Damn why the f*** is it American women can't cook?????

[itwazuntme]

The 2nd part of my response was not directed at you so I don't see the point in you mentioning all the many places you have been. I only mentioned that fact to say that I have traveled throughout the US and have had the opportunity to meet other AA women outside of my immediate block.

Now me saying this argument was pointless was more so referring to me defending African American women to West Indians/ Africans because yall are gonna think what you want to.

When I mentioned "tv dinners" I was quoting Leroys original complaint about chicks taking "tv dinners" to work. I never said your mother was on welfare *shrugs* I'm not even sure what your point was with that.

Either way it is ignorant to classify and/or categorize any one particular group , sex or race.

My point in mentioning my mother was not just to say she wasn't on welfare (female games...your selective referencing) it was to counter you comment...specifically

as long as she works, she's not on welfare and takes are of her kids

. My mother worked, took care of us and cooked too...is that really that difficult to comprehend? The T.V. dinner comment may have referenced Leroy's "original complaint" but it was said within the syntax of the reply to your message to me...thus it was relavent.

Now me saying this argument was pointless was more so referring to me defending African American women to West Indians/ Africans

Defending isn't what we need as black men and women sista...we need reconcilliation. We have serious issues, when it's too difficult to cook a hot meal for a man. Vice Versa, it's a serious issue when a black man won't work or can't stay out of prison. So it's not all on you.

Either way it is ignorant to classify and/or categorize any one particular group , sex or race.

I'm not classifying, I'm specifically speaking from experience and I can name the women and give you their email addresses to validate what I'm saying...can you do the same. Because I don't think you can find 99 out of 100 American sistas who cook for their man or even know how to cook. It was not a priority with our past generation of women, they were too busy tellin' their daughters..."You can do anything a man can do", "don't listen to him, keep your own mind". It is a fact, west indian women and african women take pride in providing meals for the families, this came from "West Indian Women and African Women I spoke too directly". They don't consider it shameful or submissive...American black women do.

 

[ccunny]

All the rap aside, the fact still stands. Many Black American women can not cook. The original post was on point. Times have changed. Women work more, are more comfortable being single mothers.

Again cudos to those women who still recognize the benefits of taking care of their home in the old fashioned sense. Truly there are many problems that we face as a society, especially in Black communities. The first step is to recognize and accept these problems.

Perhaps with time we can then deal not only with drugs tearing apart our communities, but gangs, poor educational standards and lose morals amongst others.

Once we have life, we always have hope.

Some kinds of truth are hard to take admitedly. However in talking about cooking, noone is suggesting women should be slaves to men, it is simply a recognition of changes that are not beneficial to society as a whole.

It seems most of the female posters know how to cook. I ought to start a thread and get some recipes! There is nothing like adding a new dish to one's menue!!!!

 

[ccunny]

I did not make any assumption. You jumped on my post too quickly and failed to grasp the simple things I stated which are unfortunate realities and truths of life today.

Please take a deep breath and remember, the person writing this is a human being just like you, and if you were to take the time to, you might actually like them.

Meanwhile tonight i dedicate the old song by Lionel Richie "Easy" to you....

 

[Blunt]

All the rap aside, the fact still stands. Many Black American women can not cook.

And many Black American men can't read or write beyond the 6th grade level. So what's your point?

 

[ccunny]

Blunt, exactly.... you will never get the point.

I definitely dislike you and your confrontational style.
You started jumping on my contributions and obviously did not take the time to read them. This topic must be getting on your nerves. Too bad. It is the truth. Suck it up and go buy yourself a cook book. While you are at it get a new vibrator cos you sure as hell ain't getting no real dik with your attitude.

 

[MzKittyDelicious]

My point in mentioning my mother was not just to say she wasn't on welfare (female games...your selective referencing) it was to counter you comment...specifically . My mother worked, took care of us and cooked too...is that really that difficult to comprehend? The T.V. dinner comment may have referenced Leroy's "original complaint" but it was said within the syntax of the reply to your message to me...thus it was relavent.




Defending isn't what we need as black men and women sista...we need reconcilliation. We have serious issues, when it's too difficult to cook a hot meal for a man. Vice Versa, it's a serious issue when a black man won't work or can't stay out of prison. So it's not all on you.



