College Educated Sistas I Have A Question 4 U?

[Melts In Ur Mouth]

Sure you may have different guys for different things.......but this is not <b>the role of a woman</b>. Which goes back to what I said earlier. You can not act like a man...........and expect to get a real man. PERIOD.
<b>WHAT HAPPENS IF YOU GET PREGNANT?</b>

The world does not work like that. Which on some level may "help" explain why a man of worth has not "chosen" you.

"The ROLE of a woman huh?" WOW!!... As you and I both know that has changed over time.

And I am pretty sure as a well educated woman, I should have a good understanding of how to protect myself.

And actually plenty of men of worth have "chosen me", Im just not at a point in my life where I want to be married or locked down..Im doin' me right now...You make it sound like just because a woman isn't jumping up and down to lock down a man that shes promiscuous, and thats not the case.

DD,

Being that most women are terrible at juggling and multi tasking, I thought it was funny that she said this.

Especially how it was worded. She's making herself out to be faster than road runner

AGAIN...It sounds like you're saying that just because a woman isn't jumping up and down to lock down a man, that she's promiscuous and thats not the case.
..and YES, women do use men for different things, doesn't make them FAST, just makes them real!

And then wonders why she hasn't been "trapped" yet...

Im not sure if you read what I wrote correctly. The question of "why I haven't been trapped yet?" has been posed to me by MEN, its not a question that I have...But the answer goes back to my original response. Ill be the one to decide when I'm ready for a MAN to have the luxury of "trapping" me.

One last point..Its 2008. If a woman doesn't have enough confidence in herself to introduce herself to a Man that shes interested in,then shame on her. SO..If approaching a person of the opposite sex is "CHOOSING" them, then it is possible for a woman to choose a man.

 

[mpthaking89]

women rarely approach men. period. But anyway, WOMEN (i put emphasis on the word) usually just go for guys that can hold their own...don't have to be no millionaire...but in some cases, money is all some people have to offer so I guess that would be the only thing making them attractive.

Women want a guy that's nothing like they've had before...just loves her and be the best man you could be and you'll be fine. Any man with some sort of drive and ambition will end up being successful in some way so you should'nt really worry if you don't have a degree. BUT if you ain't in college or never attended college and you're working retail or Mickey D's then you may have a problem.