Can a 29 year old date a 19 year old?

badboyyawdie

Rising Star
Platinum Member
Is this ok? :confused:




I met my coworkers girlfriend. She look young as shit, so I asked him how old she was. He said 19!:eek:
 
She legal ain't she? :dunno:

Don't know if we'd have anything to talk about but I'm not sure if your buddy wants to talk to her or not? :dunno:
 
date? like fall in love n shit? what on earth can a 29 year old and a 19 year old sit up the phone and talk about? :dunno:
 
She's and adult.

People need to stop being so judgemental about what others do.

If their cool with it fuck what anyone else thinks.

Society/people have a habit of forcing its/their own morals, beliefs and opinions on others even when there is no logic or reason in doing so.
 
Sure, she's legal. I'm 22 though and I wouldn't. I know a lot of 19 year olds who are fine as fuck that I would fuck the shit out of but outside of fucking, I couldn't see myself seriously dating a girl that young. A lot of them are just really immature and young ass minds. You can't really talk to them about shit. I'm sure there are exceptions but that's just how it is with a lot of chicks that age. I always thought niggas who are in there late 20's dating 18 and 19 year olds are lame niggas who can't get anyone in their own age bracket :smh: fucking is one thing but seriously dating??? :smh:
 
Sure, she's legal. I'm 22 though and I wouldn't. I know a lot of 19 year olds who are fine as fuck that I would fuck the shit out of but outside of fucking, I couldn't see myself seriously dating a girl that young. A lot of them are just really immature and young ass minds. You can't really talk to them about shit. I'm sure there are exceptions but that's just how it is with a lot of chicks that age. I always thought niggas who are in there late 20's dating 18 and 19 year olds are lame niggas who can't get anyone in their own age bracket :smh: fucking is one thing but seriously dating??? :smh:

Good point,:yes:
 
Grown men marry 13 year olds in other countries..so aint shit wrong wit fucking wit a 19 year old..
 
:dance: Half a man's age plus 7 is my guidance:lol:

elijahmdead.jpg
 
Not for everyone, but there is nothing wrong with it if she is legal. It might get weird when she start buying him skinny jeans with her allowance an all though............... :dunno:
 
Sure, she's legal. I'm 22 though and I wouldn't. I know a lot of 19 year olds who are fine as fuck that I would fuck the shit out of but outside of fucking, I couldn't see myself seriously dating a girl that young. A lot of them are just really immature and young ass minds. You can't really talk to them about shit. I'm sure there are exceptions but that's just how it is with a lot of chicks that age. I always thought niggas who are in there late 20's dating 18 and 19 year olds are lame niggas who can't get anyone in their own age bracket :smh: fucking is one thing but seriously dating??? :smh:

As real as it gets.
 
date? like fall in love n shit? what on earth can a 29 year old and a 19 year old sit up the phone and talk about? :dunno:

c/s

but it ain't my business. i gives a fuk what another couple do. i know i wouldn't be rollin up with her at an event or anything though....unless she was waaaaaaaay more mature than those ''i love drake and shiny folder stickers'' 19 year old girls out there
 
Have to agree with earlier posters. Yes, she's legal but, why would you? If I were ol' boy, I'd bump it up to 22 or 23. They can be just as young minded as a 19 year old but, it's obvious he is too. Otherwise, why would he even consider a 19 year old.
 
She's and adult.

People need to stop being so judgemental about what others do.

If their cool with it fuck what anyone else thinks.

Society/people have a habit of forcing its/their own morals, beliefs and opinions on others even when there is no logic or reason in doing so.

Preach brother
 
Depends on her mentality, girls vary in maturity. Like if she's listening to Soulja Boy going out to clubs every night :smh:

Personally, I wouldn't make her my girl and sport her around like she's one. She's someone to have fun with and fuck.
 
you can but i wouldn't recommend doing so.

fuck and no farther then that.

i got two 19 year olds now...just fucking...other then that they may stop by the office and chill since they live in the neighborhood. trying to be serious though? it'd be a headache...

females at that age are in that destiny' child mentality of "i got what you want but you gotta give me what i want for me to consider giving it to you" or just play games until you show them where they really are in your world.....then they become docile real quick
 
Wow...lessons of life...lol

If you want a real answer with no bullshit...then here it is...