I'm not classifying, I'm specifically speaking from experience and I can name the women and give you their email addresses to validate what I'm saying...can you do the same. Because I don't think you can find 99 out of 100 American sistas who cook for their man or even know how to cook. It was not a priority with our past generation of women, they were too busy tellin' their daughters..."You can do anything a man can do", "don't listen to him, keep your own mind". It is a fact, west indian women and african women take pride in providing meals for the families, this came from "West Indian Women and African Women I spoke too directly". They don't consider it shameful or submissive...American black women do.

Since I am not allowed to selective reference the key points... ill just leave it at you just proved my original point right.

 

[MzKittyDelicious]

And many Black American men can't read or write beyond the 6th grade level. So what's your point?

Blunt, if I don't agree with your crazy ass on any other thread... I 100% agree with you here. Mark this shit down in history as the first and most likely last time we ever agree!

 

[mrjamaica]

Where I work at 80% (at least) of the employees are women and about 90% of them can't cook...they bring microwave "dinners" in for lunch and they marvel at the fact that I cook my own lunch (usually a humble meal I'm not a great cook)...you have chics as young as 20 to chics as old as 50...CAN'T COOK...I even seen one chic fukk up a chicken pot pie in the microwave...this is sad...how is this generation of American women plan on building up nourishing our kids when all they can do is microwave food...I mean the shit is ridiculous...white women Black women they can't cook for shit...this is why it's crucial for me to get with a woman with Carribbean roots that she still upholds and values...! Rant done...!

CO-SIGN I SEE IT TOO GLAD I GOT ME A JAMAICAN WOMAN

 

[HustleHardah]

Ya'll sound like FOOL'S. I have a Black American woman that would cook any broad out the kitchen. And dont make me call on mom, her food has made niggaz literally fight each other over it.

 

[ccunny]

Ms Kitty, I notice that you were the only one on this thread who gave the lame excuses for why many women of color in America today are unable to cook.

Those excuses are as lame as you are.

Excuses are tools of incompetent people.....

Our society has progressed so much and digressed so much.. The excuses support the digression...........

You are also the one who cast negative aspersions about African women and Island women. Not good.

I am offended about your insinuation concerning my education level, but that is the sad thing about online encounters. People like you who do not have a GED can claim to have a PHD.

In your case I am sure your PHD is for Permanent Head Damage!

Perhaps if you had done a thesis on decent human behavior you might have a clue about life. Perhaps you would have understood also the many comments concerning the factual occurence of non cooking black women in this modern world.

 

[MissStarKitty]

You around the wrong women. I know plenty that can cook and some that cant. It depends on the person and how they was raised.​

pretty much. I was born in America, and I cook every nite for my man and kids, and they LOVE IT. Then again I credit my cooking to my elders who were born in other countries...But there are plenty of American women who cook and cook well.

 

[itwazuntme]

Since I am not allowed to selective reference the key points... ill just leave it at you just proved my original point right.

Wrong...but you just don't get it and I don't think you will...the laughter smilie is an insecuritie trait, because you really don't get it... God Bless you though and good luck with the microwave meals.

 

[MzKittyDelicious]

Ms Kitty, I notice that you were the only one on this thread who gave the lame excuses for why many women of color in America today are unable to cook.

Those excuses are as lame as you are.

Excuses are tools of incompetent people.....

Our society has progressed so much and digressed so much.. The excuses support the digression...........

You are also the one who cast negative aspersions about African women and Island women. Not good.

I am offended about your insinuation concerning my education level, but that is the sad thing about online encounters. People like you who do not have a GED can claim to have a PHD.

In your case I am sure your PHD is for Permanent Head Damage!

Perhaps if you had done a thesis on decent human behavior you might have a clue about life. Perhaps you would have understood also the many comments concerning the factual occurence of non cooking black women in this modern world.

What in the hell are you talking about? I haven't even been following along with anything you have said on this thread so you coming at me from the left is totally ridiculous. What I don't get is this if you dislike African American women so much why are you on a porn site that highlights them?!

 

[MzKittyDelicious]

Wrong...but you just don't get it and I don't think you will...the laughter smilie is an insecuritie trait, because you really don't get it... God Bless you though and good luck with the microwave meals.

This response goes out to everyone and not just the author. My pet peeve is when someone starts an argument, throws some sort of insult out and then ends it with a God Bless...

