Common sense question that I cant wrap my mind around

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I can't figure out why monogamy is so important to people. I understand it keeps folks from having to wonder about paternity in some cases, but other than that, what purpose does it serve? What difference does it make if your girl not fucking somebody while yall are "together"? She was certainly fucking somebody before you. Call me stupid, but I dont get it.

Bitches be soooooo hurt when you fuck somebody else. I'm like bitch, I was fuckin plenty before you got here.
 
All humans dont think the same

Very true.

I’m not sure if you have a woman or are married, but if you’re comfortable with having another man’s dick in her pussy mouth and ass that’s on you.

But most men wouldn’t like or accept that.

Monogamy goes both ways, she’s free to do whatever just like you. Most people aren’t comfortable with relationships like that.
 
Very true.

I’m not sure if you have a woman or are married, but if you’re comfortable with having another man’s dick in her pussy mouth and ass that’s on you.

But most men wouldn’t like or accept that.

Monogamy goes both ways, she’s free to do whatever just like you. Most people aren’t comfortable with relationships like that.
Most men talk out of both sides of their neck. I dont fall into that category. Maybe I should...
 
Most men talk out of both sides of their neck. I dont fall into that category. Maybe I should...

Do what you feel, but one can’t expect others to be monogamous with them if they’re not doing the same.

If you’re into open relationships, there’s women out there who are interested in that. You just have to find them, but most women aren’t. And neither are most men.
 
Very true.

I’m not sure if you have a woman or are married, but if you’re comfortable with having another man’s dick in her pussy mouth and ass that’s on you.

But most men wouldn’t like or accept that.

Monogamy goes both ways, she’s free to do whatever just like you. Most people aren’t comfortable with relationships like that.

Exactly, guys like to look at it one sided, they’re like “I believe i should be able to fuck different women but if the woman said “OK WE can fuck other people“ then he’d be looking like HOLD UP!!!! Only a small percentage of guys would be able to handle the thought of giving their gf/wife a goodnight kiss knowing she just came back from fucking another guy
 
Do what you feel, but one can’t expect others to be monogamous with them if they’re not doing the same.

If you’re into open relationships, there’s women out there who are interested in that. You just have to find them, but most women aren’t. And neither are most men.
Fair enough
 
Exactly, guys like to look at it one sided, they’re like “I believe i should be able to fuck different women but if the woman said “OK WE can fI know other people then he’d be looking like HOLD UP!!!! Only a small percentage of guys would be able to handle the thought of giving their gf/wife a goodnight kiss knowing she just came back from fucking another guy

And this is all I’m saying!

Men want the woman to be monogamous but they want to be free to do whatever they want. It doesn’t work that way.

So if you have an issue with monogamy, make sure it goes for both people in that relationship.
 
Bitches can be tricky and cunning plus legally they have the power to destroy a black man with just phone call to the boys. Finding one that on the up and up is hard enough, having more than one is damn near impossible especially if those two have to get along with each other.
Look for whatever reason you got to do what you got to do, be smart about that side chick you are fucking but don't think you can pull off a kumbaya permanent three-way, where you can get twice the pussy all the time without thinking shit can go sideways.
 
And this is all I’m saying!

Men want the woman to be monogamous but they want to be free to do whatever they want. It doesn’t work that way.

So if you have an issue with monogamy, make sure it goes for both people in that relationship.

it’s the same with guys wanting threesomes, if the woman said okay you can me and another woman this weekend and next weekend I’ll have you and another man, MOST men are gonna frown up and be like HELL NO!!, because when the man was thinking about it in his head he was just looking at his side of the enjoyment
 
it’s the same with guys wanting threesomes, if the woman said okay you can me and another woman this weekend and next weekend I’ll have you and another man, MOST men are gonna frown up and be like HELL NO!!, because when the man was thinking about it in his head he was just looking at his side of the enjoyment

Exactly!
 
it’s the same with guys wanting threesomes, if the woman said okay you can me and another woman this weekend and next weekend I’ll have you and another man, MOST men are gonna frown up and be like HELL NO!!, because when the man was thinking about it in his head he was just looking at his side of the enjoyment
Threesomes only work with girls who like girls. The chick would need to like girls, at least a little bit.
 
Threesomes only work with girls who like girls. The chick would need to like girls, at least a little bit.

You’re right and that’ll work for that week...


























































































But what about the next week when she gets the threesome that she wants?

