To me the chick played herself. This dude had money to spend. She did not put a dent in his pockets. Then her story was confusing. She said that she did break him off a little then later in the podcast she said she what she meant was she only allowed him to eat her.
I thought she came up on some property or a car. Hell the only thing he did was buy her a few clothes.
GOod show. A man should only be a simp to his wife and family. Now I assuming that the wife is a very good woman. They are the only people that should receive everything. Men mess up so much by giving to a woman that is not deserving.My man you have made some very good points about a certain type of chick. The key is to have high standards and release a chick when you see ny warning signs that she is maggot. Most people who are listening to the show are only concerned with how scandolous the chick is. The more important issue is that a cat could simp so bad that he allowed himself to be treated this way. Any person male or female can only be disrespected if they allow it. Value yourself first & foremost and people will not find themselves in a similar situation.
GOod show. A man should only be a simp to his wife and family. Now I assuming that the wife is a very good woman. They are the only people that should receive everything. Men mess up so much by giving to a woman that is not deserving.
If your wife is a good woman there is nothing wrong with showing you wife love, respect,admiration and appreciation. Yet & still, NEVER SIMP!GOod show. A man should only be a simp to his wife and family. Now I assuming that the wife is a very good woman. They are the only people that should receive everything. Men mess up so much by giving to a woman that is not deserving.
GOod show. A man should only be a simp to his wife and family. Now I assuming that the wife is a very good woman. They are the only people that should receive everything. Men mess up so much by giving to a woman that is not deserving.
nigga fuck what you are saying...
You are acting like your woman can't leave you in a marriage...
Everything is 50/50. Thats the only way you can survive in any type of relationship. Did you just listen to the what the podcast was about? I mean DAMN!!!!![]()
If your wife is a good woman there is nothing wrong with showing you wife love, respect,admiration and appreciation. Yet & still, NEVER SIMP!
I don't think what BrownTurd said is bad ... what's wrong with showing your wife an extra amount of love??? If I understand correctly "simping" is when the man takes care of his womans every needs ... why wouldn't your wife deserve that if she is doing the same for him in return ... can't treat your wife like you would your girl ... then what was the whole point of getting married to herI think what's ironic is the same men(maybe not you 2)who normally say not to treat a woman too good are the same ones who go after the obvious chickenheads ... they are looking for a woman who is physically perfect, rockin' Gucci and all that other materialistic crap, etc ... you should expect dating a female like that that those are the same things she's gonna want from you ... why not try dating a more simple type of female who has more to offer mentally and emotionally then physically and sexually??? Honestly no disrespect but the 2 of you sound a little bit bitter ... I read the story about what homegirl did to you back in the day actinass ... it was really fucked up ... but that doesn't necessarily mean every woman has those same intentions
There are some women who deserve a man who will treat her like the Queen she is not like the bird who burned him back in the day
Every aspect of a relationship takes on some responsibility. I feel like my responsibility is to be there for my wife and kids. Her responsibility is to be there for me through thick and thin. Thats it... I'll treat my wife *whenever I get one* right, and she should do the same with me. We should be on a mission to have more for our family than more for one and another.. Simping will put a dude in the 70-30 range. To me, thats flirting with disaster. Women are just like men in this aspect, we get used to something. Once stuff change, lust comes into play. Then, that woman who you loved, you don't love so much anymore. Check the statistics, majority of marriages fail because of finances and sex. If you stay 50/50 majority of the time, then you would have a long and prosperous marriage.
I definately agree that a relationship takes 50/50 on everything from both parties ... but what's wrong with every so often you putting in a bit more then every so often her putting in a bit more ... I think when you really love someone sometimes it's okay to put yourself out there for them cuz you know they would do the same for you ... I guess you gotta really learn about that person first to make sure they deserve that ... I personally have had only bad experiences with men but that doesn't stop me from putting my all into the next relationship I get into cuz I feel he deserves that as opposed to only half my love cuz of my previous bad experiences
Please define "simping" for me as well ... I think I may be confused about what it entails
i said doing 50/50 MAJORITY of the time. It's cool to do it sometimes *I prefer the spontaneous approach better (im a cancer...)* to keep the flavor right.
As far as simping goes, this is a person that does something special ALL THE TIME. He calls you everyday, doesn't want you to do shit without him, and always giving you money when you are in a jam.
Now the last statement might put somein your head. Let me explain it like this. If you're an independent woman, taking care of your business, chances are YOU would get yourself out of a jam if you had too. Now sometimes, it is our job to help you get through a situation, but damn not all the time. How would you feel if a man ask you to help him out ALL the time?