I don't know about yall, but the God that I bow down to teaches me to love all and not try and label, generalize, or criticize others. IN addition, he teaches me not to use his name in vain.

I may disagree with a person but I don't have to insult them to prove that I am right.... then put the God Bless band-ade over it. How coward is that?

itwazuntme you just showed your ass and by doing so once again proved me right. Whats funny is your the one who lacks understand which explains why you resorted to throwing insults.

I am now done.........................

 

[MzKittyDelicious]

pretty much. I was born in America, and I cook every nite for my man and kids, and they LOVE IT. Then again I credit my cooking to my elders who were born in other countries...But there are plenty of American women who cook and cook well.

Well apparently cooking for your husband and kids is not good enough... you have to go register with some sort of National Board and have your "cooking visa" stamped by a representative from the islands in order to have your worth as an American Woman validated. lollll

 

[itwazuntme]

This response goes out to everyone and not just the author. My pet peeve is when someone starts an argument, throws some sort of insult out and then ends it with a God Bless...

I don't know about yall, but the God that I bow down to teaches me to love all and not try and label, generalize, or criticize others. IN addition, he teaches me not to use his name in vain.

I may disagree with a person but I don't have to insult them to prove that I am right.... then put the God Bless band-ade over it. How coward is that?

itwazuntme you just showed your ass and by doing so once again proved me right. Whats funny is your the one who lacks understand which explains why you resorted to throwing insults.

I am now done.........................

Honestly I'm not concerned about your pet peeve and I don't recall ever insulting you personally. If you can point that out, let me know. You don't get it, that's not an insult, it's a fact. God is not a band-aid and I really do hope he blesses you and you get it someday. I am a believer...that does not make me a coward....hmmmmm...I don't ever remember calling you these types of names. You cursed as as an insult in your rebuttle and then called me a coward and go on a spill about what God teaches you...You sista have issues. Something, very recent has gone really wrong in your life...no doubt.

If saying "you just don't get it" is showing my ass, then yes, I showed my ass. You have a hard time accepting male opinions don't you? hence you probably have a really difficult time in relationships. What is there not to understand? my mother worked, took care of us and cooked...American Sista's should take a page out of the book of West Indian and African Women's book....end of understanding.

Please let me know what I don't get? I'm all ears.

Wow you are a piece of work...You'll be alright though...count to 10 and then breathe. Last post....you're welcome to the last word...cause I just know you got to have it...poor thing...all this over cookin' a hot meal.

 

[HustleHardah]

my mother worked, took care of us and cooked...American Sista's should take a page out of the book of West Indian and African Women's book....end of understanding.

Please let me know what I don't get? I'm all ears.

Wow you are a piece of work...You'll be alright though...count to 10 and then breathe. Last post....you're welcome to the last word...cause I just know you got to have it...poor thing...all this over cookin' a hot meal.

You must be a very busy man. How long did it take you to visit every black american womans household to make that generalization?

You sound more bitch than the women of all things to cling onto you pick cooking? With your logic it would be safe to say, all islander's cant think since ive never heard of any modern inventions discovered there. Get over yourself & stop the foolishness.100

 

[MzKittyDelicious]

I am now done.........................

*whispering* I've already stated I was done....

 

[MzKittyDelicious]

HustleHardah... you wanna come over my house for dinner? I'm making chicken pad thai noodles. Now I can add shrimp but your gonna have to give up the drawls if seafood becomes involved lollll j/k

 

[itwazuntme]

You must be a very busy man. How long did it take you to visit every black american womans household to make that generalization?

You sound more bitch than the women of all things to cling onto you pick cooking? With your logic it would be safe to say, all islander's cant think since ive never heard of any modern inventions discovered there. Get over yourself & stop the foolishness.100

Nigga quit tryna hustle some pussy on a discussion board. You about ignorant too...what do you know about logic? You aint impressin' nobody simp...pick cookin'...it's about principles fool...Yea as a matter of fact I did visit "Every" black American Womans household...and I suggest you stop jackin' off and do the same...simp

stuck on myself...one
"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit."

 

[HustleHardah]

HustleHardah... you wanna come over my house for dinner? I'm making chicken pad thai noodles. Now I can add shrimp but your gonna have to give up the drawls if seafood becomes involved lollll j/k

What you want me to bring?