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I think it's an idea that's been pressed on us, but that's just me.
Humans act this way because of training. If you were raised in a house with your dad and three women, you would, and eveyrbody's dad had three women, you would want that, because it acceptable in your eyes and it is acceptable in the eyes of society. Monogamy is a trap created by property owners at the beginning of Agricultural Revolution. Most people fucked who they wanted to fuck. Frankly, they had cults where women were the servants of the Gods. A lot of the women serve pussy to the patrons of that God. So, a whole lot of whoring was going own, but it was okay because it was for the Gods. Frankly, it was okay because it was okay to the culture. Children were apart of the community. Everybody reared them. Then, the ownership of property came and they wanted to know which kid should have the money after they were gone because you did not want to take care of everybody. It stopped women from being their natural selves, women and animals will fuck the most power of the group so their spawn will have the greatest chance for survival. This didn't stop. Now, the most power became the nigga with the most gold. Subliminal like a motherfucka. Over time You have a tradition; and we are now saddled with this bullshit.
 
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Humans act this way because of training. If you were raised in a house with your dad and three women, you would, and eveyrbody's dad had three women, you would want that, because it acceptable in your eyes and it is acceptable in the eyes of society. Monogamy is a trap created by property owners at the beginning of Agricultural Revolution. Most people fucked who they wanted to fuck. Frankly, they had cults were women were the servants of the Gods. A lot of the women serve pussy to the patrons of that God. So, a whole lot of whoring was going own, but it was okay because it was for the Gods. Frankly, it was okay because it was okay to the culture. Children were apart of the community. Everybody reared them. Then, the ownership of property came and they wanted to know which kid should have the money after they were gone because you did not want to take care of everybody. It stopped women from being their natural selves, women and animals will fuck the most power of the group so their spawn will have the greatest chance for survival. This didn't stop. Now, the most power became the nigga with the most gold. Subliminal like a motherfucka. Over time You have a tradition; and we are now saddled with this bullshit.
Solid ass explanation
 
Threesomes only work with girls who like girls. The chick would need to like girls, at least a little bit.
You’re right and that’ll work for that week...


























































































But what about the next week when she gets the threesome that she wants?

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I been married 5 going on 6 years

But women that don’t like women have had threesomes with their man just to please him. If your wife said you two could have an open marriage would you do it?
 
But women that don’t like women have had threesomes with their man just to please him. If your wife said you two could have an open marriage would you do it?
Yeah, it would be cheaper than a divorce, but eventually a divorce is coming either way. If you asking for an open marriage, one foot is out the door anyway.
 
Yeah, it would be cheaper than a divorce, but eventually a divorce is coming either way. If you asking for an open marriage, one foot is out the door anyway.

Huh? but she would be doing exactly what you said most women couldn’t do in your first post, “wrapping her mind around the fact that momogamy isn’t natural”, so she should be the type of woman you;re looking for
 
Huh? but she would be doing exactly what you said most women couldn’t do in your first post, “wrapping her mind around the fact that momogamy isn’t natural”, so she should be the type of woman you;re looking for
I guess I can't get into the scenario, because that's on the list of things that will never come out of my wife's mouth. Maybe another lady in the future...
 
I can't figure out why monogamy is so important to people. I understand it keeps folks from having to wonder about paternity in some cases, but other than that, what purpose does it serve? What difference does it make if your girl not fucking somebody while yall are "together"? She was certainly fucking somebody before you. Call me stupid, but I dont get it.

Bitches be soooooo hurt when you fuck somebody else. I'm like bitch, I was fuckin plenty before you got here.

Ppl wanna feel special and important when they're not. Insecurity ruins many relationships.

Also, some ppl need the lie/fantasy of monogamy to feel secure about themselves with their partner.
The saying "truth hurts" becomes more clear to me as I get older. Reality can be quite the eye opener.
 
Exactly, guys like to look at it one sided, they’re like “I believe i should be able to fuck different women but if the woman said “OK WE can fuck other people“ then he’d be looking like HOLD UP!!!! Only a small percentage of guys would be able to handle the thought of giving their gf/wife a goodnight kiss knowing she just came back from fucking another guy

But dudes are doing this daily unknowingly. Bitches be out here mane fucking who they want, when they want. Whether men handle it well or not, women still gonna do what they feel.

Not saying all women be out there like that though.
 
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