BGOL: Why A Dude That Like Big Girls Gotta Have Low Self-Esteem?

[Better]

I just argued for about fifteen minutes with an associate that NO ONE REALLY wants a big girl, no matter HOW pretty or curvy she may be.

What kind of shit is that? When was this rule enacted? That's like saying any dude that doesn't like blonde haired, blue eyed women have low self-esteem because they are put on a pedestal by the majority.

I'm not going to deny that some dudes pursue bigger women for reasons other than them being ideal, but that's just not true for every dude.

Remember porn star Angie? Ain't too many women made the hair fully extend on my scrotum like her. Why would I need to SETTLE for big women when it come to porn? You may not be able to fuck Bethany Benz in real life, but you can sure as hell stock up on her scenes if that's what you like.

Dudes that watch BBW porn as much as I have watch it because that's what they LIKE. Dudes who fuck bigger chicks in real life, but only watch average sized chicks and smaller in porn, probably are settling in real life.

I just like big chicks, who are very curvy, and cute/pretty. I'll take that over anything.

So, what ya'll got to say about that?

 

[The Untouchable GDFOLKS]

I just argued for about fifteen minutes with an associate that NO ONE REALLY wants a big girl, no matter HOW pretty or curvy she may be.

What kind of shit is that? When was this rule enacted? That's like saying any dude that doesn't like blonde haired, blue eyed women have low self-esteem because they are put on a pedestal by the majority.

I'm not going to deny that some dudes pursue bigger women for reasons other than them being ideal, but that's just not true for every dude.

Remember porn star Angie? Ain't too many women made the hair fully extend on my scrotum like her. Why would I need to SETTLE for big women when it come to porn? You may not be able to fuck Bethany Benz in real life, but you can sure as hell stock up on her scenes if that's what you like.

Dudes that watch BBW porn as much as I have watch it because that's what they LIKE. Dudes who fuck bigger chicks in real life, but only watch average sized chicks and smaller in porn, probably are settling in real life.

I just like big chicks, who are very curvy, and cute/pretty. I'll take that over anything.

So, what ya'll got to say about that?

People expect other to like what they like and if you dont then they assume is somthing is wrong with you. The world is filled with lemmings. I dont like big women but if you do more power to you.

 

[Duval's King]

People expect other to like what they like and if you dont then they assume is somthing is wrong with you. The world is filled with lemmings. I dont like big women but if you do more power to you.

Some ppl actually like Big girls.. everyone is not the same

 

[woodchuck]

I'm not REALLY into big girls, but they give the best blowjobs! Shit's like running your jammy through a car wash! Big girls are aight with me!

 

[SLY]

good luck wid that

 

[Upgrade Dave]

People expect other to like what they like and if you dont then they assume is somthing is wrong with you. The world is filled with lemmings. I dont like big women but if you do more power to you.

My brother, a big dude himself, can't get enough of big girls and smaller women stay trying him.

 

[ionblast]

Although I do think it does have something to do with dudes "settling", I also think it also has more to do with a matter of taste. I've known dudes who will be with a petite "dime" one day, and with a big one the next. They just didn't give a fuck. Big broads aren't necessarily my thing, but I've seen a few that could definitely get it. After reading the "TexKing" Ock thread , I can't even trip on dudes who are exclusive "chubby chasers".

 

[LoneStar29]

You are so passionate about your big fat white bitches ... its funny

 

[MurderCity]

People expect other to like what they like and if you dont then they assume is somthing is wrong with you. The world is filled with lemmings. I dont like big women but if you do more power to you.

x2

 

[Kwame Coltrane]

Fuck who you want and whatever type of females you into. Fuck the dick police, you the only one living your life.

 

[Mo-Better]

It's about your preference. If there's a gaggle of women around I'm not going after the bigger girls but that's me. But I'm not knocking another man's choice.

 

[Boo_Slim]

I'm into sexy.

Sexy comes in all shapes and sizes.

 

[Better]

You are so passionate about your big fat white bitches ... its funny

Big white women can get the dick too. Yes.

 

[BKF]

I'm into sexy.

Sexy comes in all shapes and sizes.

This right chere...but they got to be together and not all over the place.

 

[ScottyPiffen745]

Everybody's with somebody for a reason. It ain't really my business. I don't think a dude who's into big girls has low self-esteem.

Shit, I fucks with chubby girls if they're pretty, sexy or got a nice shape to 'em. It's not my preference but I do got a sweet spot for them though.

It's just that when they big...and UGLY, that's when it comes to the point where it's like "ok what the hell wrong is with this nigga?" Just like when they're slim and ugly.

But hey, it's his bitch

 

[fwillia]

To OP, if you were my dude I'd roast you on occasion (you ol' plumper chasin ass ni99a ) but at the end of the day if that's what you're attracted to then that's your thing.


I'd let a fat bitch suck my dick, so who am I to judge anyway??

 

[Rick Ronson]

Its just labels

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

The belief is that if you like bigguns than it's because you can't get what THEY consider FINE or SLIM. And you have no belief in yourself to even go for it, so like in any animal "pack"

you go for the ones u can GET. Not the ones who are fit and can outrace you.