1) This member said it best (bold)
2) Fact...(red)


She's and adult.

People need to stop being so judgemental about what others do.

If their cool with it fuck what anyone else thinks.

Society/people have a habit of forcing its/their own morals, beliefs and opinions on others even when there is no logic or reason in doing so.


And honestly...this is an immature point of view that sounds logical...
Note: I'm not attacking you...just making something clear


Sure, she's legal. I'm 22 though and I wouldn't. I know a lot of 19 year olds who are fine as fuck that I would fuck the shit out of but outside of fucking, I couldn't see myself seriously dating a girl that young. A lot of them are just really immature and young ass minds. You can't really talk to them about shit. I'm sure there are exceptions but that's just how it is with a lot of chicks that age. I always thought niggas who are in there late 20's dating 18 and 19 year olds are lame niggas who can't get anyone in their own age bracket :smh: fucking is one thing but seriously dating??? :smh:

1) In U.S. standards...she's technically legal (above the age of 18...can be younger if she already bared a child). She's just not legal to drink or smoke.

2) Age is nothing but a number...as you will see as you get older, there will be people under than you who's mentalities are or maybe younger than a 16 year old. You see more of people who are older in age who think they're mature because of age. But the reality of things are you are not mature until you learn from the lessons and experiences you've encountered in life. Some people are mentally mature at a young age.

3) You're view is from a young mind's perspective. Stop judging for a moment or stop thinking you're entitled to your opinion and look around you...be very observant. You'll notice that a lot females in your age bracket will look at you and other males as immature and when venture dating guys 3 to 6 years older than them thinking that they're mature enough to handle older dudes. Then notice that there are a handful of females who think they're really mature and the average guy their age is beneath them....those are the ones that chase after "Sugar Daddies" which in their minds are guaranteed finances (no love is really involved). Sum females your age will get turned out from sex (that older guy having more sexual experience than you)...again, these females will not entertain the thought of dealing or dating their own age bracket. Then notice how many females in your age bracket that wouldn't give the time of day to a guy 2 to possibly 3 years younger than them. Then pay close attention to how many guys who may fill lucky enough to date or have sex with an older woman....then ask yourself this very question again. You'll find yourself thinking differently....which backs the wisdom of maturity coming from lessons learned (being exposed to experience and learning from it thus bringing forth understanding) not age alone.


Of course, you do have some sicko's who will back your theory or be your prime example of why you view things that way.



Long story short. She's legal...if they are cool with it...who the hell cares...as long as they are happy.
 
She's and adult.

People need to stop being so judgemental about what others do.

If their cool with it fuck what anyone else thinks.

Society/people have a habit of forcing its/their own morals, beliefs and opinions on others even when there is no logic or reason in doing so.

Exactly , all 19 year olds don't share the same maturity level. Theres some 19 year olds that wouldput 25 year olds to shame in the maturity department. I don't think it's about age but how mentally seasoned someone is.
 
It takes a very special 19 year old to be able to vibe with u on your wave length, AND still be true to herself. Her maturity and understanding needs to be on 100%, is really what I mean. I'd say just have fun and enjoy her for as long as it lasts, but don't try to commit till she's of stable mind. Most 19 year olds still have no idea what they want outta life. Be careful B, I'm speaking from experience.
 
Shid i'm 29 and I have a cousin that's 19 and when she was born I'd sometimes have to babysit, feed her and change her...So there's NO WAY i'm dating someone 10 years younger than me:smh:
 
well my grand ma is 84 and my grandpa is 94,,,,,
if that weren't cool I wouldn't be here,,,,,,
they met around that age
 
Date, sure. Fall in love with, nope! If he falls head over heels in love with this chick, he's going to get his chest kicked in when she turns 21. Mark my words. She'll turn 21, and her older friends will help her "discover" what's out there by taking her out, and nothing good will come from that. It's cool to be with someone 10 years younger than you, just make sure they're at least 24 or so.
 
Back
Top