 

[HustleHardah]

Nigga quit tryna hustle some pussy on a discussion board. You about ignorant too...what do you know about logic? You aint impressin' nobody simp...pick cookin'...it's about principles fool...Yea as a matter of fact I did visit "Every" black American Womans household...and I suggest you stop jackin' off and do the same...simp

stuck on myself...one
"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit."

You still typing? Thought you'd be in your apron whippin up something by now benson.

Edit: Stuck on himself cuz he thinks he can cook! I tell you, bgol didnt have such faggotry back in the day.

 

[itwazuntme]

You still typing? Thought you'd be in your apron whippin up something by now benson.

Edit: Stuck on himself cuz he thinks he can cook! I tell you, bgol didnt have such faggotry back in the day.

Yea, what I'm sayin'....you arguin' with me and someone offered to cook you chicken pad thai noodles....now that's faggotry.

Some of you they should have kept on the boat, nigga's always missin' the point, to prove a point

 

[MzKittyDelicious]

What you want me to bring?

just bring your appetite darlin *winks*

actually I changed the menu for tonight... I'm making pork chops and rice w/ grilled onions. I don't know if you eat the swine?! lolll

 

[HustleHardah]

just bring your appetite darlin *winks*

actually I changed the menu for tonight... I'm making pork chops and rice w/ grilled onions. I don't know if you eat the swine?! lolll

Nah don't do the pork thing ma. I'll bring a pizza "since i cant cook" and we can kick back & chill.

 

[itwazuntme]

Nah don't do the pork thing ma. I'll bring a pizza "since i cant cook" and we can kick back & chill.

"I'll bring a pizza "since i cant cook" and we can kick back & chill"...yea, now that's how you do it right there......

Well I cooked grilled salmon with dill sauce and cracked pepper, grilled zuchinni and squash with rosemary potato's and rosemary sage sauce for me and my son...shit I like being benson and my boy eats good too...

 

[HustleHardah]

"I'll bring a pizza "since i cant cook" and we can kick back & chill"...yea, now that's how you do it right there......

Well I cooked grilled salmon with dill sauce and cracked pepper, grilled zuchinni and squash with rosemary potato's and rosemary sage sauce for me and my son...shit I like being benson and my boy eats good too...

Man don't you see me and the lady vibing? I was being sarcastic, but your menu is on point. Maybe I can hire you to come cook for my date with MzKittyDelicious.

 

[itwazuntme]

Man don't you see me and the lady vibing? I was being sarcastic, but your menu is on point. Maybe I can hire you to come cook for my date with MzKittyDelicious.

Bet...I'll hook it up proper like too....no doubt.

 

[HustleHardah]

Bet...I'll hook it up proper like too....no doubt.

Thats whats up homey. No disrespect, but mutual respect is all i ask.100

 

[MzKittyDelicious]

Man don't you see me and the lady vibing? I was being sarcastic, but your menu is on point. Maybe I can hire you to come cook for my date with MzKittyDelicious.

Bet...I'll hook it up proper like too....no doubt.

Thats whats up homey. No disrespect, but mutual respect is all i ask.100

*shrugs* fuck it... lets just have one big cook out on Saturday

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Why do you guys even debate sometimes?? You gotta realize the SOL-Exception. Every woman on SOL is a 5-star chef, they all fuck and suck like pros, they all give their man space and they all don't nag.

 

[brickcityplayaz]

Fixed...it actually takes them longer to heat up there microwave dinners than it does for me to heat up my cooked food...they are just lazy...

I have to agree with this.. Women are getting lazier by the freakin second.. I am dealing with a female right now that can't cook she freakin burn oddles and noodles how the f*ck do u do that.. I had to show this chic how to cook fried chicken lol... And their man reasoning is that they work a lot wtf.. I am a good cook I actually like cooking I live alone so Ihave to cook for myself.. I usually ask her to cook just to see the response she will give, but she is quick to talk about marriage I be wanting to say b*tch no one will marry ur non cooking ass...

I don't know about these woman nowadays.. I mean damn I am not a dude that will just sit back and let the female do all the cooking, but I am not going to sit backand cook all the time just because u can't cook.. For the ladies that love the microwave and those quick meals out of the box get it together for real... And to the ladies that is holding it down don't get so up tight we are not talking about YOU..