It's also like a test of MANHOOD. I'm a better MAN than you because i can catch THIS, while you can only catch THAT....*upturned nose*

Fuck them. Fuck the gal you wanna fuck and enjoy the fat pussy YOU wanna enjoy, and if there's deeper meaning behind it? Fuck it. Get happy with what you want, let them be happy with trying to maintain themselves

 

[Better]

Real spit: I'm try to attend a Lane Bryant fashion show at some point in the near future.

I flipped through my mothers LB catalog one day and damn near pissed myself. Check the website and you'll see why.

 

[Mr. Del]

Big girls are popular because they're easy. I never had to wait long to fuck a fat chick.

 

[CPT Callamity]

Low self-esteem dudes will fuck ANYTHING let a lone a big chick.

I've had my share of different shapes and sizes. If I were to listen to "my boys" and accept their shame, not only would I not have any pussy whatsoever, I would have to stick to their type of little to no titties and a phat ass, which goes against my nature because I like a healthy balance and don't like little ass titties.

Do you. Fuck the rest.

 

[Complex]

At least you don't call them "thick" like a lot of the simps up here

 

[BKF]

Big girls are popular because they're easy. I never had to wait long to fuck a fat chick.

Yeah like you (well maybe you) have to wait long to fuck a slim chick.

 

[BGLR1212000]

I like all kinds of women, all sizes all colors

 

[kinglickk]

easiest pussy - big girl pussy. If u don't ever wanna work for it - big girl da way to go! (so I heard)

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

easiest pussy - big girl pussy. If u don't ever wanna work for it - big girl da way to go! (so I heard)

Easiest pussy low self esteem pussy. LSE isn't synonymous with bigguns.

 

[Mr. Del]

Yeah like you (well maybe you) have to wait long to fuck a slim chick.

Not necessarily slim chicks, but chicks with more options. Fat chicks put up very little resistance compared to a chick thats in shape.

That was back in the day, though. I don't really mess with fat chicks anymore. Phat, plump, maybe slightly chubby with great proportions. But fat? Nah.

 

[BKF]

Not necessarily slim chicks, but chicks with more options. Fat chicks put up very little resistance compared to a chick thats in shape.

That was back in the day, though. I don't really mess with fat chicks anymore. Phat, plump, maybe slightly chubby with great proportions. But fat? Nah.

Okay lets say slimmer. One thing I learned early on is that chics (slim to fat) want to fuck just as much as you. Now whether you are the one they want to fuck is another matter. Yet they are fucking.

 

[chitownsfinest]

I know I'd never win an argument about this, but I also believe that no one really PREFERS a big girl. And these days, with the majority of Black women being overweight, there are dudes who have never been with a normal-size chick. And please save the "I don't want no skinny chick" shit. I am talking about NORMAL-sized women...sizes 8, 10, or even 12.

Its like a game of musical chairs...the QUALITY normal chicks get taken FAST...and simps are left with the crumbs. And dudes been lying to big chicks for so long just to get SOME pussy ("I love big girls like you") that they start believing the lie themselves. And while big bitches aren't preferred, there are better than having no pussy at all. Plus I even agree that big chicks can be fun "novelty fucks"...but I will never believe that a dude would PREFERABLY WIFE a big chick over a similar regular chick.

Now with EVERYTHING ELSE being equal (looks, personality, etc), the size 10 chick will get picked over the size 20 chick 10 out of 10 times IF the dude had confidence in himself and his game.

Now there are RARE exceptions to the rule. Angie and the other light skin chucky porn chick that everybody (including me, can't remember her name) break this rule. But let's face it...how many of them are actually out there??? I dated a chick like Angie. And while she was fine as fuck and the shit in bed, I really never liked looking at her naked.

Again, I'm not on here to change anyone's mind...or argue with the plethora of fat chicks who troll BGOL because no one pays them any attention in real life. Let's just agree to disagree.

It is what it is.

-CTF

 

[Flawless]

becaue he is taking the easy way out, instead of hollaring at fine chics he goes the easy way for fat desperate chics who wont turn him down, but then again fucking a chubby chic can be fun

 

[Ryokurin]

Depends on what you are talking about.

If by big you mean Ashley Graham then no one is going to say shit. She's the average sized woman, despite what you normally see in magazines and TV.

But if you mean Big girls like most of these then yes you deserve to get clowned. There's a difference between women who are just naturally curvy and are still healthy and morbidly obese can't walk 50 yards without getting winded and still getting bigger women that a lot of guys gas up as being the bomb.

 

[the flash]

what flawless said
Fat women are an easy lay put it this way how many millionaires you see with fat women I'll wait...........................
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END OF THREAD!

 

[Cybts1]

Oh hell yeah !

 

[militantmidget]

easiest pussy - big girl pussy. If u don't ever wanna work for it - big girl da way to go! (so I heard)

Working for pussy is relative. If you are a regular dude, more times than not you gotta work for that dime (especially in America). If you start for the Lakers or you're the #1 artist in the country that dime gonna have to find a way to work hard for you.

With that said, I like small, thick, and big. They just gotta be cute/pretty with body proportion and preferably black or latina.

 

[Mr. Met]

Depends on what you're talking about.

'Precious' big? Then yes you're a disgrace and know you can do better.

If she's proportioned and carries her weight and attitude well, do you.