I've had men like that in my life and they got the BOOT ... I'm very independant and don't ask anybody(except my parents)for shit ... I would feel lame if I needed someone to get me out of a jam ... I'm a grown ass woman and can mos def do it for myself ... and to be quite honest with you I've never actually asked a man that I was in a relationship with for anything(besides sexxx)... I just do me ... but sadly ... men try and take advantage of this ... I see men around me treating gold-diggers like Queens and then they see me as such a low maintenance kind of female that they almost take me for granted ... cuz I like the little things it seems they look down on me like oh it don't take much to make her happy so why tryBUSTAS
sadly, our society promote this. People think that a pimp is something of high regard, when its nothing more than a gold digger in a lime green suit. What happens with the niggas you are talking about is this. They fuck with a bitch that got a lil bit more game than what they had. So when the get turn out, they come to you expecting that game to work. What they don't see is the fact that you know the bitch games. So that makes them look like a fool because you know how, and when to defeat it. So thats what that is.
Be honest, there's a lot of women that sounds like you, however, I can't find one down here in Texas. Whenever that happens, actinanass would have a mrs.
Men should never drop there standards and neither should women. It's is up to the potential mate to raise there level up to that of the person they are pursuing. That's phsyically and mentally. To many men and women settle for less, thus perpetuating a bunch of average people to remain just average.HAHAHA ... I've always said that a pimp is no better than a hoe ... men can be gold diggers tooI'm 29 years old and have not been in many relationships so I've seen it all from dating different types of men ... I feel like I know pretty much all the games men play ... I catch on pretty quick too which seems to make them angry ... they do this
when I tell them I know what their next move is ... then they do this
when they're trying to deny it
And I've BEEN saying there are alot of good women out there ... but men sometimes have to drop their physical standards just a bit in order to find them cuz I doubt she would be lookin' like a video hoe ... probably still beautiful but not so made up ... do you go for average lookin' type chicks or them over the top video hoe lookin' broads???
Men should never drop there standards and neither should women. It's is up to the potential mate to raise there level up to that of the person they are pursuing. That's phsyically and mentally. To many men and women settle for less, thus perpetuating a bunch of average people to remain just average.
Okay ... but if you go out looking for video hoe type chicks everyday don't complain when they act as such ... just cuz she's super beautiful men think she's gonna be perfect in every other way too ... or they try to change her into the woman they want mentally and emotionally ... then they hate all women after she buns them ... all I'm saying is a persons mental and emotional state is more important than their body ... it's okay to have a girl that looks half decent but is more equipped in the mind and soul .. and if a person is great in every way except a little short on the physical side that doesn't make them "average" ... looks aren't everything ... I don't really even go for looks when I'm pursuing a relationship ... I look at the personality, and how he treats me and that is it(oh yeah plus the sexxx)
personality never got me a hard on, and a good nut. A nice face, and body on top of the sexual attitude one have has...
IMO, a dude would fuck any girl that he is attracted to at that certain time, however, what keeps us around is the overall feeling about a woman. Meaning, if you keep yourself up *body wise* like a video chick, and talk with some sense *like you are*. Then, we might do a couple more push ups, and come back home early....
Lowering standards does not solve anything...trust me..
To be a dime requires a tight physical game and mental game. Since beauty is subjective, The defintion of a dime differs based on who your speaking to. Yet & still cat's should aspire to get with a dime piece. No need to settle for an average looking out of shape woman because she has great conversation.But I'm not really talking about lowering standards ... I'm talking about focusing more on the personality and character than the physical ... so if you met a girl that had the right mental, took care of you ... etc ... but she was only a 7 as opposed to a 10 physically you wouldn't keep her??? Does she have to be an all around 10??? Cuz I don't think that existsA 10 is diff to everybody ... and trust me ... busting a nut off of a deeper connection than just physical is like busting 20 nuts all at the same time ... TRUST ME
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To be a dime requires a tight physical game and mental game. Since beauty is subjective, The defintion of a dime differs based on who your speaking to. Yet & still cat's should aspire to get with a dime piece. No need to settle for an average looking out of shape woman because she has great conversation.
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But I'm not really talking about lowering standards ... I'm talking about focusing more on the personality and character than the physical ... so if you met a girl that had the right mental, took care of you ... etc ... but she was only a 7 as opposed to a 10 physically you wouldn't keep her??? Does she have to be an all around 10??? Cuz I don't think that existsA 10 is diff to everybody ... and trust me ... busting a nut off of a deeper connection than just physical is like busting 20 nuts all at the same time ... TRUST ME
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You didn't get me, I focus on the whole thing. If I can stand 80 percent of a woman, *looks, personality, goals, ect* I can be with that chick. Connections die when a chick look like this....
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The 1 with the suit on.Which one are you???
The 1 with the suit on.
Steve Harvey and Stacy Adams collection doesnt men pimping. The point is I do my best to look presentable and I expect the same from my woman.