjoy a lil older crowd. But this juvenile mindset that, by 40, you're living in a house, 2 kids & a wife is gonna be a helluva rude awakening for some of the fam. I wish yall luck.

You want to elaborate on that?

I want to know what to expect...
 
Noir is a nice spot. They have live music on Thursday nights. Peters st is one of my favorite spots. I'm 36 by the way. Superfriends parties are usually the over 30 crowd. Hawks games in the club level is a sure place to get the "pretty" ladies you seek.
 
I have some of the same problems as the o.p.

It sucks being me sometimes.
All these women think I've had like a hundred partners.
They say I come across like a player and too good to be true. :confused: [Idiots] :hmm:

WTF is wrong w/ you ladies?! :angry::angry:
 
Well being 40 ain't going to make it much easier hon. You shouldn't be in clubs. You should do lounges like www.taboobistro.com or www.sambucarestaurant.com . If you are that refined enough to know to get a manicure, then you should know of these spots already.

If you're 40 and still trying to date 20 year olds well, happy hunting is all I can say.

40 years old?

lol damn kats need to be mackin at church's and bars not clubs at that age...

go on and get yourself a "deacon" title and them old folk will sweat ya
 
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