check this story about this career woman who got played ...
Here is the relevant part:
Basically, the way I see it - these are the easiest women to get played because they are so obsessed with their careers and if you feed into their drive by focusing them more on their career and how you are also interested in your career and them succeeding in theirs, you can easily keep their mind busy and away from questioning your absence/less time with them and time at "work" (i.e. another woman).
All you gotta do is find a woman who is very focused on her career (i.e. graduate student or some office professional) and sell yourself in a similar hectic work/career environment and even if your not in high profile career - just make yourself seem like your moving up the ladder constantly and have very little time, and make sure that if any questions arise, remind her that its all about her career - this feeds into the bullshit that women believe about putting their career before their family: all you have to do is tap into that woman empowerment/feminish/independence stuff and you'll build up inability to question you because it will remind her that she is strong enough not to need you all the time.
Also keep reminding her how the future will end up retiring early and spending our time together ...
Any thoughts on this?
My Boyfriend Was Living a Double Life
By Brittney Cason
One morning in December, I woke up where I had for the last three years: my boyfriend Donnie's bed. We had gone out the night before, so he wasn't excited about getting up at 6 a.m. to fly away on business, but he kissed me goodbye as he left.
I headed into town for work, and I received a Facebook message from the woman I thought was his former live-in girlfriend. She informed me that they never actually broke up.
The man I had been with for the past three years was living a double life, and I was the "other woman." I texted Donnie with the contents of her message. He replied with "that's crap - not factual."
But I gave her my number. She called immediately, and we compared stories for five hours, figuring out how he lived two lives. We bonded over the fact that he got caught on Facebook. (Stacy saw a picture of us on my profile.)
The whole time we were chatting, Donnie was chiming in via text. His approach went from denial to apology. He knew he was caught, and his excuses were exhausted.
I was shell-shocked at first, but thinking back, it all makes sense.
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Here is the relevant part:
Basically, the way I see it - these are the easiest women to get played because they are so obsessed with their careers and if you feed into their drive by focusing them more on their career and how you are also interested in your career and them succeeding in theirs, you can easily keep their mind busy and away from questioning your absence/less time with them and time at "work" (i.e. another woman).
All you gotta do is find a woman who is very focused on her career (i.e. graduate student or some office professional) and sell yourself in a similar hectic work/career environment and even if your not in high profile career - just make yourself seem like your moving up the ladder constantly and have very little time, and make sure that if any questions arise, remind her that its all about her career - this feeds into the bullshit that women believe about putting their career before their family: all you have to do is tap into that woman empowerment/feminish/independence stuff and you'll build up inability to question you because it will remind her that she is strong enough not to need you all the time.
Also keep reminding her how the future will end up retiring early and spending our time together ...
Any thoughts on this?
